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When things get serious I always back off, why is this?

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Question - (29 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what is wrong with me!!???

I've never had a relationship with anyone. I've been on dates etc but when things have started to become serious I put myself off the person that I'm with.

I tend to like a person for ages and then when something finally happens, I pick little things about them that annoy me and end up not liking them.

For example, I liked a guy for two years. Then I found out he liked me and we both admitted our feelings for each other but within the next few days I realised that I didn't like him and then after that I didn't keep in touch with him.

This has happened with every guy I like and now I'm seeing someone who I really enjoy spending time with and already I've started to pick out little things about him that annoy me.

I just don't know why I do this??

Can anyone please help??

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2008):

daniellexxxx agony auntSounds to me like you are scared of commitment u dont want to fall to deep in.

You don't want a long relationship you want to have some fun am i right if not then i don't know.

But you need to to talk to the next person you get with about this as they will scare you away if not tell them you want to take it nice and slow and not rush things to fast.

Good luck x

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