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writes:This one girl and I, we've had a complicated past, but we are currently going steady with each other. I am convinced that I'm head over heals over this girl, and am also convinced that she's head over heals of me. Now, a few days ago we had a sort of falling out. We ended up learning that we were getting slightly mad at each other for small, petty things such as; walking around together during lunch or passing periods, how we spoke to each other, not getting enough attention etc. (Remember, this is on both parts) and I said something that had been bothering me for a long while.Over the summer, she went out of town for about a month and a half for business. The only problem was that she never. NEVER called me and I could hardly ever call her because of her schedule was very random from day to day. But that aside, I was looking extremely!!!! forward to seeing her again, but when I saw her, she blatantly knocked me down (mentally) However, she claims that she doesn't remember doing that and now we're both being very awkward towards and around each other. I don't want to bring this subject up again because she said that she cried over it...What do I do? I don't want us to stay awkward, and even if we get passed that, I don't want anything "fake" between us.
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (29 October 2008):
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Uhm, let me see if I got this. You're not together, but you both like each other a lot? But if you like each other so much then why the awkwardness? I don't get it.
Either way...
Maybe back then she didn't feel so connected to you? Or maybe she just didn't want to seem desperate to have you. There could be a number of reasons.
Give her some time. Deprive her of your attention for a while and see what happens. If she cares, she'll reach out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, by the way, I'm not 16-17,I'm actually 18 and in college...if that makes any difference. I clicked on the wrong thing making this.
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