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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to it as I was so used to all the space I got in the previous relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I recently finished with a boy I had been seeing for a year, we had been in a long distance relationship and we had been getting through it okay. But now that I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, ...

I'd move in his city in order for him to preserve his job but he is not ready for marriage yet, should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am been in a 7 year relationship,separated by distance for 3years up to now, Our careers are both doing very well in each city, He has recently been interviewed for a position in my city but this job is a junior role compared to the position...

I cannot let this relationship go, but travelling to see him implies lying to my family that does not approve of it! Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in a mess. My family were very harsh to me about my boyfriend as they were against the relationship (I was separated from my husband) and they wanted me to go back and make the marriage work - made my life hell about it. My boyfriend has moved ...

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was...

He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. ...

Do you think she still has feelings for me or am I flying out there to get hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years which ended last July. She lived in Europe and I lived in the states. I broke up with her because I was scared of moving to Spain. The strange thing is I had a ring and I was going to propose to ...

I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her...

Should I stay in contact with my long distance ex? Is making a clean cut the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5870 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Hi guys, would just like more opinions regarding contact with my ex. If you're unclear of my situation, check my column, but I'll give you the jist: Long distance relationship Lasted 2 Years Was completely heartbroken when she ended it (...

He said we can't be together or his family will disown him!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I just want other people opinions on this really because I want to know if I have every right to be extremely hurt. I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months and we're 3 hours away and I'm willing to get trains every Friday night to spend t...

We're in love but live too far apart!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a guy who's far away!! I know he loves me and i love him, that's not the problem, but he's not going to move back here, and i dont think im going to move there anytime soon really. No one has, or ever will come close to him in my m...

We're in love, but should we take a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Well i met this amazing girl online we started a relationship 7 monthes ago. Well anyway everything was going great she would tell me that she would give her life to me and i would always tell her the same. Like for example i told her i was read...

I had my flight booked to go and meet my online guy and backed out at the last minute..I feel so akward with him now, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Ok. So I've been talking to this one guy on the internet for about 2 years. I have such strong feeling for him. About a week and a half ago,we decided to meet up. I bought my plane ticket,and everything. The morning I woke,to go to the airport,...

Our long-distance relationship has been hampered by constant fighting-but we want to get married when he comes back. Will it work for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years and 5 months now, and in that we have spent more than 2 years in long distance but he is coming back to the US soon now and we have decided to move in together and get married in a couple ...

I need to know everything and hate liars do I have a control issue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - OK, I had been in a long distance relationship with my BF for about more than 3 years. When we first started to date he was still seem his ex-girl and he said that he had no feelings for her; but he never broke up with her; he was not sleeping with ...

Should he be working on progressing the relationship more?

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29 March 2008 (F) - So I've been talking with this guy for about 2 months now. It's a bit complicated as we met thru my ex, but that is LONG over at htis point and he def. knows that. Anyway, we're both in our mid/late 20s, we have similar beliefs about dating - e...

I need help to get over my partners ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I can't get over my partner's ex. (It's a long distance thing, but we see each other enough for us to get by) -She's easily upset, and I feel too guilty to go out sometimes, thus missing out the 'prime times of my youth' when she's not out, which is...

Should I relocate to be with him even though he might never marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - what should i do? background - together for 7months - relationship been great. we met each other's family, hang out together all the time - i love him and i think he does too problem - he's relocating to another country and i don't know if ...

Currently in a long distance relationship, but I find myself asking other women out, is there cause for concern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. We're currently apart (since last August) because of work reasons. Since being apart I have been looking at other women having the urge to ask them out on dates. In some cases I have asked. I...

She wants more commitment I'm happy with the way things are for the moment-advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I (both in our early twenties) met last summer. She lives six times zones away and so it’s been a 7 month long-distance relationship interspersed with three trips to see each other. To our great frustration, our needs for a ...

Should I trust him if I commit to a mortgage agreement

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for 3 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He is now living in different city because of work. He would like to buy a property so I can move up to his city about 1/2 year later (when my work gets orga...

My girlfriend created a "secret profile" on myspace! Can I trust her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - hi everybody, i have a long distance relationship since 2 years. i discover recently that my girlfriend (23 years old) have created secretly a profile in my space, where she claims to be single. i asked her if she was hidding something from m...

My first boyfriend ever and I love him so much. He's going away with the army for six months, how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi There I have asked questions here before which has been a lot of help to me. Now im about to face the biggest challange of my life and need as much help as possible to do it Im 24 And i am in a reletionship This is my first relationship. I ...

How do I "come out of the closet" and have a chance with this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - hi, my name is dan, i'm 16, i'm gay, i haven't come out of the closet yet and i keep my feelings bottled up inside and it hurts. i have two questions, first one i'm in love with this guy who lives about 70 miles away and i've bin in love wid hi...

He doesn't call as much since moving back to our home town!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend never calls me back, this never seemed to be a problem when we were having a long distance relationship, but since he has moved to my home town after about 4 months now he never calls when he says he will?...

I won't to leave hin again but this time for good. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Okay I know I am only 17 but I would really like some opinons. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, he has cheated on me once and I ended it at that but a week later I found myself back in the same relationship. There has been other ...

Is it bad to ask my boyfriend for less attention? I have feelings for a long distance friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Okay well theres this guy and we've met way long ago, since then we've always liked each other. He lives in the Philippines and i live in United States. but no matter what everytime i go there its like the feelings never go away. In other words ...

Eleven year friendship, five months of long distance relationship...and we've never met in person!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend on the internet 11 years ago this summer. We were kids when we first met and dated on and off, drifting apart occasionally, but never losing contact of each other. Last May he finally broke ties with his ex-girlfriend, and I was ...

My husband lied about contacting his ex, he's posted near her now...I am going totally crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband is in the army and is posted to the North of England while I still live in Scotland. He comes home at weekends. We have been married for nearly 12 years and have one child, a daughter aged 9. His ex girlfirend lives near to the area...

How can we make our long distance relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - I am in the Northeast, have 3 children and am separated. My soulmate is about 1000 miles away and has two children. Neither one of us can realisticly move to where the other lives as the kids cannot be taken away from their other parent. My soulmate ...

How do you start taking it slowly after a whirlwind long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I'm 30 and have been in a LDR with a guy who's 24, for about 6 months now. At first he couldn't get enough of me. He'd PM me non-stop during the day ending them with love you forever etc etc, sending me requests to join him on the webcam as soon as ...

I feel like I've never stopped loving her, so is there a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

25 March 2008 (M) - Here's my problem: I moved from one country to another nearly 10 years ago. I haven't seen nor talked to my old friends who stayed back there for all this time cause there hasn't been a way to do it. Among them was my first love ever - we had no...

She says she doesn't want anything serious so how do I take things to the next level?

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25 March 2008 (M) - Alright, so just about 4 months ago i started to get back into dating again when i met this girl that has me going crazy now(in a good way). she has been writing me messages and texting me multiple times a day and she always wants to be around me ...

How long am I to wait for him to make up his mind about living together? We're from different countries.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we were moving in together (he lives in a different country). Last week he send me an email telling me that he was scared and not sure about the step that we were going to take, we decided to postpone the ...

How can I get comfortable in this situation and advance our feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, So, I really like my this girl that my brother is friends with. She's cute and funny and everything that I could want in a girl. However, she's a few years younger and just a sophomore in college, where as I graduated last y...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - I met a man on-line 2 yrs ago. We met and had an instant connection. Our relationship was a LDR for months. He was going through a divorce and also was leaving for Iraq for a year but we managed to stay in contact while he was gone; then everythi...

Are friendships or relationships with penpals possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Hello buddies! i was thinking...can we fall in love with a person that we never met? I mean,a penpal that we never met...? I talk with a guy called Josh since 7 or 8 months now and it's like my best friend,but i never met him! I found him on mys...

My first long distance relationship, how do I know he means it when he says he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - hi im a 16 year old girl, i recently got in a relationship but my boyfriend and i are having a far distence relationship and this is my first far distance relationship, the thing is that i dont know if he is serious about us,when i ask if he loves ...

Is it wrong to love someone you've never meet in person ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

23 March 2008 (?) - I have the most amazing boyfriend. He's a year older then me . I'm 15 and he's 16. He says he loves me and I love him so much . The only problem is that we don't go to the same school. I met him through a friend and I've never seen him in person . ...

If I want a long-term relationship, which of the two girls should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

22 March 2008 (M) - I'm a male, 17 years old, homeschooled. At a homeschooling meeting, I introduced myself to a new girl who appeared to be around my age. As it turns out she's 13, but actually wants me as her boyfriend, which I'm reluctant to do for obvious ...

I'm married but found my "Soulmate"! Should I leave my wife?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

22 March 2008 (M) - I am married for 15 years with 2 children. I reconnected with the woman I have loved my entire life by accident and we began an affair. It has lasted for over a year and we are soulmates and madly in love. We want to be together forever. She is ...

Do you think I should stop texting him altogether and wait till he texts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - Hi guys I hope you can help me with this. Ive been seeing a new guy for about a month and we have usually met up twice a week. Things are going really well apart from one thing. He used to live in the same place where i am in college but now he has ...

I'm hesitating between the two girls I talk to via Internet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

21 March 2008 (M) - Well I'm talking to these 2 great girls online and kind of like them both and well I don't know what to do.. On one hand, the one I talked to longer seems more ready to settle down while the other I'm not sure so much. One who seems a bit more ready ...

I went abroad, ended it, came back and to know if I could be the one he wants to marry.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - I was in a 2 year relationship with a man that i really loved and still loved- we broke up around this time last year because i decided to take a career opporunity in a different country for a year. I really wanted to stay together- one decision ...

Husband is just "actually" sleeping with friend's wife, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

21 March 2008 (F) - My Husband had to move with his job to a different city. Now he may be sleeping with a friend's wife but claims that there is nothing going on because she is a married woman. I was able to find some photographs on a public forum, which is what ...

My long distance boyfriend wants me to go naked in front of my webcam..I feel awkward and like I'm doing something wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I am from a conservative family. yet i have opened up to my bf and have had sex with him many times. it is a long distance relationship. now i got a webcam and he wants me to go naked in front of it. although i trust him i feel awkward and i told ...

My boyfriend is in the army, can our love last long distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Ive been dating a guy in the army for a couple of months, we've got on great but hes being posted to germany, i thought we could carry on but hes said it wouldnt work because of the distance and the fact we wouldnt see each other, ive said id be ...

My husband went abroad for work and tells me it's too difficult for me to join him yet...could he be cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - My husband left me and went abroad to work after one month of our marriage,its been one and a half months since he has gone and till now he is showing no signs of calling me there. Before going he said he wont take more than few weeks but its been ...

I think she is worth driving 12 hours to see, but she doesn't believe me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

18 March 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and my girlfriend (16) has moved interstate. I've just gotten my provisional license. The only time I can see her at the moment is during her school holidays when she returns to my town. That means that there is about a 3 month gap between ...

I am lost, I think I know what I want, but I lie so much I don't know what I even want.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (?) - I am a 22 year old, in the Marines; I have been on a deployment to Iraq and preparing for another one. I was young when I first had my long relationship in high school and continued into the Marines. She broke up with me and it hurt me. I then ...

Should I try to make it work or let it go, at least for the next two years??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

16 March 2008 (F) - I was dating my boyfriend for a few months and he had to move 4 hours away. We were too in love to end the relationship. So for the past two years we have carried on a long distance relationship, talking on the phone constantly and him visiting me ...