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51-59,
anonymous
writes: I am a 42 yr old female and I know it sounds funny but I am very confused about what I want to do .I am seeing this man that is very sweet but he has a problem with drinking .When he drinks it is very scary .I love him but I dont however wish to live my life in fear of what he will do when he drinks .He has a bad temper and very jealous .Ive never had to deal with this at all .When he doesnt drink he is very depressed and pulls away into his own little whole . he is also addicted to the internet and spends most his time on there.We hardly ever leave the house as he is a home body and doesnt like crowds and I am a very out going adventurous person I dont want to hurt anyone but I dont know what to do anymore we have been seeing each other for 2 yrs and it hasnt changed ...any Help for me????
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): Alcohol is the problem here. I should know it used to be me. First he needs to accept he is hiding behind it.
Why, if 'tis dancing you would be,
There's brisker pipes than poetry.
Say, for what were hop-yards meant,
Or why was Burton built on Trent?
Oh many a peer of England brews
Livelier liquor than the Muse,
And malt does more than Milton can
To justify God's ways to man.
Ale, man, ale's the stuff to drink
For fellows whom it hurts to think:
Look into the pewter pot
To see the world as the world's not.
And faith, 'tis pleasant till 'tis past:
The mischief is that 'twill not last.
Oh I have been to Ludlow fair
And left my necktie God knows where,
And carried half way home, or near,
Pints and quarts of Ludlow beer:
Then the world seemed none so bad,
And I myself a sterling lad;
And down in lovely muck I've lain,
Happy till I woke again.
Then I saw the morning sky:
Heigho, the tale was all a lie;
The world, it was the old world yet,
I was I, my things were wet,
And nothing now remained to do
But begin the game anew.
A.E Housman
A
female
reader, vanillafrost  +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Are you happy with this man? You should seriously ask yourself that question. Can you live with him for another 2 years or maybe longer?
I think you're not supposed to be scared of your spouse. It's just not right!
I hope this will help... BE STRONG YOU DESERVE THE BEST! **GOOD LUCK**
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