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Should I believe he really has feelings for me?

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Question - (29 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I met a gorgeous guy about a month ago. We instantly hit it off but i wanted us to take things slow and i told him i wasnt ready for sex. He understood.

The problem is that now i feel things are moving just too slow. We only see each other twice a week (mostly weekends) although we live just about 10 mins away. I have tried talking to him and he says he wants us to continue dating and allow things to go at it's own pace and see where it leads us.

I feel he doesn't really care about me as much as I do about him otherwise he would want to see me every day. He has told me he has feelings for me.

My question is should I believe him?

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008):

Be careful not to allow insecurities to make you clingy.

I think you should TALK to him.

Alex Noble said:

" Oh the miraculous energy that flows between two people wha CARE enough to get BEYOND surfaces and games, who are willing to take the risks of being totally OPEN, of LISTENING, responding wht the whole heart. How much can we do for each other.".

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