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Archived questions from: 7 June, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is moving back a mistake?

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7 June 2009 (F) - I am 21 and met this guy who was visiting my country over a year and a 1/2 ago. I went to his country and we lived together for about 1 year and I went back to my country about 6 months ago. About 2 months after I went back, he cursed me one night ...

Beast or lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Hi, guys, i need your advice. I've recently been dating a guy and im not sure of his character. He victimised a previous ex girlfriend by hacking into her mobile phone and monitored her messages. He shared intimate details of her to his friends and ...

How to break it off with my girlfriend and find a new lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - okay so I'm bi sexual but i like girls a lot more better and am more sexually attracted to women. But, I have a girlfriend who doesnt really intrest me and things aren't working out. I want to find a new girl to be with and one that makes me happy ...

I'm working with him on Friday, how should I react?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - For the last six weeks I was seeing a guy who had a girlfriend (some of you may have read my previous questions) and now I know how much of a mistake it was but unfortunately I really liked him and kept seeing him. He told me he wanted to break up ...

Help! My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me, I've tried EVERYTHING!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

7 June 2009 (?) - Ok, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and Im having a really big problem. We never have sex and when we do, its not very good. When we got together, we had amazing sex all the time. Neither of us were virgins but neither of us was THAT ...

When I drink, I hit him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - hi i really need help with a problem ,,, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years ,im 20 hes 25, we have a 10 month old son,, things are usually great between us,,, until we drink ,, its not him really,, mainly when i drink vodka,, i hit ...

He doesn't show me affection, apart from sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Well... Me and my boyfriend have been going for a couple months now, well from like October... And sometimes he`s really sweet and he`s stuck with me when I`ve cheated more than a couple of times. Anyway I`ll get to my point... he never shows any ...

He won't open up to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - i need help like really badly, im doing everything i can to make my boyrfriend be open with me its like he was this amazing perfect guy in the begining and now nothing he wont open upto me he wont talk to me about are relationship he tells me he ...

His wavering views on marriage is now causing a rift between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I have known my partner for 5 years, we have been living together for a year in a few weeks. He has had a difficult past with relationships and so have I but have made great progress. He has a son to a previous relationship which didnt work out and ...

Should I move to be with my fiancee while I look for work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - While I was in a long-distance relationship during graduate school, my boyfriend proposed to me. About a month or so later he confessed to buying another house and lying about it to me. This affected what I thought our relationship was (I thought he ...

He read my journal and accused me of cheating. Was all this my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months and I broke up today. Last night, while inside the gas station paying for gas, he stayed in the car and found my journal. He began to read it and found out that I slept with someone in the time between I broke up with my ...

Can't stop thinking about my teacher, but he's leaving

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I ...

Should I tell him I slept with his friend or keep quiet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so I posted before about wether or not to be with my current boyfriend. And I fell in love and we are/were doing great. My boyfriends best fried is also one of my good friends, we all met a long time ago (like 8 yrs). My boyfriend is suppost ...

We moved in together our sex life is nil, tired of me? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We have recently moved in together. But a couple of months ago our sex life seems to be only every now and again and only when he wants it. When i mention it he says hes tired or he cant be bothered. ...

Told my fiancee I cheated, what can I do to help heal the relationship and regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I finally did it today. I told my fiancé that I cheated. It was 1year 8 months ago. The guilt and agony was just too much. I was having anxiety attacks and nightmares. Like others have said I thought that I could keep it together and never tell. ...

Together for years, she's not happy, wants time to figure things out, how do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - Hi, iv been with this girl for 5 years almost, im 25 and she is 21. Recently she told me i cant communicate very good at all and that she feels distant from me. She told me she thinks we need a break and packed a bagful of cloths and left for her ...

Blast from the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I have encountered my ex on the fabulous FB. We have chatted back and forth and complimented each other on wall-to-wall. This is a man that I have never forgotten about and always wondered what happened to him. We were married in our 20's and ......

What to do... I'm in love with my best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - I am in love with my best friend. He and i work together and we see each other every day including weekends. I know his family very well and he knows mine. I even spent a long weekend with him and his family in Arizona. I feel like I've known him ...

How can I convince my boyfriend I'm not violent or rude now we have broken up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

7 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has cheated and frustrated me so much but I tolerated a lot of things and I loved him so much until one day he missed four appointments we had, I blew up and started texting insults to him like using the f word, cursing him out, saying ...