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Archived questions from: 22 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why does my friend act this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a question to do with homophobia. My flatmate and I have been living together for a while now. She has known that I have dated women since before I moved in. The problem is that no matter how much I explain to her that I don't and will ...

I need a woman who wants me, not one who just needs me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid-forties and am feeling really down. My wife totally went off sex fifteen years ago when our children were born. She likes me to massage her feet or her arms, but that's it. She's quite honest with me about her dislike for sex, and at ...

Sex - disappointed, hurt, jealous...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I'm a female and have a strange issue in my relationship with my boyfriend. It appears that I am extremely jealous of him in the sex department. I'm becoming increasingly jealous and resentful, to the point where I cry about it all of the time. ...

Is there a way for us to successfully be together again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I love my ex, but we haven't seen each other in a year, we sometimes keep in contact, and most recently he has contacted me to reminisce about old times. He said if we were ever in the same city we should meet up. Recently my friend saw him in my ...

I feel alone, my family have literally abandoned me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - hey .. can u help me.? I'm getting more depressed. My sister is always out and doesnt never want to do anything with me any more. she is 18 and we have always been close. I am always home alone on my own an have nothing to do.. i have to sometime...

I don't feel a massive spark when I'm with him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I have a guy friend who told me he fancies me, but I didn't feel anything back because I was "in love" with a guy for a year who treated me awfully so I was blinded by this loser Now I'm seeing things more clearly.. although the guy friend who c...

Help! What should I do? I really like this girl but don't want be burned again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi all, I would like to get some feedback on this one.. 3 months back I met this girl. We met for drinks and it was all fun.. From the beginning she insisted that we would be casual. For me this was all good. I was badly burned before so being ...

Romeo and Juliette. Forbidden love, help.

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22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other since I was born. We are two years apart. Lately everyone has been stressed. My BFs mom died and his dad got fired. We helped each other through it. If anything it brought us closer! We were talking one day ...

Why is he nervous and not as nice to me when she is around and very interested when she is not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Thank you in advance to those who take the time to read and answer my question. I work with a guy who I like and I think he likes me too. Due to the fact that I am just out of a long term relationship though, I am in no hurry to get involved again. ...

Love or Lust? It's Confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I'm in my mid 20's. Me and my girlfriend "V" have been going out for almost 5 years. I love her with all my heart. we're pretty serious, and it's generally accepted by everyone we're going to be married. we talk about it. as soon as we both get our ...

What do women really want when they ask for space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I ...

How do I convince him to stop using her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I have this problem, I like this really cool guy, he is really nice cool and sweet and he is my friend so I got to know him really well. Here is my problem he has a girlfriend. I don't mind that and all but I found and I saw and heard that he was ...

I need to forget about him, but I can't...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Hey So it has been almost year since me and my ex broke up. It was due to his family issues (me not being same religion,wanted to get married,while his father was against it ... etc). We loved each other, I know that. Anyway .. he is with anot...

His family keep inviting his ex-wife to family gatherings, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I am in a tough situation. My boyfriend is divorced but his family keeps inviting his ex wife to family functions even though he has asked them not to. She also invites them to her family functions and they accept. Last December his parents ...

He has serious trust issues, how can I help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I have known my fiance for a couple of years but have only been together for about a year. He wants to get married, however, he is very stingy and everything has to be about him. I am open about everything including my bank account however,...

How should I handle seeing my ex-boyfriend again, he will be visiting me soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Help My boyfriend is coming around on friday for his car tax that arrived, we broke up six months ago after a 11 years he left me for another women. he never stopped texting me since he left and the texts have got much heavier over the last two ...

What is the difference between a committment phobic or someone afraid to be hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Can someone please tell me the difference between a true commitment phobic man and one that is just a bit emotional and afraid of being hurt in a relationship since he once was. Help don't want to waste anymore time....

Does "just good friends" always mean just that for a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Okay – I have been out of the dating thing for at least 2 years and was a bit rusty but started seeing a girl (she is 39 and I am 42) recently. We had an instant amazing connection - and still do! First four or five dates were very casual and we had ...

It's okay for him to be flirty with girls...but guys can't even say hello to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My bf makes me feel guilty and gets jealous if another guy just talks to me. So, to save his feelings, if a guy talks to me, I try to not really say much, hoping he will get the idea. But my bf still gets jealous and makes comments like "you're ...

Worried he will hurt me again, so now my guard is constantly up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - i was sort of in a relationship with this lad.. we both knew we were exclusive althought neither of us had said it.. and he went to meet up with this girl that he later ditched me for after we had a bit of a fall out. He got into a relationship with ...

Seems like she wants me around when she wants some!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hi im currently at uni and in a long term ish relationship, i have my holidays at the moment and have been spending alot more time with my girlfriend. i see her at least 3 times a week as oppose to every oher weekend when im studying. T...

If he wants to get back with me, why is he being so inattentive?

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22 June 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and nine and half months ago my boyfriend of four years decided to leave me because he thought we fought a lot.I admit we used to argue over small issues but I never thought he would make this a reason to break up with me.I was ...

Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to...

My boyfriends brother is dating a maniac! Should I do something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a brother named *Jack and he has a child with his ex fiancee who left him a little less than a year ago.. Jack started to see a girl recently named *Dianne. My first impression of Dianne was not a very good one, she never looked ...

How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - I guess my question is this: How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts? I'm feeling really confused. Sometimes I get this feeling that I'm just with my boyfriend because it's comfortable. Sometimes I thin...

I'm scared that she is just lonely and needs someone to fill the time...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Where to start, ok. Long story short i became very close to a bartender at my regular bar and things went from there. Im a very flirtacious lesbian, i am of the "dominate" persuasion so its very apparent that i am gay. i flirt alot of females str8 ...