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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Rumours are going round my boyfriend's sleeping with my EX!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm 23, and my boyfriend's 25 and we live together. Our relationship's been great up until about 4 weeks ago. We were out shopping, and had fun in the sales, and I happened to see my ex (who lives in the same region/town as us). We got talking, ...

What to do? Strange situation...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi Well, basically, at the begginning of the year February time, me and my boyfriend had a bit of an argument, he had looked at my phone, seen I had text an ex who meant absolutly nothing to me, but I'd rather be friends than enemies at the end of t...

How should I handle this woman who is a danger to our household?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - I have a situation that I need advice handling. I'll try to summarize as best I can for sake of shortness. My wife has a friend. This friend of hers is a long term friend so they are somewhat attached to each other. Her friend has a long history of ...

He asked me to get breast implants, I refused, but now I can't let go of the worry this has caused me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to get breast implants early in our relationship, and it tore me apart because I thought he already liked the way I looked. Why get together with someone if you're going to ask them to change? All of my boyfriends in the past...

How do we deal with his annoying ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - i am about to marry the best man that has ever come into my life i am divorced and have 4 boys my fiance was never married but has 3 boys w/ his ex. we have both been divorced/separated for 3 years. Everything is great except for the ex. she is rude ...

What should I do about my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Well, i need an advise, me and my boyfriend were dating about 3 years, we did argue alot over stupid staf, the last time we got in to arguement things run out of control, he was trying to hold me back from breaking staf and some how i end up at the ...

Should I stand by my demand? To me, marriage is NOT glorified dating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I, was going for 8 1/2 years we had our ups and downs, but what relationship doesn't. When we had our son he finally realized that he wasn't happy and wanted to leave the relationship. I didn't stop him because I'm not going to ...

Should I have left a long time ago to make my step daughter happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I'm going to try to make this as short as I can, but not sure if I can... there's a lot of history. I have been married to my 2nd husband for 12 years. I have three children from my first marriage and he has one daughter from his first marriage...

Do you think he has genuine feelings for me or do you think he is trying to break up and still look like the good guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy online and we began dating, he was very intense, talking about future and using the love word(albeit indirectly) after just a few weeks. We were getting on great and he bombarded me daily with texts etc, then last week discovered he was ...

He says I'm his soul mate but he doesn't want to be with me anymore...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I have a huge problem... and I don't really know what I need to do. This guy I've been with for just over 2 years decided he didn't want to be with me any more. But he still says that I'm his soulmate and that he loves me more than anything. I'm so ...

Is there anything I can do to get her to clean up and seek marriage counseling? Is it even worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over three years now. We have 2 beautiful children whom we love dearly. She believes I had an affair or multiple affairs and cannot stop dragging this through the mud. She went so far as to have me ...

Please help me build the courage to leave my abusive boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has verbally abused and verbally abused and verbally abused me for months. He blamed it on the fact that he was going through a rough time in his Life and that it would pass as soon as he found a job. He has found a job and it hasn'...

I want to ask her if there's someone else but I'm afraid of the answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

7 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is hanging out a lot with her friends. I am okay with that because she should have her own private time to do what she likes and with the people she wants to. Usually, she goes out for her hobbies. I tried to like what she likes b...

My boyfriend is a functional alcoholic, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Why do I have to pay for my boyfriend being a functional alcoholic? Why do I get called names by him when he is drunk, He belittles me in front of friends, He does not talk to me, he tell mes that he has NO problems and that I am the problem, (he...

I worry about my boyfriend constantly for no reason.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I keep wanting my boyfriend to be with me all the time and I think it's annoying him. We've been together just over 2 years. The thing is I always worry about him and ask him to let me know when he gets where he's going. I've worried so much before ...

I want to leave my boyfriend for another man but don't want to hurt him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Please help me. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years with my bf, I am 35. Things are not going good. 2 years ago we were so happy to find out we were having a baby (no kids previously or since), but things went very wrong and we los...

Must I move back home to a man that can not trust me and who is verbally abusive and make all these threats or must I move on with my own life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, I have been engaged for 16 years and every year I ask my fiance when will we get married and his answer is always one day well. This past year he just doesn't want to do any thing with the family, he always comes home after work and ...

I keep catching my supervisor looking at me as I've become more curvy. Does this change his opinion of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I work a seasonal job, so once a year for about a month I get to get together with my coworkers and friends again. It doesn't feel like a job, more like a family. My superviser, only about 4 yrs older than me treated me like a little sister last ...

How do I get him to shape up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - so me and my guy have been on and off FOREVER! i love him and i know he loves me. so heres the problem hes so wishy washy and changes his mind all the time. hes affarid to grow up and accept respondibility for any thing. we both know we have issues ...

My boyfriend gets angry more easily now, and we fight a lot. Is there anything going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for almost 2 years now. He's a really great guy, but in the last few months I have been noticing a few changes. He gets angry more easily, we fight constantly (mostly about porn and him spending time with me) and we only see ...

I fixed the car and he got mad - what's the big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

7 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me went on a rode trip. But our car just had to broke down. He was going to waste about $1000 just to get it fixed, when I have the skills to fix it (I keep a tool box with me just in case.) When I fixed it for him, he seen ...

Told him I miss him and he said I shouldn't miss him because he doesn't deserve it and asked me to not fall in love with him because that truly scares him and he doesn't want to hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

7 October 2008 (F) - I am completely perplexed. I have been dating my boyfriend for going on five months now and I was just starting to fall for him hard though I have not told him I love him. We weren't able to get together this weekend because he spends every other ...