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36-40,
*alyov
writes:Im confused about my boyfriend, I dont know what to do...I have this feeling...my chest hurts...I think somethings wrong with uson Thursday I was sitting beside him while he was on his laptop. some girl got on MSN and messaged him saying 'I thought you wanted to view my webcam?'and all he would reply with was 'lol'so I asked his friend about her and he said 'shes just an old friend and she hasnt seen him since he went to college and she wants to see him again" And I know he doesnt like the fact that I wont have sex with him or do oral. But he respects that....he wanted a hand job while we were laying in his friends bed while we were watching a movie .I told him 'no thats wrong this is bradleys bed' and he got mad..or well turned away and wouldnt talkhe also says he loves mebut he started saying that the day after I told him "I dont want to have sex with someone that I don't love"and yesterday I did a love calculator because I was bored and just for some fun...it said 1% so I told him that and he asked "is that good or bad?" I said "bad" but they are fake!when we were together yesterday morning he didnt want me to go but when I got home things seemed to changeI know my friend texted his phone saying 'fyi if your gf is sitting beside you and some girl asks u to view her cam, the answer is NO'---normally we talk all day long starting with a text from him about 9am saying 'good morning baby' but today I didnt get thatand he has barely talked since yesterday morning when we partedwhen I asked him "is something wrong baby? your not as talkative as your normally are."it took him 5min to say "No...idk"so I said "you dont know?""you can tell me if somethings wrong"and it took him 10 min to reply with"I just miss you"if he missed me...wouldn't he be talking more?I know he asked me to come over today but I couldnt because were 1 1/2 hrs apart now that schools out for break....and when he got offline (we talk online a lot) he didnt say bye =/ normally its a long drawn out goodbyeand normally we webcam chat everything and he didnt want to tonight =/---maybe im taking this all out of proportion but I still feel something wrongwhat do you think? Help...
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reader, Kalyov +, writes (22 December 2008):
Kalyov is verified as being by the original poster of the question it was a lot better between him and I today
sadly he was sick but we still talked
more than the past couple of days
he got off line to go to bed
and then when he was in bed he texted me
saying that he wanted to fall asleep talking to me
he wanted to know that I was still there and cared
since I was not there to be in his arms XD
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reader, nitros  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 I cant really speak for the meeting the parents part, but I can speak for the msn, If I were you i really wouldnt pay attention to many things people say on msn, people tend to get caught up in the moment and alot more flirty online but it never really means anything, if it was getting more than just msn chat im sure you would have noticed. I hope it all turns out well in the end for you, Im sure it will :)
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reader, Kalyov +, writes (21 December 2008):
Kalyov is verified as being by the original poster of the questionForgot to add this
I invited him to spend Christmas with my family (which is on another day) and he turned me down =/
he said it would be weird (even though hes asked when he gets to meet them!)
and then he said "i never invite my gf to family events until shes like part of the family" (but i dont get that because hes already invited me to his family's New Years party and hes introduced me to his whole family)
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reader, Kalyov +, writes (21 December 2008):
Kalyov is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe knows I have morals I would like to keep
and yes I like him
I hope he knows that...I tell him a lot
but the things hes doing worries me...aka that chick on MSN
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reader, nitros +, writes (21 December 2008):
Sounds to me like he thinks you dont love him. Maybe he thinks you dont like him because you wont do anything with him. He might even think its his fault. Let him know you really like him but he has to respect your decision to not do anything, and try to reasure him that its not his fault :) good luck
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