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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have 3 main problems in my life at the moment and all of these are guy related! Well to tell the truth it is three different guys. All telling me different thing and getting me confused! Firstly how do I tell if he really does love me?? That's ...

My girlfriend always goes and parties and I stress about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend always goes parties and I stress about what if she does something behind my back? I trust her but I still don't know why I think that. When I first started going out with her I found out when she used to go out partying, she was ...

How to resolve my recurring relationship problems due to anxiety?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound too pathetic. I have a problem about getting anxious which keeps cropping up. Basically, my current relationship has had a lot of problems for a long time, and I'm feeling that this will be the same in all my relation...

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...

I'm so obsessed with a man who was in jail and who returned to his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I can't get him out of my head!! I'm totally obsessed with a man who I probably won't see again and who was in jail but now has gone back to his girlfriend! We had a definite attraction for each other and I asked him to call once he got ou...

Help me break up with him AGAIN... please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Kay , well ive been dating this guy for a year now and he wants to get married ... and im only 18 ! I cant get married !!!! Dont get me wrong ! I love him and everything but like Crap .... i need to focus on my life . AND ive already broken up...

John now thinks we should start a relationship, but I'm feeling incredibly guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - A year ago a guy who used to date my friend (let's call him Joe) suddenly announced that he liked me while we were both drunk at a party. We ended up kissing, but the next day I regretted it and thought that it must have just been a strategy to get ...

I love him but how long should I wait for him to make up his mind about marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose to me? We have been together for 2 years now and have had a huge fight about marriage. He knows how important it is to me, and has even led me on about getting married. During our huge fight he ...

Why did my ex treat me so strangely after we broke up, when she is the one that cheated? Is it bad to consider a revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I was with a girl for two year and found by chance she was seeing someone else. I walked away upset, but caused no problems at all,this was 10 month ago and all through this time she has constantly displayed strange behaviour to me. Sometimes ...

My live-in partner treats me poorly, his brother who always helps me has fallen in love with me, what will I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - after having a boyfriend of 2 years, i lived in his house with his mother and brother, he always hurt me physically but i still love him after that i notice that i am pregnant to him but he does not treat me good he always leaves me and 2 a day go h...

How to tell my ex that I want to get back together? He said it was my attitude and my arguing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 91 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - i finally broke up with him...we thought i was pregnat, i'm not..ok..so the same day i found out..i wanted to have sex, he was scared...which i could see where he was coming from, but his whole attitude had been changing...now...its like i miss him ...

He says spending less time together will save the relationship. Is he being honest here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My bf of 7 months, said to me the other weekend that we need to spend time apart so like instead of me seeing him everyday i will see him on the weekends, tuesdays and thursdays and sometimes fridays nites after we both finish work,we use to argue a ...

When we broke up he went on a date with someone else. We got back together, but when I found out I was so hurt I want to break up again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. We broke up for a week, he went on a date with another girl and then asked me back out. I went back out with him before I found out that he went on a date. I just recently found out and called him ...

How to build a family if my husband is too focused on his son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - We started dating almost a year ago and are going to marry. i Love my future husband and have promised him that i will never leave him, because he has been much too scared that i could leave him like others did. I want to follow my words and stay ...

I don't believe he didn't cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Im going to rephrase this question, as Im not seeing any responses yet with the other one. My fiance of 4 years and I have recently just moved in with each other and we both have one child each of our own. I snooped (wrong I know) and found a letter ...

He has been cheating on me, what do I do now?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I have found out that he has cheated and Im not sure if I can get over it. He has not wilinginly admitted to it and he has been with the same girl off and on for over a year every time we would supposedly break up..which mind you was quite a bit. ...

How can I change her mind about not seeing me anymore. I think I was too slow to propose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - My partner (36 yo - I'm 39 yo) of 3 years just broke off with me again (4th time). She said she was "settling", was quite firm, said for me to make no contact and that we could no longer be friends. However, she said I ticked all the right boxes ...

I don't trust him and I'm getting paranoid. Can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man I don't trust. I check his e-mails behind his back, I go through his phone, I am just so paranoid!! I never used to be this way but he cheated once and I just can't seem to get over it. Do you think there is any point carrying ...

He has a girlfriend back home, but he said he has fallen in love with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 78 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Okay this is my problem: I have been with a man for 8 months now.He is 9 years younger then me,and never told me he had a girlfriend back home that he has had for a year and a half.One day he finally broke down and cried and told me he had fallen in ...

My online friend has become arrogant and disrespectful since he found a girlfriend. Should I get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - dear agony aunt...im a 17 year old girl. i have an online friend since the last one and a half year. we used to very attached to each other. and were the closest friends. but since the last couple of months since he has started dating this other ...

My wife lied to me about her past relationships. Should I doubt her faithfulness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi Would really like all your thoughts on this one. We have been married for 11 years and have a 9 year old daughter. Just after marriage my wife told me that she was a virgin - not that i asked her but it was her own input. Well good for me as I ...

I'm stuck with my abusive, dependant partner. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Hi Iam a mother of 3 kids 2 daugters from previous marrage age 16 and 17 I was engage for 15 years I broke the engagement 6 months ago I have a son of 4 years with this man While I was still engage with him I met this man it's about 7 months ago he ...

My 43yo boyfriend has no ambition or drive, and won't attempt to change. What's wrong with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend drives me nuts. He is so lazy. He is a decent man, caring and loving but he is 43 years old and doesn't have a career and has no drive. I have spoken to him about this so many times but he is content to do nothing all day apart from b...

The man I'm seeing doesn't want commitment and is controling our relationship. How can I get things back on even ground?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - The man i'm dating although he has told me that he doesn't want a serious commitment sometimes he is very sweet and friendly. Because we have talked a lot about us i think that i have lost the control of the situation and he is the one that can ...

We've been fighting a lot so I went to stay at a hotel, he says he is sorry so should I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - My husband amd me have been fighting a lot mainly about money. We just had huge fight about who's paying the bills. It got so bad he yelled I want a diorvce. I got so upset I went to stay at a hotel (I didnt tell him where im staying at.) Hes been ...

Should I emigrate with him? He has shown his cruel and cold side to me, but I want this to work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Following good advice before i have recently spent some time with my boyfriend who emigrated away from me and life in the UK 18 months ago to be in Melbourne, Oz. During my stay I tried to live as if I was living there - not doing tourist things etc ...

I dislike that my girlfriend hides things from me but she does this because she knows I'm extremly jealous!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend knows me well and she knows i get jealous a lot...but its not to were i ask her to not talk to them or w.e...but she just doesnt tell me anything because she knows itll hurt me...I wont denie it..it will but i want to hear the ...

He tells me he's tired of me and my children, he treats me like a roommate now - but I don't want him to leave, I'm so miserable what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 94 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'll try to make my story short. I have been living with my boyfriend for two years. He is younger than me. I am 25 and he is 23. I have children but they're not his. When we first got together everything was great. It all started because he wanted ...

Is economic security more important than being treated 'right'? Should I go back to the ex or stay with the BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 94 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I wonder if it is worth it to dump my bf of 8 months to go back to my ex, who threw me out of his house, after leaving together for 2 years and being engaged for 4, and after all that he tells me he asked me to marry him because his aunt recommend ...

I just found out I have a teenaged son I knew nothing about - how do I tell my wife and our children, and how do I talk to this other child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Alright im going to try to make this short as possible. Ok, when I was in my early 20s I had a friend that I was really close to. He had a sister that was I'm guessing 6 years younger than him (I can't rember). So she had a thing for me, but of c...

I'm feeling desperate about this! I feel like I am sitting here waiting for him to decide about my life - am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - You guys have been so great helping me with this terrible upset in my life. I asked you about my bf and I having and argument and saying terrible things to each other which ended up w/him saying he needed a break and me saying o.k. and hanging up. ...

I am bisexual and have a husband and a girlfriend - the problem is I am not attracted to my girlfriend and never really was. Now I don't know how to end it without causing pain - any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I'm in my 40's, married to a husband who encourages and supports my bisexuality. I have a girlfriend who is also married. The problem is that I have never been physically attracted to her because she is older than me and looks more like my mom than ...

He's my ex, he's kissed another girl...but he says he loves me and I am still in love with him. Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up maybe 3 weeks ago or so, and we're still friends and see each other everyday. I am still head over heels for this boy and we were together for a year and 4 months, but sortly before we broke up he was chating ...

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for...

I have images of g/f's past haunting me, and I can't stand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Please help me. My gf’s past is haunting me. I have images of it everyhour everyday and its killing me inside! We are in a long distance relationship but I go see her every three months. From the start, my gf has been very honest with her past. Sh...