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writes:i have one question... do friends have oral sex? like normal friend, with no relationship at all. just friend. and is it wrong if the girl wants to stop it and try to value herself more and don't let him touch her anymore... is that a bad thing? or is that stupid? she just wants to stop and he dun. she wants to go away and he called her stupid etc... wat's wrong with guys?? can't girl make their own choice now??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): What's wrong with guys? What's wrong with girls? Thinking oral sex is not the same as having intercourse is stupid. Sex is sex. Why not go all the way with a friend? See my point? Girls today think that having oral sex with a guy they aren't in relationship gives them power and coolness, when all it does is make them feel less than a whole human being...a toy to be used. Hell, when you give a guy head and he isn't your relationship partner, then you are just about as handy to him as a shirt pocket and are valued about as much as well.
So, yes, get rid of the losers and stop being a loser yourself and value your body and your being more. Keep your sexuality for a man you are in love with and faithful too and he reciprocates on all counts.
Girls do make their own choices, to be stupid, or to be a person of value and worth to themselves and others.
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reader, purplestar  +, writes (10 June 2009):
yes girl be independent! Don't ever doubt yourself and your feelings. If you want to stop, all power to you. Having just a friend who gives and/or you give oral sex is awesome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009): Friends do have oral sex it's called Friends with Benefits as i'm sure you've heard.
No, people have regrets all the time but since there is no way to change the past, all you can do is chagne yourself for a better future. If you have decided you value your body in a way that you don't want to do this anymore, then there is nothign wrong at all with that. I see it as a good thing.
I really think sexual acts should be saved for poeple yo care about anyway.
Don't mind what he's saying to you. He's just a bit hornier and not ready to give it up as you are so he's angry. But he will find someone else who doesn't care.
Don't worry about it and I applaud you on doing what you think is right, regaurdless of what he thinks of it.
~SY.
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