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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I convince her to keep our unborn child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hello cupid readers.... I once came upon this site about 3 months ago, when I had just found out that I got a 15 year old pregnant. I decided to delete my old account becuse of the rude things I was told. Now I have come back for advice, but not for ...

Infidelity flashbacks - how can I get over this now that I'm happily married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm 42, consider myself mature, and am no means weak minded or overly sensitive (I'm in the middle of my third combat tour in Iraq). The closest term I can use to describe my problem is infidelity flashback. I have a long history of being cheated...

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore. He graduated from college last semester and I graduate next semester and he was just put in charge of ROTC at our school. I...

Artist block: how can I compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - It's been a couple of months sense my boyfriend has moved in with me. He loves my art and I appreciate that very much, but if I don't draw for one day he'll get a little sad, well more like a pouty sad. Basically in my opinion he wants me to draw ...

Holiday Options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I would appreciate some feedback on a problem my boyfriend and I have concerning holidays. We are both very mature adults with grown up children and I can't believe we can't sort this out ourselves. We have been toegether for 8 years but don't ...

Should I tell my sister that her husband made a move on me? If so, how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday, I was so tired and my sister and her hubby arrived to the hospital to see my step-dad. So my sister said, go home and rest. We'll stay here for couple of hours. So her hubby, hates the hospital and he offered to take me home. So i was li...

His family don't want him to be with me and are making our lives hell.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - well I am back on here. I told you last week about my man and me. He is 69 years old and I am 65 years old and we have been dating 3 years and 10 months. His kids have never liked the idea of us dating. They want him 24/7 to meet their needs. ...

I love my boyfriend but he takes drugs and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supp...

I am having severe difficulties overlooking my girlfriend's past sex life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm going to get strait to the point, I am having severe difficulties overlooking my gf's past sex life. She has told me that she slept with around 20 people, mostly within a couple of years. She has also told me some of the details t...

Help me understand how this is my fault! Why is she mad at me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - About a week ago my fiancé through tear filled eyes told me she had just tested positive for HPV and had to get a biopsy for cervical cancer. Turns out she had tested positive for it before we met, but it hadn't shown up on any tests for a whil...

Why couldn't he have just told me the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with recently. The reason he gave me was that when he thinks back to his career he wouldn't have time for me and that he rushed into things. I told him how I felt and everything but he said his decision is final. It hurt me so ...

She's a rape victim - how do I help her and get our sex life back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend was raped when she was 14. She is 27 now and we have been dating for 2 years. Our sex life was wonderful until she bumped into the rapist at a bar almost a year ago. Since then we have made love 5 times and 4 times we stopped ...

Should I pursue my profession or stay here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - pls will anyone help me to enlighten my mind with the situation im into right now? im living with my boyfriend right now in an apartment, for the reason that my family hates me for loving him especially my father, because he wanted me to marry an...

My abusive ex says he has given up drugs and alcohol. Is it possible that he could change? Should I take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with an abusive boyfriend. We have two children together and were together for 3 years. He had a drinking problem, and a problem with drugs while we were together. He says that he has given both of it up and that they both were ...

My friends use and abuse me! How can I ask new friends to hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Ive come to the realisation lately that I need to make new friends. I have one friend who I would say isa true and great friend...but she lives in my hometown which is across the otherside of the country! My 'friends' that i have made where I ...

What to do with an alcoholic boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating an alcoholic for the last 8 months. We live together and have the most wonderful relationship – apart from the alcohol. He is an alcoholic but not a drunk. his parents have put him in rehab and given him all sorts of help over ...

My girlfriend denies me sex. She says she's a virgin but has also been a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girl friend denies me of sex with her. She claims to be a virgin, only to find out she has been a lesbian. I am disappointed. What do I do?...

Am I being stupid for giving up the girl I love because I want to explore myself first? I'm not ready to buy a house and have kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I started seeing my girlfriend about 3 and a half years ago. We met because we have the same hobbies, and always do things together. Within a few months of seeing each other, we went away together for 5 months on an extended holiday. This was made ...

My abusive ex threatens to kill me and my current partner, should I go back to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Well hi there everybody well i am a mother of 3 kids 2 from my prevous marrage and my son is 4 years old; I am in this relationship now for 15 years we were engage about 5 months ago, i broke the engagement becouse I heard that my ex fiance was ...

After having a baby, I find that I have lost interest in sex, and having intercourse causes me pain, why is that and what do I do to regain interest in sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've been seing someone for almost 8 years now and things have been really great between us and we have a 2 year old daughter, but my problem started after I had a baby. I lost interest on everything especially when coming to satisfying my man in ...

She loves alcohol the way she loves me.! She needs therapy far away but wants to be with me! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I know how this is going to sound. How many times have I heard that "She's different when we're alone!" and "I know it's bad, but I love her!" and "She'll change!" speech? I don't know, but here's mine. So, my girlfriend is a horrible alcohol...

He doesn't want children and he believes marriage is a piece of paper but to me all those things are so important and that's the only way I believe my relationship can move forward.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years it has been a long time coming and although im upset that it's ended I also feel relief. When we met we just clicked straight away and we both got on so well I thought this is the one and he i...

Ring, or no ring, oddly I want the ring, help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 5 years with a degreed musician - we live together - which was not originally my idea. To keep it short, I am a lawyer (law professor) that does pay all the bills - in the past five years - he's probably contributed ...