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He emotionally hurt me so how do I get over that?

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Question - (19 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

he said no guy will go for me. that I'm sensitive, that he never cared about. me and that he could live without me. he made my cry. it is impossible for me to get over him.i am sensitive. it was just a crush but i thought we were friends. i was so mad. i thought i was over him. now my life feels empty. I'm not over him. I've told most of my friends the story. what he said was unforgivable. then he tried to be funny. this was all by text. if you have an answer. please help me.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (19 December 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntGreat advice tracy i was just gonna say poison the jerk just kidding, well hes def a jerk i agree with tracy go prove him wrong just dont have a ton a rebound sex just see how many guys want to have sex with you when you see how many guys are into you you will see your BF was on that BS and stop telling everybody the story your friends dont need to know because they dont want to be dragging a killjoy around go out hang out have fun what happened is in the past never get back with this guy cut him off and out of your life move on stop talking to him see if you can get his number blocked and if he txt you saying these things save em and sue him for harassment, This is Amerikka you can sue Mc Donalds for making your hot Coffe to hot sue his @$$ that will teach him not to mess with

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A female reader, Tracy2u United States +, writes (19 December 2009):

There is nothing wrong with being sensitive. It sounds like he was tearing you down could be so he can control you if he can convince you no one else wants you then he has you. It may seem impossible to get over him but you can do it. Prove it to yourself. Go out with the girls and be flirty see how many guys heads you turn. However, never harbor unforgiveness in your heart. Just think of a time when your words may of hurt someone or your actions did weather it was on purpose or accident you still would want to be forgiven wouldn't you? Best way to handle him is smile and be kind to him it will throw him off but protect yourself. You may forgive but he has shown you what he is capable of doing and that should not be forgotten.

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