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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:how does a female comes to know that a male is having sex for the first time? Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Yeah, just ask. Though some guys - especially if they are attempting to appear more mature than they really are - will be embarrassed to admit it.
And their overall nervousness, and skill level, are certainly circumstantial clues, but it may be difficult to tell "new-partner anxiety" from "first-time anxiety".
And if you're going to have sex with a guy, but don't already have a good idea about whether it's his first time or not, I suspect one of you (perhaps both) isn't really ready for this sexual relationship.
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female
reader, pebble  +, writes (3 May 2009):
 Unless he tells you. You can't really be sure. If you're worried, ask him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): There is no way to tell for sure. His behaviour might be a hint -- if he's utterly clueless about what to do, but even that's not certain, as he could be faking it or a particularly slow learner.
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