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Archived questions from: 4 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I keep a relationship going in order for it to become a success?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - My problem is getting girls and keeping them, but i am 43 years old and was once engaged but that was nineteen years ago. my mother died in 90 and 3 months later my fiance finished with me, i went off the rails for a few years but just as things ...

I want us to be happy without all this arguing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together going on 5 years. We have a 2 year old son. We got together when i was 16. I love him very much and i know he loves me. The problem is that we argue a whole lot. It could be the smallest thing and get turned ...

A breach of date protocol?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of four years just asked if I was "interested" in going to a formal party his fraternity is throwing. I said sure, sounds fun. He then proceeds to tell me that tickets are $47. I'd been under the impression that when you ask somebody to ...

In love with my boyfriend's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - What do i do if i´m in love with my boyfriend's best friend? i have a biggg problem! i fell in love with my "boyfrieds" best friend. The thing is soo complicated, first of all he is not really my boyfriend, he is like my forever free but we are ...

Confused on what to do with my girlfriend of 4 months

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I've been my girlfriend for the past 4 months now and at the moment it seems like she's letting me down 24/7. she's my first love, I love her to bits and i really want things to change but the thing is, i see her about 2-3 hours a week even though ...

My best friend's brother took my virginity AGAINST my will and now I feel so alone and don't know how to handle this...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. in march, i went to a party.. everyone got drunk but it was a great night! my best friend's brother is 22 and he is about 6 foot 2 weighs about 18 stone and has muscles bigger than my head. he told me a while ago that ...

She says I'm not committed enough. Is this the case or is she too full on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I'm mid 20's - I've been with my girl for 7 months and she is my first girlfriend. She however has been in relationships non-stop since she was 16. Things are more serious it seems from her side (i din't see this at first but am realising it) as she ...

How to interpret this observation of mine

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Relationships are nice and an incredible part of anyones life, but we end up asking ourselves the same questions everytime... We are anxious about the love the other person has for us... Is it a normal human behaviour, after being with this girl for ...

He is complicated and hard to read

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Hi can anyone help me understand my man.We have been dating for 9mths.He is lovely and sweet and caring in lots of ways,however there is something that doesn't sit right with me.when i first met him he told me he doesn't believe in love,he thinks ...

Serious relationship problems, he's not affectionate, not caring, we are dirfting apart, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I need help with my relationship with my husband. We're drifting apart and I feel like I'm getting more and more depressed in life. We were going good in the beginning and sex was good and almost everyday. Then when we got married sex stopped and it ...

Would texting a woman be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My fiance has treated me like crap for 4 months RUDE!!! I caught him texting a girl from work now that he's caught, he's being really nice and things are back to normal, I don't know what to think. In my book Texting another female and hiding it is ...

Confused, she aborted her roomate's baby, says she cares about me, what am I to believe/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Ill try and keep this brief, but this is a complex situation, which is why i am asking for outside help(not friends and family who have their own agendas) Met this girl through a mutual friend 6 weeks ago and we have had some of the most romanti...

I don't want him to think I'll just drop everything and keep running back to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - ere's the situation: We've been dating for awhile. It's a long distance relationship, but we both went into the relationship knowing it wasn't going to be easy. He said we were in it for the long haul; good or bad. We got into an argument t...

Why do men change after you give them your heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - why when you give a man your heart he start to act different and don't want anything to do with you after a year into the relationship. then he refuse to answer any of my calls or even come around like he use to. it has been two months and things ...

He asked about my past, I told the truth and now he's acting differently

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I don't know why, but my boyfriend asked me how many guys I had slept with, I believe in honesty so I told him the truth even though I don't understand what the point is, it's him that I want. After I told him he kind of went all silent then said ...

Why do I question being with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Im so confused, im 22 been with my boyfriend 4 years, hes great, always there for me so romantic, loving caring, good job good morals, but ive broken up with him 3 times before as i wanted to play the field as i got with him so young and he was my ...

Should I confront her? She sent sexy pictures to some other guy as well as me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I just recently found out that my girlfriend lied to me about something. We met in Brazil in January, and unfortunately had to be apart for two months, as she had to go back to Scotland and I had to stay. During this time, we were a full-on ...

He's sexy and good looking - but is he the best I can get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I hate the situation im in. There's only one man out there that i want but i cant give him no one more chances! I was with my ex for 3 yrs on and off. He hasnt been the best hes got commitment issues in the 3yrs we were together. We only ever saw...

Is this something she needs to get out of her system?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Hi my name is Luke i am 21 almost 22 i have been with a girl for four years next month she is 20. we don't live together because she is not ready to move out. So i stay at her house 3-4 nights a week and she stays at mine once a week. (We live 20-30 ...

Am I being crazy unfair or just delusional?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I am getting married shortly to a man with 3 children. The children do not live with him and all have different mothers but they visit all the time. I have one child who is at boarding school. I would like another child with my husband to be. I am ...

Disrespected? Or over reacted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I live in Texas and met a guy who lives in North Dakota. We talked, emailes and texted everyday for about 2 months. He is in the military and was getting a long weekend off so wanted me fly there. I bought a ticket and off I went very excited to see ...

Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using ...

Relationship with my cousin, can't get over him, need help please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I had a short relationship with my 16-now 17- yr. old cousin. It ended and he started dating another girl. I had a couple other relationships, but in the end, I still really like him. Yesterday i found out my best friend had been talking and texting ...

Good friends, but she likes to compete with me, what can I do to help her be a happier person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been bestfriends for over a year now. When we first became best friends we were both good girls, good grades, inexperienced sexually. We've definitely grown since though. I have a steady, loving boyfriend. She's always ...

We argue all the time, he makes me cry, how do we make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - dear cupid: i have a problem, i want my relationship to work. i dont know what else to do' i hate arguing and it seems like we are always arguing about the littlest and stupidest things, and he makes me cry each time. i just dont know what to ...

How can I deal with his depression? This is really starting to drag me down.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend (19) and we've been together for just over six months. He has recently started a job in sales and leaves at 6am and gets home at 8pm (we don't live together). He has become increasingly depressed ...

I have a son with him, but I don't trust him and don't know what to do! Help, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - i found out my bf went overseas while i was away and he is hidin it from me. thats the 3rd time. others times a girl he went to. Also he have been seein a girl my friend told me she sees him all the time. i dont know wat to do and i dont trust him. ...

Relationship crisis--together but hanging by a string!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend for the past three years doesn't trust me because of a situation I was in pervously during our relationship. The situation is a minor one I think she's just insecure but she can't trust me now, in addition she can't seem to come to ...