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Archived questions from: 2 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Will she ever give me a second chance after something like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me one month ago and it absolutely broke my heart. We had been dating for two years and she decided to end it about a week after our two year anniversary. I have taken this hard and she has given me reasons for why ...

He's passive aggressive, but he seems really messed up in the head! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My husband is causing me such a big pain. I can't figure him out.. We live together long time ago, and he is really a nice man. I'm sure many woman would love to have a nice husband like him , he is not a cheater a drinker and he is nice to his ...

I feel like my bf is bored with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I am feeling quite down on things at the moment. Amongst other things, I feel like my boyfriend is bored with me. He has never said he is, and he wouldn't be as mean to, but he seems to not be that interested in me at the moment. Although I am ...

I love her so much, but all we ever do is fight or have sex. We plan on marrying. Do we really have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - There are a few points about my relationship that would help you understand my position. - i've known this girl since my 6th grade. we had a mutual crush when we were in 8th and then we just drifted apart but we maintained contacts. - when i enter...

Why is he acting 'cocky'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend acts overly cocky towards me. It may be sudden, such as on the phone or in front of people. He has been doing this more lately. He doesn't always act like this, sometimes he acts really sweet but he has recently been acting ...

I engage in sex with men I don't love, because I want to feel loved but they treat me like garbage instead! What's wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - iam verry clingy...i dont know whats wrong with me iam scared to be by myself, i take a lot of crap form guys...i still talk to my ex and even mess with him from time to time after he hurt me so much....stupid huh....i even have this stupid relation ...

Please, how can I woo her back into my life - show her that I am a great guy for her and that I love her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. We completely fell in love the first time we met, it was like magic. She was 23 at the time and i was 18. For the first few months there was a lot of sex and passion and everything was great. it ...

He has lied to me in the past but never cheated. We're trying to work on it but I found out that he lied again about a really small thing. I have no self-esteem, I am paranoid, and miserable. But I love him. Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - We've been together for 4.5 years, since we were both 17. I love him so much and can't imagine my life without him. He is my soulmate and my best friend. We are sexually, spiritually, politically, romantically, and intellectually compatib...

What should I do about my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - The other week I kissed one of my boyfriends best friends and now I dont know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been arguing a lot and the majority of the time when we argue he gets abusive and hits me. His friend walked in on this happen...

Boyfriend problems, am I overreacting? He neglected me on my birthday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - of course I didn't expect to have a party or anything like that. I live with my boyfriend, so I expected him to at least do something nice. I don't care about a gift, I just wanted him to be nice/thoughtful because he never is. So I got home from ...

I don't know who is more abusive, my ex or my current boyfriend. Should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I don't know if my ex or my current boyfriend is more abusive. I got mad at my ex once because I saw him checking out a girl in front of me on a camping trip, then in his RV i ripped up a note i gave him, and he said he would continue doing that ...

Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I feel depressed as he doesn't want me or his child.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Should I fight to stay with the father of my unborn child? I love him so much and want this baby. He insists that he doesnt want to be with me and has been going out with his mates every night since he split up with me. I feel absolutely cr...

I hate him for the constant abuse that he puts me through yet I cannot leave him for fear of being alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I am constantly being told that I feel sorry for myself all the time from my boyfriend. I dont think I am like this, infact I would say I'm not at all. I hardly ever moan about things and when I do I save it kinda lol so it's like one big moan a ...

I have had trust issues that I really don't want to have. Do you think they are justified? Can I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - This is really hard for me to ask for help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We live together and both have a child in the mix. We live like we are married even though we aren't. Three months into our realtionship a friend of ...

He tells me he loves me but the way he acts is improper and tells me differently... what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Last night I went to see my friend who has just had a baby boy last week. Before I left my boyfriend had said to me "don't get any ideas" talking about having a child which isn't like him at all as before he used to say I cant wait to have kids but ...

Whats with him? I am unable to understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - The other day something strange happened to my boyfriend. I dunt know why but he suddenly kept comparing me with another girl we both know. He compared my ways of talking, my abilities and even a the way I care for him. I dotn know what had happened ...

Do I stay with him and be miserable - or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship on and off for 3 years, I am now finding myself less attracted to my boyfriend. He has put on lots of weight and I am finding it hard to get the same feelings I did for him. Don't get me wrong, I still love him, but I ...

I try to hurt his feelings back... because he hurts mine so much. I just don't know how to cope with it. Am I selfish as he says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Where do I begin... I've been with a man now for a year (we live 40 min. apart)... but for the last 2-3 months now we've been fussing quite a bit. It's usually over a couple of things. 1. he wants me to do oral ALL THE TIME! and I don't want...

He had sex with another girl during our break up and also asked for sexual favours from another girl when I was on vacation. This upset me, what do you think? Am I too controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do? --- My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. I love our relationship because we have so much fun when were together. The history of our relationship is this: We started dating in March, when after ab...

He says, I am the only one for him, but I think he has feelings for his ex! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for a year now.im in love with this guy no matter what happens however lately, we have been having arguments. usually its always my fault really, i bring up something to get him arguing with me. this ...

He snorts pills! Should I stay or should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We both are so in love. He had a problem with snorting pills when we first got together. He's promised and sworn on my life that he has stopped for a year and a half. Recently his Mom ...

His young kids are out of control and are effecting our relationhip, should I stay in this or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - Has anyone dated a man that has kids that are out of control????? He has full custody and the kids don't listen, fight constantly. What scares me is they are only 3 and 4. He minimizes their behavior!!! We have been dating only 4 months and at the ...

Am I wrong guys or is he just not that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - I have dated a man twice in three weeks. Because his 17 and 19 year old sons live with him, he says he is really only available to see me after 8 pm weeknights and, so far, has not been available on weekends. He called tonight and left a message ...

I feel like sex is a chore for him, is there a way to change this or lower my sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years.. He was always so into me and wanted to do alot of sexual activities.. but now he never asks to have sex with me!! .. not only sex but anything sexual.. I'm so attracted to him that i want ...

I know I do need to make changes, so why does she still call and can I win her heart back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

2 October 2008 (M) - Hello my I want to explain the whole situation so bare with me because I do appreciate advice and want you to be on the same page and know the story. Here it is...I met this girl last year and my life was in a rut because of the death of my ...

I feel second best to a stupid computer game, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

2 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I live together. I am currently 6 months pregnant with his first child (this problem was happening way before i got pregnant though). He does have a job, and if this wasnt a problem i think our relationship would be almost perfect. ...