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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

I work in a man's world here and I feel my work and accomplishments, are overlooked! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - This is not really a romance question but I know there are some people here who could maybe help me with this. I am working on a government committee and I have written some resolutions which were voted the best in the area that I live in. I ...

Why is he being grumpy and cuddling another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, but recently hes been really moody and grumpy im not sure whether this is related to his new job as he has to get up early for. I am also worried that he is going off me, as last weekend he had a ...

Love or just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is...

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...

My fiancee isnt affectionate at home, just when we are out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is very sweet. I love him and I know he loves me. We are getting married nov2208. He isn't very affectionate. Well to me he still holds my hand and puts his arm around me. He wants me to go everywhere ...

I'm a married woman, but can't stop e-mailing my online man.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am a married woman now for 17 years with three kids. Recently I met this married man online. We have talked now for like three months straight. Only of course when he's at work. I sit and wait for his emails day in and day out. Someday we talk all ...

What are signs that he 's falling out of love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a year now and just recently moved into a beautiful place. Everything is going great just that since moving in together we've been having less sex. We went from having sex together everyday, to only once a ...

Things are moving so slowly... does she just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've been getting close to a girl for the pst three months. Started off emailing and texting with the old paranoia of 'does she like me?'. then we started hanging out- cinema- meals etc. eventually i told her i liked her- she reciprocated. Then i ...

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...

We get on great but lately I've been feeling this distance from him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. We always have had a great time together, I make him laugh and I thought that he might be the one. Lately however, I have been feeling this distance from him. Intitally it was just him not ...

Do I continue to tell him how much I love him or do I just let him go and figure this out by himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy have been dating for about 5 months and in this 5 months we have only spent about 2 weeks apart! He is different from anyother guy I have ever dated. Well his wife in which they have been split for 2 years has started causing us ...

Did I push him too far by putting him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have beein in a relationship for twelve years, and have children. My boyfriend and I were having problems and we broke up because of his flirting and he moved out. However we were back sleeping together soon after he moved out and I really ...

I love her so much but am not totally happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love me girlfriend very much and I feel she loves me, but there are things in life that I want that she doesn't share, she doesn't share my ambitions in life and doesn't see our future as I see it. Is this something that we can get over or is i...

Is he losing interest already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 or 3 months and I'm having the time of my life. It seemed that he was too, but over the last 2 weeks or so he hasn't been sending me the cute little messages he used to or giving me compliments when we're together. ...

I have become insanely jealous! I know this isnt normal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The fact is, I've never loved anyone before - but I am most definetly in love now with my amazing boyfriend. He's lived in my street for a few years and from the moment I laid eyes on him I knew I had to be with him. He was gorgeous; tall, dark and ...

My wife can't get over my past...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Me and my wife are having a hard time she cant get over my past. Now it seems that every time it seems that we are getting better she just goes back to my past. I admit that before i met her i was out of control I'm in the army and this has been the ...

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. ...

This is more of a vent than anything... your opinions are appreciated.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I've read a number of posts on here about loving devoted men who are struggling with sexual frustration stemming from their loving partner's lack of interest in sex. So many people say do this, do that and be patient yet most of the questions se...

We're having a lot of arguments about the way she dresses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly ...

I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.. A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his ...

3 years together and she doesn't even think she's ever been in love with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend moved out of state and asked me to join her which I did recently. She lives with her family and I live alone. We have been together for 3 years and a few months. She has been going to school full time and working a few ni...

In a relationship and I am not happy...should I break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and now I've become unhappy in my relationship. He's a great guy but we haven't had sex yet and yes we had the talk but he is paranoid about pregnancy. I'm on birth control but he can't help being scared. He ...