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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I change my behavior and my mindset so that I don't sabotage this relationship that I do not want to lose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we live together, and we love each other. But I am very insecure, and needy. I rely on him a lot for reassurance, and I really am ...

He's only in love with me when he's drunk!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend drinks a lot. he used to be really nice, but now he's only in love with me when he's drunk. he's only a sweetie when he's drunk. he only wants to do sexual things when he's drunk. he'll only talk to me about personal things when he's ...

I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend. he's a pothead and I believe he's becoming an alcoholic. he's had a rough life. his mom just committed suicide last year and he found her and its just tragic. basically, I just want him to be happy. he can really be ...

My wife seems to be avoiding me at all costs, she's even sleeping in my daughter's room now! What's up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have four wonderful children. For the last 2 1/2 months she and our oldest daughter have been on gaia, talking too people. But it seems that my wife is on the computer talking more than the daughter ...

He seems to have completely removed me from his life and I don't know what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - He dumped me, didnt even care to tell me. Is it possible that I am at great fault and I should apologize, though I already did it once and he didn't get back yet? I miss him, love him. We were knowing each other for about 2 years.. since he was ...

How do you get your husband to open his eyes and see what he is throwing away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - How do you get your husband to open his eyes and see what he is throwing away? My husband told me he didn't think he loved me anymore. He told me this about 2 weeks ago. Up to that point he was giving me kisses in the morning and at night and ...

I want another baby but my partner doesn't. Am I wrong to want her to have another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I'm 32 she's 48, we have 6 year old daughter and I want one more with her. She doesn't! In fact, when ever I ask, we end up having a huge fight. I know I'm partly wrong for asking, but is it unfair that I want another one before it's too late. I ...

I'm a attracted to a new guy but when I mention break up to my boyfriend he says he might commit suicide!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, This may sound weird. I am going around with this guy for past 3 years. I met him online. Everythign was fine till 1.5 years back i met a guy in my office. We were gud friends and fond of each other, but my bf thought we both were too close a...

Should I just shut up and put up, mind my own business or should I go out on my own and discover what pleasures me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been married for 15 years, child-free by choice and am in great shape for my age. My husband and I get along pretty well, share same interests, have good discussions and laugh a lot. From the outside, it looks like we have the perfect ...

My hair is fallling out, I keep getting headaches and feel sick, my partner says he will leave me if these are signs of pregnancy, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I have a problem here. My hair is falling out, and I keep getting these headaches at around 5:00 PM and then again at like 11:00 PM, never in the morning, also the second i wake up i feel really sick to my stomach, and then though out the day ...

Found birth control pills in my wife's drawers....is there a way to confirm if she is taking them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I found various birth control pills in my wife’s drawer. I had no idea she was taking them. I have wanted to have a baby for some time now. Is there a way to medically confirm she is indeed on the pill? Any other way? She won’t admit she took them. ...

I'm pregnant and have an older child at home and my husband left me! Will I be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - my husband left me a month ago and last week i found out he is seeing someone else, we have a 3yr old son and i am currently 22weeks pregnant with our 2nd child. my world is collasping around me i can't do anything other than cry i am upsetting my ...

Due to my social phobia, I tend to be too shy around women! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - ok, heres my problem i like this girl in my class in University. we are both in the same project group as well which makes my situation a little better I think that she likes me as well, one day in class she said I was Gorgeous, but the way...

When you're at fault and apologise is it then best to try and make it up, or is temporary space sometimes the best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We're both 21. We've had the most blissful, easy, uncomplicated and fun relationship for virtually the entire time. We are often labelled as the perfect couple and his friends think I'm the ...

He has financial difficulties and I feel that is stoping him proposing to me... what should I do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I am running through the most terrible phase in my life. I have been dating a guy for over a year now and in the beginning he was really sweet and was coming on too hard on me. He tried everything till I let him in. After life 5 months he ...

The only place I feel I fit in is at home with my mam and dad. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well this is a bit stupid to be honest. I just don’t feel I fit anywhere, I think, would people notice if I wasn’t here? (I’m not suicidal or anything like that). I do get involved with friends but I always feel like I’m the odd one out. I’m quiet ...

My best friend's involved with the married women, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - My best friend involved emotionaly with the married women, who is working in his own office. they were having a gud relationship from last 4 years and he was protecting her from every bad thing just like her husband do. from last eight months they...

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...

Is she really over me, or guilt ridden with what shes done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have a girl, soon to be ex girl I guess, who Ive been with for about 5.5 years. We've had up and down romance for the entire time, I cheated on her about two years ago which she found out, and left me then took off to the other side of the ...

What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically ...

We've been apart six months now, we aren't 'commited' but he's all I think about. He seems to be moving on with his life, should I do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I met this guy at work and initially we connected on a level i've never experienced. We met at work as we both work away from home in our kind of business, I fell in Love with him ... trouble is he had to leave and go back to the uk (we were in ...

How do I win this other man over so I can be with him without hurting the guy I'm engaged to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i am engaged, but love someone else, but he wont talk to me though because i am engaged. i want to know how this other man feels before i decide what to do, the question is how do i find out without asking him, or how do i win this other man over ...

I need some consistency, am I being selfish or just realistic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I love my husband very much but I have been very annoyed lately. His company closed in July '08 and ever since then he has been trying to get a construction company off the ground. I NEED stability and not knowing if he will have work next week much ...

My boyfriend says I'm lazy because I am too exhausted to go out on weeknights, how can I make him see how wrong he is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says I’m lazy and he gets upset with me because when I get home from work, all I want to do is just relax. I usually get home from work around 6 p.m. Once I get home, I have to empty the dishwasher, re-load the dishwasher, wash a l...

It's worse than cheating or drinking, I don't know what he thinks! Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I think about leaving my husband everyday. I don't know what I should do , I just don't trust him. A Few years ago he started to have impotence, and his sexual desire was gone. He is ok medically,but he is just not ever sexy with me and stays soft. ...

His desire for a threesome has made me really insecure sexually, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. We had an unusual start and were practically living together right after we started dating. it has been fine and we have not had any big problems but recently he has been saying he wants to ...

How can I get my boyfriend to understand that school is important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for quite a while now, and I have grown attached to him and he has grown attached to me. As much as I love him, I do not think I can stay with him for much longer, December at the most. Why? Because he will not get a ...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to forbid his girlfriend to make new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - tottaly dig this girl but she chose to remain in her current relationship. All is fine , I found peace with her decision as i do have a crush. Tho , I would like to know her and hang around as friends, not that strange feeling right ? I don't de...

How can I get her to be more physical with me again? I miss the attention.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need help! I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we are running into so major problems, I will try anything to make it work so please give me your best. Things were going great as usual till about a month's time ...

He tries to force himself on me, then tells me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i really dont know what to do!! i cant even sleep. ive tried, and tried and its runnin through my mind like christmas does!! its awful! today, i was in school (6th form) and i got a text from my *friend* call him bob. and he said to me 'come to...

She wants to have a 'break'. How long should I wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - My Girlfriend and I are on break, its been a hell of a week thou...Today, i went to her house and talked to her and saw her for the first time in a week. She says She loves Me and She promised To come Back and be my baby again. We Kissed And hugged ...

He said he 'might' want to sleept with other women. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship and just recently got married. Through out our entire relationship we've always had problems with the way he acts around other girls. He's a big flirt and recently it's become a big problem because it's been ...