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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He told me he did not love me anymore and I am heartbroken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I was married for 10 years and have 3 boys. I left my husband a year and a half ago and the boys too. I met my boyfriend a few weeks before I left my husband. Our marriage was already over long before this. It was instant attraction. I was falling ...

Just found out the man I love is married...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy online about 8 months ago. From the beginning, he seemed head over heels for me but I have already gone through a divorce and just wanted to take things slow and make sure that our relationship was progressing for the right reasons. ...

Should I walk away or should I wait? Is there any insight into my madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - i dated a girl for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. we broke up because she found out that i had cheated on her. she asked me about it one day and i confessed everything. i know you are immediately thinking that i am an assh...

I can't get the graphic details of her sexual past out of my head!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi after reading different problems on this site it has given me courage to seek help. I'm 33 and my partner is 25, we met nearly two years ago and things were very confusing for me. She was very open in how she would talk about her sexual past - ...

Together for 2 years but I feel we are drifting apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My man and I have been together for 2 years, living together etc, but it seems like we're drifting apart. Every day he makes excuses for why we can't have lunch together; he's got a meeting, or he has to be in the field, or he needs to run errands. ...

Help...jealous daughters!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I am a 37 year old woman who is engaged to a 47 year old man. We both have been divorced 2wice, so If we marry, it will be our 3rd time. He has 2 daughters, by 2 different mothers. One is 28 and lives far away, married with kids, the other is ...

Best friends become lovers.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My best friend for over 4 years (a guy) and I have recently made the transition from "just friends" to "more than just friends." Over the past couple months, we have developed strong feelings for one another and have become intimate. However, we ...

Vicious cycle: I swore I wouldn't let him in again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Some advice would be great guys. Until April this year i thought i had control of the situation with my ex. He would ring me, intitate the convrsation etc i never put myself in a painful position after he changed his mind about getting back tog...

Love or the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Eleven years ago i married. we have three children (girls.) He was perfect.....a month after the marriage he changed. Stoped having sex stoped being a husband. drank very heavy. would get drunk pick fights... many years we fought over all ...

Should I dump his ass or give him time to grow up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Okay, so quick background: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and have known each other for rougly 5. He's 24 and I'm 23. He's always been pretty slutty when single, (but not saying that I haven't had my share too..) but he seems to ...

Cheating and text messaging...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for almost a year. I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks before the wedding. We are 21 (me) and 23 (him). We both felt ready for marriage but the baby came as quite the surprise. An accident ...

Is it really so horrible for me to want to know if my husband has quit smoking pot or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married two and a half years (Mar '06), and have been together nearly five. We have two children together, our eldest will be four in about a month, and our youngest is fifteen months. I first learned of my husband's ...

I am very unhappy with being a referee between my wife and our daughter who constantly argue! Should I move out and start over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - HI I have been married three times since I was eighteen years old until now 48..and have four childreen ,I don't know why but my latest wife loves me moore than all the rest put together.But I just cant seem ton feel for her in the way she feels for ...

He makes me feel second best next to his son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am a 48 year old widow who met a man at work. I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He is the one that insisted on us seeing each other and being committed. He plans on marrying me even though he has not asked. The problem is that he has ...

Is he a dead end OR does he have serious commitment issues that can be resolved ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy now for 5 months. (were both expats from big cities in a small foreign country hes been here for 12 years and I've been here for 4. He knows I'm not completely happy here ) we see each other almost every day, which took some ...

I feel like I'm getting the short end of the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs like any relationship. All of my flaws that he disliked, I've worked on for him. I've become a better person. But it's not the same on his part. I've told him t...

Our sex life is going down the drain! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years now, and our sex life is going down the drain! He masturbates everyday and anytime I try to resolve the issue he ignores me or comes up with an excuse on why we don't have sex very often. Is it normal ...

What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar? I swear sometimes I think my b/f has at least a mild version of the disease. We go along for weeks getting along just fine, everything is mellow and sweet between us and then all of a sudden, he just ...

He says sex hurts him! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - my bf is 22 he was still a virgin we've only done it twice but he says it hurts him alot is it normal? ...

Forced to cancel my flight plans because she changed her plans. Should I talk to her about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - In June I flew to Florida to visit my best friend, M. from High School. We hadn't seen eachother in 10 years but we always kept in touch. We had a great time and were so happy to be together. I live in NY and she lives in FL. We both have ...

Why does my ex bf insist on causing me misery..after he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Why does my ex insist on making me feel miserable after HE DUMPED ME? He keeps insulting me and calling me names, I already have a very low self esteem and this only makes matters worse. He already dumped me because he said he was fed up with me, ...

He accused me of stealing money from him! How do I get past all this?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a man for two years. We recently broke up after he accused me of stealing money from him. Keep in mind I have handled thousands for him and this is over $100.00. He is an alcoholic and has become out of control. During the past 2 ...

Have I sacrificed way too much on this man? Advice is appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Right basically I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and I feel really annoyed because all the responcibility with everything is put on me and I can't stand it. When I first met him years ago we were friends and because of my drug problems ...

How do I convince myself that he is not sleeping around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My guy and myself have not been having sex for the past 2 months. We did not even have time to meet for that same period of time. We met a few days back and I was puzzled when he lasted longer during sex which is not always the case. He always ...

I slapped him and he left me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. For the period of time we lived together I am always the one initiate sex. I'm always hurt when he postoned to make love to me, coz he is always busy playing cards or playing with his Xbox. I know he ...

My future is very important to me, but I don't think he understands that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being...

Why is he so scared of relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - He tells me he loves and protects me, but I still cannot figure out why he's so scared of relationships,...

A new employee came in under my employ, and started to text me, with stalking, personal messages, how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've recently acquired a bit of a phone stalker... problem is, it's someone who really should respecy my position in the workplace as their boss. I try to mainatain a good relationships with everyone who works for me in my work - I try to be a fr...