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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have ...

My relationship with my brother in law

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I am 25 and live with my sister and brother-in-law. I came here in search of job and am being here since 4 months. its the same time my b.i.l lost his job and was staying home. i love my sister very much and my b.i.l too, in fact respect my b.i.l as ...

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

Why does she keep breaking her word and backing out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I have a big problem with my gf, she tells me one thing and then does another, she builds up my hopes and then crushes my hopes all the time, it has been more often lately. I am a travel agent and with work I get to go abroad 3-4 times a year, ev...

My wife has changed recently, do you think I have lost her, I love her, what do I do now?p

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - my wife and i met about 9 years ago. we were both getting out of serious relationships at the time. we are in our late twenties now. for some reason i didn't feel in love with her until 7 years after we were together. that is when we got married ...

Do I follow my heart or my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Do I follow my heart or my head? I was coming out of a relationship which I was not happy in and it had been 2 months, I started going out with my friends having a good time when i kissed a mutual friend of ours. I am a hindu he is a muslim. I...

My long term boyfriend went to a strip club, got a lap dance...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Long Term BF went to a strip club, got a lap dance (2 actually) sat around chatting with the strippers and says it's harmless. Let me give a bit of background, both divorced, in a ltr of 3 years, we've got a great relationship, very direct and ...

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himse...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

I don't want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - me and my fiance and had a baby 1 year ago and since then i havent wanted to have sex or do anything sexual at all! i can count the amount of times we have slept together on 1 hand! my partner was understanding at first but now i can see hes star...

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he ...

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...