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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

The contacts are very infrequent. He also refused visiting me on holidays for financial matters even though I sent him my savings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i've been in long distance relationship with my hunny for the past 2 yrs now and all was goin on well until september when he changed his university n he had to move out to other town. he stopped callin me so often as it used to be before coz he c...

Fallen for a guy 200 miles away... Soon to be 400 miles away. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Ok, I'm divorced, but my marriage was a sham anyway. I met this guy over the internet. We have been talking, emailing text messages etc and have met up. I really really like him, and he's told me he likes me. Its been going on now for about 2 ...

We decided to talk less frequently to avoid arguments. Is this the end of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend moved to italy a few months ago, and we were in a really happy relationship. ive been over to visit once and he comes home for xmas soon. recently we've decided we talk to eachother too much, and this is causing us to have arguments, so ...

I proposed, she accepted me - but now she suddenly wants to break up thinking I have cheated. How do I convince her of the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I'v been in a long distance realtionship with this really wonderful gurl since 7months...we've been liking each other since 2 years now but then it took me time to propose her and then she accepted me.now 7months down the line she wants to break up ...

I had a crush on my teacher and we are still in contact now that I am at Uni

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I had a crush on a teacher for 5 years at secondary school. Am now at university and we are still in contact, texting and emailing. What should i do? People used to joke about us and they still ask me how she is and things. I think i love her, she ...

I don't want to wait 5 years. Is there any future in this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - my gf is 23 and live far away from me in brazil.we are together 2 years now.the problem is that she never wants to speak about our future and the probability to live one day in my country (we are agree that it would be difficult for me to work in ...

How can I get our sizzling love back??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - I've been in a platonic relationship wit my girlfriend for about 5 months now. She adored me very much and always expressed it profusely but after the first 2months,we were kinda seperated by distance because i was doing my IT(student program)in a ...

A poem for christmas? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 224 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I would like some opinions on an idea for a gift this Christmas...it is for a special guy that I have my eye on, but as circumstances have us living far apart, I have been trying to come up with something that is original and kind of sweet in a ...

My long distance boyfriend and I plan to get married in 2008... But he hasn't proposed yet. Does a proposal really matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. On our one year anniversary, I made him a photobook of our past year together and gave him a card. He didn't get me anything. I wasn't bothered by this - should I be? We have a long distance ...

My boyfriend and I get along great... so why am I falling for this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we get along great, I love him to bits. We've been through at lot together and we have such a great connection. This is a long distance relationship though and although it can be annoying I ...

My LD friend had always been unfailingly polite but became rude and uncaring when I mostly needed his support. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I don't know where his head is at, and I was forced to leave even though I didn't want to. Here is the story: My LD friend and I grew much closer than friends over time. We've visited each other a few times, but the last time was the only time we...

I lied to my long distance boyfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - hi, i just turned 18 not too long ago and im in a long distance relationship with someone, but i lied about my looks a little, i sent a real picture, only one and it was with really good lighting, im not ugly or anything its just i lied about my ...

We are both worried the distance will split us apart.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I'm 16 and my bf is 20, we've been going out for nearly 4 months now and are in love, the only problem is that its long distance. He lives in england and i'm in scotland,we both trust one another completely, he comes up when he can but recently...

Should I move closer to be with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - Ok, so I met someone on holiday who I really like, but she lives 300 miles away. What do i do? First of all I would explain that this was an unplanned holiday given to me by a friend who was taking his girlfriend, now ex. It was intended to be a...

My girlfriend and I have an open relationship because we're so far apart but it's making me depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend started an "open" relationship about a month ago. We had an intense relationship this summer and I fell in love with her. I went back to school at the end of the summer, and she stayed where we met. When we parted, the ...

I do not know how or where to start. I just want to be happy again, to get over the break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Hi. I'm just looking for a bit of advice, like everyone else, and I feel uncomfortable talking to anyone else about this. I broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago because he moved away at the beginning of september, we tried to do the long ...

I want to dump my girlfriend for a girl who lives in Texas who likes me, should I go for it and fly to see her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - Hey I am that guy who asked for help and U gave it to me about the girl from Texas. Well just two days ago she was talking to me on da fone and she told me she liked me a lot!!! Now I am happy but I have a problem first I am going out with this gir...

I want to bring my partner and I closer together by understanding what he's going through, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 215 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a 38 yr old single female. I met someone few months back through an unbelivable situation, i did not ever think one could meet someone the way i met, anyways i have no complains and consider my self lucky. The person i met is someone i have ...

My long-distance boyfriend has said he'd change because he doesn't treat me right and I have a male friend who fancies me, how should I handle all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I just started at college 3 months ago and I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of over a year. Lately he has not been treating me well and I know he is constantly flirting with other girls. I was ready to break up with him but ...

Why doesn't he come to see me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I we have been dating for over 6 years, he lives in the UK and he is married, I am living in France and I am single. We do care about each other and we do trust each other. We get on well even though we are far from each other. ...

We have a LD relation, I insisted on visiting him but he insisted not to, claiming it was expensive. Is he finding excuses?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - I am currently on a long distance relationship, and I am always flying over to his place. I am planning to see him next week; but I was also planning to go the following week (meaning 10 days after); but he told me not to come since he is coming d...

I think my friends guy might be cheating on her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - hey this is a question that has been nagging out me for a long time now...its about my friend she has a boyfriend that lives 3 hours away form her she's only seen him twice IN HER WHOLE LIFE she thinks she's in love but this is just her first "real" ...

Will this long distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - i met a guy trough internet. i never thought that we will connect this much. we are talking for hours every day. i am not sure, but i think that i have feeling for him, and he says that he is in love with me. what should i do? can this kind of ...

Stuck in a rut!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I have been in arelationship with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a half but lately we've stopped being as affectionate to each other. Though it's long distance (200 miles from each other), that isn't the problem, we've always been quite ...

He asked for a break, but he still wants to be with me. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 231 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - My Fiance and I have been together for about a year now things are great.About 4 1/2 months ago he had to move to another state because he wanted to attend a good college for a year befor he went to the navy.So right now we're in a LONG distant ...

We're friends but I want more. Should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 231 days ago

20 November 2007 (M) - A little long (sorry) For the past 5 years..........I've been debating this question: Should I tell a girl who is 6 years older than me that I should be the one she should be dating? Now as I said earlier, we've been friends for 5 almost 6 year...

Will he regret moving in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 152 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We are both in our mid 20s. We are very stable and had been talking about moving in together since the first year of dating. We lived in two separate cities approximately two hours drive away. We ...

Men from Mars and Women from Venus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 November 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid...I've been having this long distance relationship for about 3 years now planning to move in together next year. But, recently he's been very busy and we haven't seen each other over a month. For me it's been very tough, but I think he ...

I'm scared about this guy on the internet.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

16 November 2007 (F) - I met this guy on the internet and we have started dating I love him soooo much but the thing is He cuts himself and doesnt go to school me and his best friend got into a fight and he cut himself what can I do to help him? He says im the most ...

Is she serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

16 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet ...

On again off again, should I or shouldn't I, help please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 230 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - The Context: I was with X from February 2005 til August 2006, as I was moving to university. I have never been so truly in love, so happy, so content. I lost my virginity to this man, and he made me feel so safe. We could talk about anything...

Long distance beakup, we both said we were still in love with each other, can we get back together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend well my ex-boyfriend and i were together for 16 months. the other day he called me after he drove back to his place 3 hours away that he had been feeling depressed and it was worse when we saw each other or talked on the phone. he said ...

I'm so confused. What should I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 233 days ago

15 November 2007 (F) - I have a nice boyfriend. I think he loves me... think, I'm not sure. He of course is telling me that occassionaly and sms, phone calls are inevitable everyday! At the moment we have a Long distance relationship, since He's working in another ...

I think I'm in love but she is 100 miles away....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

14 November 2007 (M) - hey, I met this girl on holiday in august (i'm 16 she's 15) and we really got on well, just as mates. I got her email address and we've been sending each other the odd message. The problem is that i can't stop thinking about her, and even though i...

I'm afraid to tell my bf I'm pregnant. I'm 16 and he's currently in another country until June.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

13 November 2007 (F) - A little help here guys? Okay im 16 years old and 4 weeks ago my boyfriend moved to another country, to be back sometime between January and June!! BIG problem. Today i found out, im six weeks pregnant, definatley my boyfriends i...

Can long distance relationships work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

13 November 2007 (M) - I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong? Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong beca...

I've gone away to university, now my bf wants to split up, how can I keep him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - Hi. Im completly new to this but I don't know who else to talk to. I'm 20 and just started uni about 6 weeks ago. I've been with my bf for nearly three years now and we've got a good relationship(we argue but not alot, we trust each other completley ...

Ideas to get flirty - not smutty, just a gentle tease? - We keep in contact by mail while he's travelling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 239 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - Hi there, I hope some of you people can give me some advise. I have recently started dating a guy and unfortunately he is travelling right now so we are keeping in touch bt mail. in order to keep the momentun up we are playing a game of ask any 10 ...

We broke up since he was moving to another country. How do I get past seeing him with another woman at parties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years broke up about 4 months ago. we survived losing our son and also we had both cheated on the other during our relationship but we got past it. he was moving away but we got together and decided that since he was moving to ...

He likes me - I refuse a relation, now I like him - but we live away now and he's in a relation. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 239 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - i want to tell my friend that i would like to be more than friends but am not sure if this is a good idea. we met a few years ago and i know for sure he had a crush on me for quite a while. i made it clear that i didn't feel the same and we beca...

Does he really love me, or is he just saying it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

12 November 2007 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy. We haven't had much face to face time, and this has been going on for quite some time. He said that he wants to come visit me, but I said I wasn't sure anymore. He then tells me he loves me. Can ...

Is he stringing me along or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

10 November 2007 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship 5 years now. I met my boyfriend -who is in the US army- when both of us were on vacation. I had about 7 days left before I return home and he had 5. We connected right away, we started seeing each other ...

Should I end this long distance internet romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

10 November 2007 (F) - I am 40yrs old and 2 months ago (after 7 years on my own)I started a relationship (via the internet) with a 25 yr old man in the North of England. We have spoken on the phone every day for a couple of hours at a time and had wonderful phone sex. He ...

I have begun feeling for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - I met this guy online webite for teens this summer. We had so much in common. We are huge sports fans and we write for school papers. We are super involved in school and we've been talking ever since. We email very often. He lives about 4 hrs away...

Do long distance relationships work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Long distance relationships - Do they work? I've met a guy through work who I really like. Only problem is that I haven't met him - he lives about 5 hours away from me. We talk everyday (Monday - Friday) and text each other most evenings. He sa...

My girlfriend is moving to NZ, we love each other but we think a break will help us. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

8 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend is moving to Newzeeland in about 4 - 5 months and we are going to break up. We started off our relationship sexually and have had a good sex life up until recently. Now we really have sex which causes rows and we think going on a ...

I speak to my bf on the phone but I don't want to sound depressed all the time because of the distance. Suggestions to make this easier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

8 November 2007 (F) - Hi My boyfriend has been sent away for work for a few months. We have recently just moved in together and I am totally missing him at the moment.. I have this really bad longing for him and he's only been gone a week. We speak to each other all t...

Seperated by college. He is doubtful of his love. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 244 days ago

7 November 2007 (F) - i've been in a relationship with my collegemate for 2yrs now..he's gone to london to further his studies..we made several arrangments n promises to stay together, etc. it's been 2months of long distance relationship, we've had a few minor adjustment ...

I go to him but he makes less effort to come to me! Do I accept this because I love him or seek elsewhere the attention I need?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

6 November 2007 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. We live about 5 miles apart, and in the beginning he would come over to my house to see me, call me regularly, and tell me how much he missed me if we didn't see each other during the week. As ...

She tells me she loves me and no one else, then hasn't called me in a month.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

6 November 2007 (M) - I was truly in love with my ex and it took me most of the summer to decide that I was ready to get back into a relationship (I just got out of a rather bad several year relationship). She pressured me all summer to go out with her and was sexually ...