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Archived questions from: 11 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I leave my husband, a serial adulterer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - How do people get brave enough to break up the family unit? It has been years of serial adultery (which I didn't realize until 5 years ago). All the children are now grown up. I have Multiple Sclerosis but I am keeping physically fit and go to the ...

Problems with my best guy friend! He's ignoring me now..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Things have got complicated with my best guy friend. We have been friends for 5 years and met at university. It all began with me liking him and flirting when we were out at partys and kissing (nothing more). However he got together with my friend ...

Husband can't get an erection! What causes this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hello, My husband lost his erection about a year ago. We can't make love, because he can't hold it. Do you know how to find out what is causing this? I would like to hear as much opinion as possible even if it's just one word. How do you find o...

I don't think he's in love with me! Should I even care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I am 28 he's 31 we've been married 3 years now. we haven't had sex in over a year, we kiss hello and he helps me around the house and stuff we don't talk much unless it's house or bills related. I suspect that he's seeing someone and when i asked ...

Dating on the phone for a year and she won't meet me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Hi,well me and my girlfriend have been dating over the phone for a year now.and i belive we fell in love and from the bottom of my heart i truly love this girl she is everything i have ever wanted.but the biggest problem is the fact she wont meet ...

I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's ...

Experiencing teenage stress problems just trying to grow up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the point that I felt so alone I cried every night. I have never had problems with making friends and get ...

If I forgive my ex and take him back, my parents will hate me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, ok I don't know what to do. I broke up with my bf of almost 3yrs. about a month ago. He liked to "joke" but I called it verbal abuse because I didn't like being called fatty or stupid. He has a temper but has never hit me, he punches ...

Six months is long time for him to be gone. I'm making myself ill just worrying about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. i am 20 and he is 22. we have a very good relationship, we enjoy each others company and make each other very happy. however there is one problem... at the end of this year he is thinking of going...

Can I get him back? Do men change their opinion on somebody?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi there! First of all thanks for the answer I can have :) I have known this guy for 2 months already, we went out at the beggining for a couple of days (have sex, being public together) and after a week of being intimate he dissapear. From ...

He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few time...

He's great in all aspects except he never contacts me, and I feel I'm doing all the work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. Im 21 and he's 28. We live 30miles from each other. We've known each other for years and after breaking up from my horrible ex, we've made a go of things. He is amazing....when ...

I feel like he couldn't care less if I was in his life or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i met 4 years ago.We agreed tha text messages and calls were ok and we'd c eachother when we can. Lately i feel like he couldnt care less if i was in his life or not.I seem to be makin morn effort with ...

She was an escort and posed for nude photos

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating a sweet, wonderful woman for two and a half years now. She's smart, beautiful, incredibly gentle and kind. I love her a lot and believe she loves me too. I even considered asking her to marry me. Recently however, she con...

He made a bet to take my virginity, I found out and hit him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

11 June 2009 (?) - My `boyfriend` is 23 and im 17 I recently gave my ``boyfriend`` my virginity (we both wanted it). Well I fonud out he made a bet with his friends that he could have get me drunk and have sex with me on his birthday. I was so mad that I punched h...

He snapped at me so now I'm not calling him..he's not calling me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone My boyfriend was away the whole of last weekend and I called him on a Saturday night and he told me he was with friends, they were in a noisy place, I understood that. He said he will call back when his in a quieter place, I waited ...

He's so nice sometimes but then I feel like he couldn't care less about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, i seriously need help and everyones opinion on this great or small because it's all i think about. I have loved this boy for 3 years, i have never said anything to make him aware of this but in year 10 we drunkenly slept ...

He's Going through depression and taking it out on me in horrific ways

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Not sure what to do, with the man I thought I wanted to marry but he's been going through a stint of depression and has been taking it out on me in horrific ways. He acknowledges this, and is profusely apologetic - and on his good days, when it's ...

I'm at my wit's end, please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boy friend going on a year now. And i love him and care for him dearly. The only thing is, is that he is suffocating me. He wont even let me talk to another man, and if we are out and he see's some guy talking to me he will cuss ...

Drugs, sex, and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm gonna begin by saying that in others eyes and views, what me and my boyfriend have would seem like a fairy tale come true. I wish it was that easy. I am 26, he is turning 30 in a cpl. wks., we met when I was 16, and he was my ...

There's more to life than men! What can I do to refocus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Can anyone give me any suggestions for things I can do to make me feel more positive about my life. I'm very lucky in a lot of ways with my family and friends but I've been used in relationships over the last few years, especially by someone married ...

We had the worse fight, do I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (?) - I keep telling my boyfriend not grope me in certain place because I don't like it but he won't listen. Well one day I was at his house (he's 22 and I'm 16) and we were making out he started touching my chesty bits. I kept telling him to stop but he ...

He wooed me but now he seems to be distancing himself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Dear readers, I'm a 36 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a 40 year old male. The only reason we are together is because he persued me and I eventually fell hook line and sinker for him! The first year I was showered in flattering texts ...

I just can't trust my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months and we've always had trust problems that's led us to breaking up twice, and he's getting really mad saying that i really can't trust him,and i don't know why i still can't stop worrying, just ...

My childhood love is now married, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Im 20 yrs old and im dating my best friend for ever. We have been friends for 10 years already when we were younger he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend i said no because i was way too crazy for him and i knew i would hurt him. i left for ...

I gave him an ultimatum that I don't want to be FWB anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Ok, so, last week I told my exboyfriend that he had to choose, I said "If you want friendship we can do that, if you want a relationship we can do that, if you want to not talk to me at all, we can do that, but I can't do this FWB's thing anymore." ...

If I go to the doctor with this, could my parents get in trouble? I'm very worried.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Im 25 and an inbread. my dads my mums uncle, she got sent to ireland to live when she was thirteen and ended up with him and had my brother when she was 17 and me when she was 21. nothing seems wrong with us but i did have a misscarrage 5 years ago ...