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writes:The guy I'm seeing, went shopping with this girl who is in fact going with another girl, but when they got back from shopping she tried it on with him, he said that nothing happened and all that did happen was that she just sat on him, apparently they never kissed or anything, but ever since he told me this, he has been acting weirdly, I said that I forgave him, we still hang out, but every time he is supposed to stay at mine he never turns up or cancels. Should I be concerned that he doesn't like me any more, or that he just doesn't want to be with me. My mum says that he is just trying to make me jealous to see what I would do but every time I see her at school talking to him it breaks my heart. What should i do.??
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): You should ask your boyfriend what's going on. It is unfair for him to ignore you, and to leave you hanging like this.
It's alright if he has other friends, but that as your girlfriend you should be able to expect a romantically exclusive relationship.
Don't be clingy, emotional, or desperate. Tell him that it seems as if he has something going on with this other girl, and that you don't like it.
Don't try to prevent him from seeing her, but be sure to draw a clear line somewhere. There are somethings that he should only be doing with his girlfriend- and that's you, not him.
Honestly, you may want to rethink the entire relationship. If he's the kind of guy who will be disloyal and will intentionaly try to make you jealous -deliberately causing you pain- then it probably won't get any better. He will continue to be uncommunicative and manipulative, and you will continue to get hurt.
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