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*azzie1
writes:Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys 14 and 7.I think that it's officially over why do I feel sad instead of movin on I'm home thinking about him.should I settle being that there's a lot of guys out there with baggage or just move on and how can I do that.should I change my phone#. I need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): No! Don't settle. Move on. Yes, people have baggage, but abuse is not baggage...it's a sign of sickness. Do you want your children picking up those abusive traits or worse still, do want them to become his victims as well?
Your heart will heal. You deserve better.
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (21 December 2008):
 I understand how hard it can be hon. I have been there! You are so welcome for anything that I could do to help. Merry Christmas to you and your Chilren. 8-)
Blessings,
Blue_Angel
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reader, jazzie1 +, writes (21 December 2008):
jazzie1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for ur advice so helpful. I know this is for the best but it's so hard. I defitnetly need to seek help to help me realize that I deserve better.thanks again
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (21 December 2008):
You need to break it off completely. You and your children could be in danger. The violence and abuse will forever be etched in the minds of the young ones and can lead to all sorts of problems later on in their lives. If you feel the need, change the number to prevent him from contacting you. However protect yourself as he could decide to retaliate if he is angered by your actions.
Never settle for anyone! If you aren't getting the emotional and moral support of the man you are with, you are shortchanging YOURSELF and YOUR CHILDREN. After trying for 3 years and things have increasinly worsened,chances are they WILL NOT get better.
Try to put this all behind you and seek professional help if needed so you and your children can start rebuilding your lives.........one day at a time.
I'M ONLY HUMAN.......I'M JUST A WOMAN.......
ONE DAY AT A TIME SWEET JESUS..........THAT'S ALL THAT I'M ASKING OF YOU.....SHOW ME THE STAIRWAY THAT I HAVE TO CLIMBE AND FOR MY SAKE TEACH ME TO TAKE ONE DAY AT AT TIME.
Just a few words from a very Powerful song. ONE DAY AT A TIME......God is with you and He WILL SHOW you the way...
God Bless,
Blue_Angel
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