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writes:MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE FIGHTING (VERBALLY) THEN IT GOT REALLY HEATED! HE PUT HIS HAND AROUND MY NECK THE NEXT THING I REMEMBER WAS REALIZING I WAS ON THE FLOOR! WITH NO MEMORY OF FALLING, HOW I GOT THERE, OR ANYTHING..... BUT WHAT MAKES THIS SITUATION EVEN MORE MESSED UP IS HE ACCUSED ME OF "FAKING" IT... SAYING THAT IF HE HAD CHOCKED ME TO A BLACK OUT I WOULD HAVE BRUISES ON MY NECK.....HONESTLY ALL I REMEMBER IS SAYING "I CAN'T BREATH" AND COMING TO ON THE FLOOR... PLEASE TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED HERE? IS A PERSON SO MESSED UP IN THE HEAD THAT THEY WOULD DO THIS TO SOMEONE, AND THEN BLAME THAT PERSON FOR BLACK OUT????? Reply to this Question |
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reader, DrT +, writes (29 November 2008):
You are quite right to be concerned and should leave that relationship as soon as it is safe to do so. There is a six-fold chance, according to the literature, that you can wind up dead at the hands of this man now that he has "choked" you.See: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17961956?ordinalpos
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Of course you can wake up dead - have you never heard of reincarnation? St Peter and the pearly gates? Lucifer? Hangovers?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2008): Yes he's choked you....do not go back to this loser he's lucky you didn't press charges...
Ps. 'birdynumnums' you can't "wake up" dead.
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (29 October 2008):
 OH MY GOODNESS! WHY ARE YOU EVEN QUESTIONING THIS? HE'S A MONSTER! LEAVE HIM NOW! YOU MIGHT WAKE UP DEAD THE NEXT TIME!!!
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reader, icelordess + ♥, writes (29 October 2008):
 Of course if he choked you and yes he could lie about it...I would strongly suggest you never see this guy again, honey, he's BAD NEWS all the way around..what makes you think he won't do this again? or worse? Do you honestly think you just blacked out?? Uh..I don't think so... Don't put your life in danger. Cut the ties..NOW!
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (29 October 2008):
 If you have no recollection - then I say OF COURSE you blacked out. If your boyfriend has the guts to strangle you in the first place, he can lie about it too.
Get rid.
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