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Archived questions from: 14 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he tactfully trying to dump me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I have been hooking up with this guy friend of mine for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. Aat the time we met we were both going through relationship problems. He had just got a divorce and I had just moved out of my ex boyfriend's house. ...

I need help to try and forget about a guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I need help to try and forget about a guy. Hes come into my life on and off for the last 5.5 years, and its always the same, hes really nice, we have a couple of dates then we sleep together and then he cools off and then i don't hear from him for ...

Should I tell him about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I wrote in my other question about how i got raped by my bro in law and my sister chose him over me. And i asked whether if i was right or my sister was. But this time ive got another problem. I am gettin into a serious relationship about who my ...

In love with my best friend but can't help it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) - I'm in love with my best friend and i cant help it. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship. He is the perfect guy for me, he's funny, smart, cute, romantic and well perfect for me. He's constantly flirting with me, hugging me ...

I don't trust her when she goes out with her mates.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - Hello there, I'm currently in a relationship with this girl (for almost a year now.) She is really outgoing and a mostly a nice person. But she likes to go out a lot, with her 'girlfriends'. This bothers me somewhat, because all sorts of g...

A love saga... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy casually. We werent exclusive but despite neither one of us wanting to be in a relationship, we became close. He told me he loved me. 7 months in I find out he is living with a girl who has just had his baby!!! Apparent...

He's divorced but still lives in the same house with her and wants to stay over with me sometimes... I don't feel it's right. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have had a good friend for almost 14 years and we have dated off and on until the last seven years. we went our separate ways and he got married and had a family with someone else and so did I. So now i am separated getting divorced...

I wish someone would come into my life and give me some hope...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I'm so lonely that i cry about it most days. I'm recovering from a relationship where ive been messed around and had my heart absolutely crushed to pieces. I spilt up with my boyfriend 9 months ago after 3 years on and off. I've waited for him, ...

Haven't met yet in a year and I'm feeling insecure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - hey guys, well me and this girl have been dating over the phone for a year now and we havent met because she has trust and insecurity issues. Her last relationship was unhealthy with her ex abusing her sexually, physically and cheated on her as ...

He loves me..he loves me not..he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - i met this guy 3 years in october he keeped telling me that hes in love with me and then out of the blue he told me that he wasnt in love with me anymore and that he loves me deep down what should i do ...

Together for 3 years and still no sex, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) - So I have been dating a girl for almost 3 years. From day one she was against oral sex, which is fine. But I believed that after dating for a while she would be willing to have sex....3 years later an this has not happened yet. Basically, I am ...

Does she finally like me, or are we just becoming good friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - At the beginning of the school year, I was coming off of some very difficult situations and was emotionally clingy and needy. I had just spent 2 years in homeschooling and was virtually inept in social situations. And I fell in love. This girl, we ...

Any advice on how to deal with this jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - Hi people, I need some advice on how to deal with my feelings please! I’ve known this girl through work for 4 years. For the first couple of years we were very close, always hanging around together and flirting. Everyone said we would make a gre...

His friend is getting in the way and almost made us split. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my first boyfriend for just over 2 months now and we have hit a rocky patch. His last girlfriend dumped bcos of one of his friends that calls him to come out and he has had sex with this person twice in the past even tho she has a ...

I hate him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - Oh Gosh....i've never done this before but at this point i'm pretty much desperate. I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now. Of course at the beggining everything was nice. I never had a boyfriend b4 so i wanted to take things relly slo...

How can I help my friend get out of this sticky situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - Hoping for some sound advice here. Often some pretty good answers. I have a friend who is almost seventy who lost her husband a couple of years ago. She has continued to stay living here because her adult daughter and son in law are here. Her ...

Boyfriend's mother driving me insane!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriends mum is driving me insane. I am pregnant and this is her first grandchild so I understand that she is super excited. But she's being so controlling, it's unreal. She treats my boyfriend like he is a child (he's 23), she speaks to...

What can I do to get my lazy boyfriend motivated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - i dont know what to do with my boyfriend. he has no direction in his life, and he just wants to do things "his way". i tried telling him to go to collage with me to make our future easier, but he says hes not ment for collage.i even asked him if he ...

Its hard to be supportive and watch someone throw their life away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (M) - so... where do i start? So dating this girl for a while and fall in love... before we were dating she was dating a guy who went to jail for selling drugs.. So he gets our of jail and im S.O.L..the guys kinda of abusive so she seems to be in a ...

In love and expecting but he hates me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I am about 3 months pregnant by my x boyfriend. I found out that I was expecting about a Month ago, which is about the same time its been since we broke up. He will not be with me or give me "another chance" because he said i have hurt him so bad. ...

My dream relationship became a nightmare when we moved in together, he puts me down, do you think this is hopeless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is ignoring me all the time, I cant understand why, once we moved to live together I found him different person, not the one that I love , he always off from his work to his computer , then to take a nap , and he spend all the night ...

My ex threatened my first love, and told him lies, how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - 20 years ago I ended a relationship when I moved out of state. I never fell out of love with my first love but ended up marrying someone else 10 years ago. Last year I began my seperation with my husband, at the same time unknowingly my first love ...

It seems I am going to have to get over him, any effective suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - okay so i danced with my crush at prom, he was the one who grabbed me from behind and started dancing with me. While we were dancing; he took my hand and folded his into mine; he kept rubbing my arms and when we slow danced; he kept rubbing my back ...

What do you do when the people who hurt you are your family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

14 June 2009 (?) - I'm getting so FREAKING frustrated.. I've had many many hurtful people in my life. I've gotten to the point, that as soon as someone hurts me really badly, they're gone.. i don't even want them in my life becuase i know that they only lead to more ...

We are living together but now I feel nothing for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of only 4 months and I live together (I realize its a mistake to move in together so early) I'm 26 and he's 30. I have lived on my own for about 8 years and he is right from mom's house. The first few weeks were filled with argueing ...

Why is he hanging around me since we broke up? Waiting for something to come along?

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14 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend since march 2008,and i still cant figure out whats going on.things have always been a bit rocky and he has had a few commitment issues,as he is only 22.last november we got into an argument about something small,and i ...

Its only a matter of time before I ruin everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - I am confident and trust my boyfriend. I don't get paranoid or jealous, I don't care about him hanging out with other girls and I truly love him. However I am really good at hiding how insecure i am. A year ago I spent all my time with my current ...