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writes:MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE FIGHTING (VERBALLY) THEN IT GOT REALLY HEATED! HE PUT HIS HAND AROUND MY NECK THE NEXT THING I REMEMBER WAS REALIZING I WAS ON THE FLOOR! WITH NO MEMORY OF FALLING, HOW I GOT THERE, OR ANYTHING..... BUT WHAT MAKES THIS SITUATION EVEN MORE MESSED UP IS HE ACCUSED ME OF "FAKING" IT... SAYING THAT IF HE HAD CHOCKED ME TO A BLACK OUT I WOULD HAVE BRUISES ON MY NECK.....HONESTLY ALL I REMEMBER IS SAYING "I CAN'T BREATH" AND COMING TO ON THE FLOOR... PLEASE TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED HERE? IS A PERSON SO MESSED UP IN THE HEAD THAT THEY WOULD DO THIS TO SOMEONE, AND THEN BLAME THAT PERSON FOR BLACK OUT????? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrT +, writes (29 November 2008):
You are quite right to be concerned and should leave that relationship as soon as it is safe to do so. There is a six-fold chance, according to the literature, that you can wind up dead at the hands of this man now that he has "choked" you.See: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17961956?ordinalpos
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Of course you can wake up dead - have you never heard of reincarnation? St Peter and the pearly gates? Lucifer? Hangovers?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Yes he's choked you....do not go back to this loser he's lucky you didn't press charges...
Ps. 'birdynumnums' you can't "wake up" dead.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 OH MY GOODNESS! WHY ARE YOU EVEN QUESTIONING THIS? HE'S A MONSTER! LEAVE HIM NOW! YOU MIGHT WAKE UP DEAD THE NEXT TIME!!!
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 If you have no recollection - then I say OF COURSE you blacked out. If your boyfriend has the guts to strangle you in the first place, he can lie about it too.
Get rid.
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