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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Meeting my guy in Spain soon, but is he brushing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 786 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I wrote in last week about a Spanish guy I met on holiday 2 weeks ago. He gave me his number and was deciding to ring him or not as he doesn't talk much English, so I plucked up courage and rang him. I spoke to his friend as he could talk more Eng...

My online guy won't ring me, only chats with me on IM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 786 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I met a guy off the internet about 3 months ago. He lives in GA, and I live in NC. It's about a 3 1/2 hour drive to see each other, but so far the distance hasn't been a problem because after talking to each other on the phone for a month or ...

He just left for the army and i miss him, how do i through the lonely nights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - i know this is gonna sound sad bt my bf went in the army 2day and i miss him so much already, ive been with him over 2years and normally i wouldnt b writing how much i miss him at 3 in the mornining but i cant get it out of my head that im not gonna ...

How do i get him to come visit me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 788 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - I am currently seeing a guy who is 13 years older than me. I met him because he's my dad's friends son. Everything is great between us except that he lives one state over from me and never wants to drive down and see me. I almost think it is ...

Internet guy Im dating is in a relationship with someone else with a daughter, any advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 788 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - i need some advice.i am in a long distance relationship with this guy who i met over the internet.we have been together for six months now and have known each other as friends for a year all together.but just a few days ago he tells me that he has ...

Living on my own whilst he's away, good idea for an 18 year old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 790 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - hey guys would love your advice please! im 18 and have been with my bf for 3 years. he is joining the army on monday. last week he asked me that once ive finished my a-levels and have got a job would i like to get a place with him. i totaly love ...

Revision is getting in the way of us seeing each other, and I'm tired of coming second!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

25 May 2006 (F) - Hey all, My boyfriend and I are in a long term relationshp and we've been arguing recently over his refusal to come home (he's too busy with revision etc) - even though it means he won't see me for 6weeks (we've never been apart this long). ...

Should I call my Spanish Guy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 792 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - i just back from ibiza,while i was out there on the last night i met this spanish guy,he was 25 i', 43 we got on well but he couldnt talk much english.he gave me his number,now back in the uk i'm thinking should i give him a ring or not and what ...

My lover wanted to be with me for all time, then decided that he's straight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 793 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - Dear Agony aunts, I need some advice and thoughts. I was in a gay long distance relationship, where we had plans on getting married. We were together for two years, and through out these two years we were devoted to each other. When we were to...

My boyfriend moved for a job and now he wants to finish our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - have been with my boyfriend for 6 mths . 2 of those mths he has moved away to a new job. literally half an hour away by plane. he has decided to end it cause the distance is to far and his feelings are not strong enough he won't talk how can I get ...

My boyfriend has cheated but wants to make a go of our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - This is really complicated but I’ll just tell you what has most recently happened. Had a long distance relationship for 2 years with a guy who was at uni but it didn’t work cos he couldn’t stay faithful cos he was out with lads drinking etc – uni ...

internet guy still has a dating profile online,is this abnormal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 794 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I met a man on internet dating site, it has been about 4 months. I cancelled my profile after about 2 weeks and to my surprise he is still on there. I confronted him...and he says that we are compatible and the age difference is what he is concerned ...

Girlfriend is being offish.. How can I show her my true feelings??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

22 May 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. About 2 months ago, I really upset her. She told me about her previous sexual experience and it freaked me out and I reacted really badly to it and said some really hurtful things. She was mad at me ...

Is it ment to be? or am i just setting myself up to get hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 795 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - I was in prison for 4 years and had a pen-pal that was also in prison, we lost contact about halfway through my time. We both went to a transitional center (a place you get a job and re-enter society) I got out before he did and kept the job I had ...

My family don't like my long term boyfriend, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

20 May 2006 (F) - MY boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 years.My mom and my sister do not agree with our relationship.They want to send me to New York to forget him.Should i go go New york then to France to see my boyfriend?...

Fallen in love with someone online, but he won't come and meet me! It's been a year already...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 796 days ago

20 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 26 female, and I really need help... I met someone online, and I know online chat is only for entertainment and not for a serious one, but this one I am serious. I met someone for the past 1 year and 7 months and I'm sure I love this guy, ...

Why am I doing all the work in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 797 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - Hey, My Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I feel I am putting in all the effort. Last semester I was always the one going up to see him, cos he didnt want to come home, and that was fine. However now I can't go u...

He manipulates, insults and ignores me, advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 799 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Hey. This might be long. I need advice on how to be stronger, and more emotionally firmer in my long distance relationship coz its very special, and has so much potential,but I'm the one doing the chaising, all the calling,the apologis...

His going overseas & i am not invited,is there any point staying together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 800 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i posted recently about my boyfriend going overseas, and I thought some of you maybe see the whole picture, or were a little harsh. i guess it sounds bad, but he has said he cares about me deeply, knows he will really miss me etc, but the idea of me ...

Hoping we will reunite,but scared i will never see him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 800 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - My ex bf and I broke up about 5 months ago becuz he had 2 move back home and leave our uni. We both still really cared about eachother but we figured it would be best 2 end it becuz of the distance. We still k.i.t. with instant messages and the ...

Will he cramp my style when I go to college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - should i break up with him when i go away to college? my boyfriend and i have been going out together for 8months now but i wil be going away to college in september. im afraid il miss out on the real college experience if im still attached. i...

What can I say in a horny text without sounding *stoopid*?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i are apart alot and he has kinda compained that i dont send him horny texts! i like recieving them from him and would love to be able please him with some but i am worried i wil sound stupid or wont know what to say after the first ...

I dont want him to go!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 801 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I have posted a few times already about this, but would just appreciate some more advice, because I really don't know how to deal with it. My boyfriend of 18 months is going overseas on his OE in only 2 weeks time. He's had this plan for years (h...

I think I still love him, but he's so far away, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

9 May 2006 (F) - I am an journalist who moved to New York from the North of England 7 years ago, when I was 19. At the time I split from my boyfriend, who didn't want me to leave. But I couldn't miss the chance I'd waited for it all of my life. For the first year in ...

I don't want to hurt her, but I feel it's time to break up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

9 May 2006 (M) - so how do I break up with her? we're both sophomores at different colleges, and have been dating since senior year of high school. i just don't feel the same way as I once did, and i really don't want to hurt her. she's been asking things like what ...

I'm 17, he's 40 and we met online, I want to tell my parents about it. How will they react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 805 days ago

8 May 2006 (F) - This might be a bit long but i hope u can bear with me! Basically i'm 17 (18 in about three weeks) and female and with a 40 year old guy and we've been properly seeing each other since march. We met online (not on a dating site or anything - it was...

Want to resist the urgies to call ex while on a conference... Any ideas??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 810 days ago

7 May 2006 (F) - I need help on this one. My boyfriend of a few years left me almost a year ago now and relocated to his home city. I am now seeing someone on a fairly steady basis but I will be flying out to his home city tomorrow for a two day work related ...

I'm in love with my guy mate and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 781 days ago

7 May 2006 (F) - We live far away from eachother so we talk on msn. He has a girlfriend, but i am totally in love with him, i'm so determined to get him. I think he feels the same way because he has told me he likes me and would be with me if he could. I want to ...

I'm going to the navy and I want her to know everything will be fine....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 812 days ago

4 May 2006 (M) - Iv been dating my girlfriend for around 4mths now and im joining the royal navy july 9th. we're both really in love and it was fate. she now lives 2.5hrs away but we still see each other and very much in love. in the navy i get weekends off and can ...

Our relationship has gone long distance, now all we do is argue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 813 days ago

4 May 2006 (F) - i am 21 years old and i am in a long distance relationship my boyfriend i love him but we get into rediculous arguments i think becuase he is immature it wasn't always long distance but i am use to it now. i get very stressed out after an argument ...

I moved and he said he can't do long distance....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - i have boyfiend of 3 years. i moved to the capital some 800 km from him. he told me that his not ready for distance relationship and that his afraid of losing me. i know he does loves me and i do. he doesnt call me i try to call him he did here and ...

I'm so insecure and worried that my boyfriend is living life while I'm worrying about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 815 days ago

2 May 2006 (F) - hello, i just feel like a total loser at the moment, i'm at uni and feeling really lonely. my boyfriend is at a different uni and he has loads of friends and i just seem to get more and more paranoid that he doesnt need me or hes cheating on me. i ...