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Archived questions from: 28 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My sisters act like my mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My sister is eighteen, and I am fifteen. When I got into my teenage years, my sister kind of took on the role of being my mother. Nobody asked her do so, as I do have a mother who is ALIVE and who I live with. My sister constantly lectures me a...

I know it might seem that my ego is just wounded but I know there's something that isn't adding up! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years recently. I have a child and he was great with her. Before we dated, he claimed he was very open with his emotions but it couldn't have been further from the truth. He clammed up at any mention of emotions ...

I don't think he is completely over her and it worries me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - hi ok so me and my boyfriend have been together about a year now...the problem is i am utterly jealous of his ex girlfriend. they don't speak anymore... it ended on bad terms but i still find that i compare myself to her. I have seen phot...

Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a ...

Did I do the right thing giving him an ultimatum? How do you think he will react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I dated this man two years ago for 5 months and was utterly in love with him. We had an amazing connection, unlike anything I've felt before or since. We ended it because he had just come out of a serious relationship (he was engaged), which had ...

How can I cope with my partner working long hours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

28 June 2009 (?) - hi aunts and uncles im looking for a bit of advice from people with experiance of this. My fiance works A LOT he often does 12-14 hour days which means i barely see him. i usually feel him climb into the bed in the middle of the night. i k...

Is she just not ready for commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I met this girl and have known her for almost 2 months, from the start we just hit things off, and when i spent time with her, i had the greatest time of my life... she didn't tell me right away, but i found out that she had recently gotten out of a ...

I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with ...

I'm hurt and confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Ok, lets make this short as possible and understandable! i am a young woman with a 4 year old beautiful baby girl that i love more than everything. i lived a very hard life in the short time I've been on this earth, bad bad childhood, i never had a ...

What advice should I give to my friend who doesn't know where she stands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Hey! My best friend is 'seeing' a guy. She really likes him but he gives her mixed signals. They have gone on about 10 dates over 2 months. and i think after about 3 dates you know weither you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and comiit o...

It tears me up inside knowing he has had many sexual partners.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and have just moved in together. The problem is that the more I fall for him the more it tears me up to know that he has had many sexual partners. Since the move, I have found (written) ...

Lost love... how to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone this is my first time seeking help over the net. Lately I have been running out of answers and solutions. This is my love story. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years and 11 months. At the beginning of our relationship ...

Can my woman ever forgive me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years now in what has been a very loving relationship for most of the time. However last year she told me she had fallen pregnant and I was so deeply upset and mad at myself for letting it happen ...

My partner is stalking me and I'm really scared for my safety.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. About 3 years ago my partner started popping up in places he shouldnt have been like my cousins house - I'd never taken him there. Soon after this I noticed a group of people -mainly men in their 40's and 50's ...

He continues to break my heart but I need to see him to get closure. What should I say / do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - Okay so im so lost to where all i can do is cry and i never wanna leave my house... so i had just turned fifteen and i used to bowl. Well there was this guy there the night leage had come back around and the minute i saw him i fell head over hea...

I'm torn between my fiance and my best friend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I met my fiance when i was 16 (i'm 23 now), we hit it off straight away. we knew we would be good together. after 5 years of being together he asked me to marry him, i said yes. we were very happy and wanted to spend our lives together, we have now ...

A woman scorned -- is she ever gonna leave me alone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Well im in a situation, i had a married woman at work who wanted to have an affair with me. I was very attracted to her and it took alot of resisting on my part to get away. She wouldnt let go, she wouldnt stop playing "games" with me at work....

Boyfriend threw a chair across the room!! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years just threw a chair across the room because he got mad that I was questioning him about an online account he has. We live together now for 6 months and in the entire 3 years he has NEVER throw anything, let alone a chair!!! ...

My jealousy is getting in the way of relationships! How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I have a jealousy problem and I shouldn't be jealous because I have no reason to be... Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with it? I mean its starting to get out of control and I realized that tonight lol Because I made an ass out of myself ...

I'm soon to be married but met someone online and now I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I am soon to be married to my boyfriend of 4 years. Things are great between us that's why we decided that it's time to take our relationship to the next level. He's a seaman and although our times together are limited, he makes sure to call me 1-3 ...

Why do good people always get hurt in relationships?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - So why is it that good people always get hurt in relationships? Why is it that when you really are good, caring, honest, and above all loyal to another person you always get screwed over in the end? I have (and not to brag but) been told before by ...

I told her what she tried on made her look like a fat pig

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend dragged me to the mall to go shopping with her (it was really boaring). We were there for probably an hour of her trying stuff on. She tried this dress that made her look fat when she asked me what I thought about it. I said it made ...

Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk ...

Should I call it off or try and resolve this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - ive been with my girfriend for 4yrs nearly she we met one night kissed it went from there with txting meeting up kissing more etc come prom as neither of us openly had said we wanted a relationship she made out with as many guys as should could ...

So many half-commitments! Why can't she just tell me ...yes or no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago. I admit, as I did to her recently, that I realize that the way I was acting was kind of abusive towards her. Actually, I made a huge mistake and did and said something when she was leaving me ...

He was feeling a bit "nostalgic" indeed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (F) - I had dated a guy about five years ago - Our relationship lasted about 1 year. We were very passionate and I felt like we got along well and had a lot in common. Well we broke up eventually and he met someone new about 4 years ago. I told him I ...

The girl I like is with another guy, should I accept that I'm second best or continue to persue her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - There's a girl that I like. We met over the internet, and have been chatting for the past 2 months. We get on really well and have a lot of common interests. We even arranged to go on a date earlier in the month, but the plan fell through. Now it ...