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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I am torn between two girls I have fallen for....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I am completely torn bewteen two girls I am in love with. My first girlfriend of 8 years is the same as as me(31). Everything was amazing in our relationship... except the sex. It was very dull and I tried everything to spice it up(games, dirty ...

I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give them back to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I want to leave my husband! I can't live like this any more and I told him today. He didn't really care that I was leaving but said I'm not taking the kids they're both 6. I'm afaid if I leave and take the kids and let him see them he won't give ...

The pain will never stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my current girlfriend for exactly 6 months now. I love her more than life itself, and she's everything I could ever ask for. However, there's one thing that absolutely tears me apart on a daily basis and feels like the pain wi...

He is very angry and says I don't care about him...what more can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My 20yr old boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about ten months. over of which he has gotten a dui and lost his license for a year. i moved 4 hours away from him, for school that offered me a scholarship, about 3 months ago. i have been ...

His ex is coming over from Australia and is staying at HIS house! Should I be worried?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and I usually spend all weekend at his house. I occasionally see him during the week but we both work so it is sometimes difficult, if we dont see each other we will be in touch in some way every ...

How can I forget my first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I want just to forget my first love because she is getting married! What can I do please help me? ...

How can I help support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - He is upset with how his life is right now with working and lack of money? How can I help and support him? And what is the differance between emotionally connected and mentally connected? Because he told me that he connects with me emotiona...

I just want him to know how much this is hurting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been on and off with this guy for almost a year now; and about 2 weeks ago we broke up while i was away, but he didn't really give me a decent reason. - so then I was major sad, trying to figure out why he finished things when it was perfect ...

Should I believe he really has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met a gorgeous guy about a month ago. We instantly hit it off but i wanted us to take things slow and i told him i wasnt ready for sex. He understood. The problem is that now i feel things are moving just too slow. We only s...

Does he still love her...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Please help me, I dont know if my boyfriend is still in love with his ex girlfriend? We have been together for 5 weeks now, he is never sentimental with me. When i confronted him about this he got angry with me and told me i was being stupid, ...

When things get serious I always back off, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - what is wrong with me!!??? I've never had a relationship with anyone. I've been on dates etc but when things have started to become serious I put myself off the person that I'm with. I tend to like a person for ages and then when something fin...

I dislike my good friend's husband and it's ruining our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - hi, i really need some advice. i moved into a new area about a year ago and my three children started a new school. my youngest son made friends with a little boy and his mother and i have since become really good friends. i value her friendship and ...

He has an addicition problem with pain pills and alcohol.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about nine months now. He was so respectful and patient on waiting to have sex till I felt we loved each other which was over four months, and he never flirts or is innapropriate with any other girls. He is ...

HE CHOKED ME..THEN BLAMED ME FOR BLACKING OUT

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE FIGHTING (VERBALLY) THEN IT GOT REALLY HEATED! HE PUT HIS HAND AROUND MY NECK THE NEXT THING I REMEMBER WAS REALIZING I WAS ON THE FLOOR! WITH NO MEMORY OF FALLING, HOW I GOT THERE, OR ANYTHING..... BUT WHAT MAKES THIS ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

Why are these guys nice to my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Dear All: I am facing a really difficult situation lately. The thing is, I've been dating with my gf for almost 3 years and we love each other a lot. The problem is, we're not living in the same country due to the fact that she went to England ...

We fight about her past all the time, I can't accept it as I feel she always belonged to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Hi iv been with my girlfriend since we were sixteen and im now 21 and shen is 20, im intelligent and have a photographic memory of everything in the past which is a big problem. we have broken up a few times in between that but now we have been ...

My ex says we could get back together if I change, but chances are slim. What to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years and i broke up. I thought we were doing alright she apparently thought we weren't compatible. When i asked for a second chance she said i had many chances to fix us then and didn't pay attention or listen. She says ...

Fooled twice ! Does he deserve another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years. We met online in 06 and started dating in the late summer. He had just gotten out of a divorce where his ex cheated on him multiple times and had a child with another man. I know I'm the "rebound" chick, b...

I'm going through MLC and I'm so lost and confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I'm 33, married 7 years (but I've been with my husband for 13 years) and have 2 kids, one 14 (from a previous relationship) and one 2. I've never been single from the time I was 17. When I met my husband, I had just gotten out of a relationship. ...

Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...

Why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - why would a guy say he "used to fancy me" but keep sending me mixed signals? like one night he came up to me and the bar and put his arms around me..and sometimes he asks to hold my hand, looks me in the eyes and bes really touchy feely.. ive been ...

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

Impulsive/Annoying GF Should I move on and see other people ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for a year and getting to know her better, now we’re in a serious relationship of three months but it seems like things are not working, their just getting worse and worse meaning our relationship may come to an ...

He breaks up with me...now he calls all the time. What gives ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me one month ago. He said he loved me but needed to see others because he was too young. so he has been and so have i. The last week he has called or txt me every day. It has been about random stuff but it is every day. He ...

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a mont...

Has the age gap finally caught up with us? I'm so discontent!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Where do i start????...ok so im 31 and my partner of 15 years is 41, we have 2 children, and here is the BUT i dont really know if I'm happy any more, we separated about 2 years ago for a year, then got back together when we got back together things ...

He says he is not breaking up the relationship, all he wants is distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - I don't understand what my man wants. The last time I was with him he told me that he wanted a distance between us ..... because he can't do two things at the same time faculty and me so he said he's gonna stay with his studies and for me it was ok ...

How can we stop this awkwardness around each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - This one girl and I, we've had a complicated past, but we are currently going steady with each other. I am convinced that I'm head over heals over this girl, and am also convinced that she's head over heals of me. Now, a few days ago we had a sor...

I have some concerns about my husband's online activities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I have some concerns about my husband's online activities from before we got married and up to now. When we were first getting together, he lived in another state because he was stationed there with the Air Force. So I moved there to be with ...

Experience Gap

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now. She is a few years older than me and had a few partners before we met. I was a virgin when we met. It came out a while ago that she was unhappy with our sexual relationship and...

I called my girlfriend my ex's name while making love... BIG MISTAKE!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

29 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (for a year) and me were making love and I call her by my ex's name (they're names sound similar)by mistake. She flips out saying I'm still thinking of her sexually (I do think of her but only as a friend and nothing else.) She started ...