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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not ...

She still calls, but less often.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I meet this girl online about 2yrs ago. And every day we talked all night long as much as we could on the phone. In things where great she had a 8 yr relationship with a other guy when we meet in she was still going out with him. So about after 3 ...

Tips for Phone Sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Ok so im in a long distance relationship with my GF and was wondering if i could get any tips for phone sex. When we were together we had sex quite a bit and when we talk on the phone we reminisce on the times spent together. So yea any help or ...

Met a great guy in Turkey but not sure how to proceed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I have just come back from Turkey in July and met a really nice Turkish man who is aged 22 we got on really well and with my son and family. We have spoken everyday and we are now in love and would love to get married one day. He wishes to move here ...

Is there a cure for my indecisiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Ok I have known two wonderful guy "A" business man and "B"a doctor which i just knew...this two relationship is a long distance relationship. "A" i have knew him like around for a month and we so madly in loved with each other but he is always so ...

Can our relationship survive my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello, I am in desperate need of some advice. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now, we met at university and promptly moved in together when she finished her course. After I finished uni I was between jobs and unemployed for a...

Thoughts on technology and long distance relationships

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - It never fails to amaze me how many questions I see on here about long distance relationships (LDR's). I will admit, I understand the temptation. I've been there. I've tried it. I've concluded that they don't work. Still, what is it about these ...

I'm interested in a 13 year old girl who lives 2 hours away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Ok i got a problem. Im 15 and ive been talking to this girl. She is only 13. We both have feeling for each other. i just dont know if that age difference at this time is right. She also lives 2 hours away so it would be a kinda long distance ...

I don't want her talking to my old bestfriend but she does anyways!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she ...

I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

24 September 2010 (M) - We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or commen...

How can I tell my dad about my long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - About 5 years ago, I met this guy online on a social networking site. We e been speaking to each other for, like I said, 5 years and we confessed that we love eachother last October. He's like my Kherson half! We have so much in common and his ...

We love each other but we are not in love cause of bad times

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been going on and off for 3 years with a long distance relationship, at the beginning everything was sweet and nice even and we found ways to feel like we were face to face even though we were miles away. But fights happened and ...

I'm still in love with him, but I'm unhappy. Should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

24 September 2010 (F) - I feel like it would take me a long time to go into the specifics, so I'm going to try to ask this as simply as possible. What do you do when you're in love with a person, but you're unhappy? I still love my boyfriend, and he still loves me, ...

Since she moved away she's not paying the same attention to me... advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend acts like she loves me so much and that she wants to talk to me soo much every day. we have a long distance relationship because she moved to canada but every day she inboxes me on facebook saying how she misses me so much and how she ...

He claims to love me yet he slept with someone else because he needed sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am 29 years old and have been in the same realtionship for 7 years. 5 years ago my boyfriend made a move 2000 miles from me with my blessing, for work. I told him if we could survive a year apart I would move. With the economy, not being ab...

Am I crazy for loving someone I've never met in real life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - I'm 19 and he's 22...and he lives in France. We met by chance on chat roulette in April and we talked every day on aim/facebook chat/google chat and webcam ever since then. We even send each other text messages almost everyday. We are both naturally ...

LDR breakup so hard because I don't have friends around me

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23 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broke up because of the strain of a long distance relationship. The breakup has affected me greatly because of the sudden loss in attention and just being able to talk to her everyday. So I was wondering what should I do ...

Should I send him pics, or should he be respectful of my decisions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of almost a month wants pics but im not that comfortable about it. He is sorta mad about it because I said idk. Its also a semi long distant relationship. I really like him! Should I do it or should he be repectful of my decisions? ...

Is he stringing me along like everyone else says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - i had a boyfriend over the summer but he had to go back home afterwards. (he lives VERY far away) We probably wont be able to see each other for at least a year, but we were talking/skyping everyday for a week after he left. now its getting more ...

He is talking to ladies online and won't stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend of four years spends all his free time in chat rooms I have discovered 1o5 contacts all females . I read numerous sexual conversations he has initiated, denies he has a girlfriend , I've confronted him several times he tells me he's ...

I'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend is making it worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

23 September 2010 (F) - dear aunts and uncles, i'm feeling insecure lately and my boyfriend just making it worst so about a month ago i found on his phone a picture of a naked girl it was from a magazine i was mad but we worked it out but i'm quite not over it when i ...

How do I tell her after I leave I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4965 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I have a gf of 10 months. We really like each other. I visit her house every day for at least 6 hours. The problem is she wants me to come daily without gettin late no matter what and if i dont she gets all psyched. how do i stop doin that? Now,...

Second life is real life to my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I have been involved with a man for 7 years. In that 7 years I have found that he lies to me many times, changing his stories and says that I am remembering things incorrectly (which I know is bull). Because we live apart and neither of us ma...

How do I break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl for well over a year now, and I think it's time that I break up with her. We are both Americans and first met 2 years ago while studying abroad in Germany for a semester. We are quite different ...

Is it important to find out why they broke up with their ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

22 September 2010 (M) - I hate long distance relationships and i promised myself not to have one again.. this one was unexpected and i plan to move hours away to be with her with quitting my job in the process.. We've been talking for a year now and have met a few times....

Hard breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So here's the situation. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's hurting really bad. We were in a long distance relationship of 1 year and things started out fantastic. But towards the end of the relationship she started to pay less ...

Love of my life, getting back together with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So here it goes gang. Long time reader, first time poster. I recently had a strange even unfold. First I will give some back history. I dated this amazing girl for about 2 and a half years. She is a grade younger than me (only 6 months in age ap...

FWB relationship--i do not want to feel like I am just good enough for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4966 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a FWB relationship for four months. It is a long distance thing and from the beginning was clear that it will never be a real relationship. He started talked to me every day, chasing me for months and caring about me. He was very ...

Caught in the middle of a love triangle: My partner is in love with me and the mother of his children!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Dear readers, I'm presently caught in the mids of a love triangle. the guy that I'm in love with is in love with two women. This was not suppose to happen because she is his long time family friend from childhood. They both got married to other...

I love him but he lives 500 miles away...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Well basically I'm 13 and I dont know what to do.... I met this guy online and he's really sweet and I really love him and he loves me but he lives 500 miles away in Essex and I want to be with him so badly but I can't because he lives that far away ...

Why would my boyfriend lie about something that did not happen?

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21 September 2010 (F) - so i have this boyfriend, i have been with him since beginning of may, known him since last october(i went to see a friend who lives in his town, they knew each other, she introduced us, i ended up cheating with him on my bf at the time), we are ...

Confused about email from ex-girlfriend and if we have a chance to reunite

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - Hey. I have been dating a girl for 2 years in a long distance relationship (lives an hour away) and she recently told me she needed a break. I am in the medical profession and for the last 5 months I have been working in a new job and studying at ...

I don't want to put any pressure on him... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - A friend of mine and his girl broke their relationship off and he is still kinda in recovery, or more he just isn't really interested in anyone. I feel the same way about my ex I broke things off with of many years. He goes to a college that is ...

I know we are not a couple but I thought we were friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - We are having this 'casual' relationship for months now. I know this can never be a real relationship and maybe i would be happier if it finishes. It is a long distance thing so we set up our 'dates' where we can. And we do fairly often. I saw him...

Online love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Hey there guys. I have a kind of weird feeling. Please don't judge as i have mo own reasons why i choose this type of love. So first thing is there is this guy i met online in April, and he is form an other country. we started as friends, but soon...

Is my best friend probably in love with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm terribly having a problem with my NOW-EX-BOYFRIEND. We've been together for more than two years. We were classmates during high school. We were close friends that time. And got developed when we were both in our 1st year in college. Sin...

Should I trust that he won't cheat if I'm lying in his bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 8 years. 5 of those years have been long distance (seeing each other 5 times a year for a week at a time). recently I found out that he has been cheating for 3 years mainly with one girl, he says he doesnt/didnt ...

Girfriend coming back from a trip after long-distance arguments. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

20 September 2010 (M) - My Girfriend is away for a one month language course in Europe. It has been 3 weeks now, and she is coming back next week. Before she left we werent doing very well, fighting and even getting physical once or twice. But we keep getting back ...

Feel insecure in a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm a 25-year-old girl in Asia and I've been dating my 24-year-old European boyfriend since February. Now, we're in a long distance relationship because he has gone back to his country to finish his school and it's been two months. (Sorry, I ...

Am I being naive, or does he really feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I need to know the opinion of someone who doesn't know me or anything about the people involved in this situation. So I'm going to explain this entire thing from the beginning. This summer I met a guy who was so different from any guy I'd ever met. ...

I've only got myself to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

19 September 2010 (?) - I have been in a LDR, me in Scotland whilst he is in the South and a while back I was having doubts about my boyfriend and about how I felt for him, I didn't think I felt the same. Also I was feeling rather unsettled in myself too and that probably ...

LDR--I'm worried I may fall into depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - Hi, I met this wonderful woman on a russian dating site,we met this summer and I totally fell in love with her and she with me,but the missing we feel when we are apart now is unbearable at times,often I not feel good...and cannot concentr...

Realising my ex is the one for me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broken up within the past week. She thought that our relationship, being a long distance relationship, and her being older then me by nine years had no future. She also believed that we both lived two very different ...

In love with a European!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4968 days ago

19 September 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid I have known this woman for 6 months now. I first met her at a work event where all the sub offices around europe came to the UK to provide us all with an opportunity to meet with our colleagues around Europe that we liaise with at w...

Why is this guy not texting me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - I met a fab guy while on Spring Break with friends. The guy and his friends were cool, not sleazy and wanted to do daytime stuff with us like lunch, coffee etc. In fact my friend is dating his friend and its going really well. It really felt like...

He's 400 miles away from me, how do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

18 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has moved 400 miles away to University. Even though he's been gone just a few days and we've talked on the phone every day, I still miss him so much. The thought of only seeing him a few times a year makes it worse. (I may see him more ...

Do you think I should stay with him, or leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

18 September 2010 (F) - so to start off with my boyfriend is moving over 1000 miles away. im so upset over it and its breaking my relationship apart with him. he wants to stay together but I have trust issues so what's a long distance relationship without trust? right? h...

We're long distance dating..so how do I know he's still into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

17 September 2010 (F) - Hi there! I'm 25 yrs old and i need a baby i'm working and my bf also working,but when i tell him, he says he's not ready to have a baby now mybe 2011,i think he's says this because he is no longer interested in me,yestarday was my birth day he only ...

Where is this relationship going to lead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - Im dating this guy. We've been together for about seven months but I dont really trust him with other girls because i found out he may have grinded with other girls at a dance a while ago. I had 6 friends come to me and argue whether he did or not ...

Can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - I started seeing this guy over the summer while we were both working away on a cruise ship. I'm 22 from Canada and graduating from University in May 2011. I have always been an adventurous person who wanted to travel after graduation for a bit and ...