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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - ok so i met this guy online in the beginning of the year he lives ina complete different state i started dating somebody else but as time went on i realized the more me and this lnog distance guy talked the more i liked him and developed feelings i ...

I'm not sure if he is into me, am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - Is he into me or not? So i went out for dinner with an old college friend. This is the first time we went out alone.It was not a date, more like two friends catching up. I think both of us had a good time. So he stays in another city. Around 3-...

We've been online dating for 2 years but have never met in person once....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - How long is too long for a no-contact LDR? When I say no contact, I mean no physical contact. At all. We've been 'dating' online for over 2 years and through that whole time we've never met in person once. I've tried, I've made trips to see him...

What's going on with my relationship?!? any ideas anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Right so i gotta ask something, ive used the site before but never for anything concrete like this. So me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been really happy together. Its been really really good. around a month ago she had to go on holiday, she ...

What does "talk to you soon" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hello When we started the letters we discussed because of the big distance (he lives in USA me in Europe) we make friends, and when he visit to my country we will meet...(he told me that he often comes to my country) Could you help me to decide wha...

Am I wasting my life or is there hope for me and my long distance lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4654 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I have known a lady on the internet for 8 years. We fell in love. My marriage was already on the way down and I divorced 7 years ago. I have been on my own ever since. My internet friend and I finally met 5yrs ago and it has been a bit of an ...

Why has she gone so quiet? What is wrong with her? What shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now ...

Why is she not dying to be with me, like I'm dying to be with her? Even if she doesn't want me, how can I be closer to my daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - Hi i have a big problem about my relationship, any one for honest advices?.I met my gf at work where we were colleagues together it was october 2009 when we started dating. Now i am in another job and she is still working there.I really love her so ...

If this guy is serious about meeting me, is it reasonable for me to ask to meet him half-way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney over the last 2 and a half years. The contact to be honest has mainly involved pics and phone sex, a little bit of chat about life etc although to begin with he di...

Would you do extreme commuting to be with a partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - Hi Ive been with my partner almost 3 years now, its a distance relationship. We get on fantastic when together but sometimes the strain of being apart leads to a few arguments. We both have decent jobs we have had for 20 years and dont want t...

How can I help my sister deal with her BF and a potential LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4642 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My sister's bf decided that he wants to move away to place A which is in state X. He is from place B which is in state Q. He felt that he was unable to accomplish anything in state Q and he has expressed how sick he was of this state and the people ...

Is he taking advantage of me? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4653 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...

I really can't stand her ex being in her life...am I being difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4658 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is still hanging around her ex and it really hurts, but I don't want to resort to leaving her, because I do love her and believe that she loves me too. What should I do about this? You see, me and my girl are in a long distance...

Do I introduce my LDR boyfriend to my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - So my LDR boyfriend is finally with me, and only here for a short time. Do I introduce him to my parents? I met him online, and they knew about him before but were very negative about the whole issue and told me to dump him immediately. The...

Boyfriend abruptly deleted his Facebook account and I'm suspicious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My LDR boyfriend abruptly deleted his facebook account yesterday and I think it's very weird. But maybe I'm just over-reacting ? He didn't even mention it during our conversation. Only later when I text him to ask did he text back that it was...

I don't want any drama but feel like I am being taken advantage of....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...

He'll go days without texting me or seeing me, and now this summer is an LDR... I'm feeling neglected!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts! I have a problem for you. To keep this short - my boyfriend has communication issues, where he'll go days without texting me or seeing me while we're both at uni, making me feel nelgected and unwanted. I've told him twice about th...

How do I handle this online relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - I've never been in this situation before. I recently started talking to this guy online and I'm starting to like him. We just sort of happened upon each other and we found out we have a lot in common. I know it's silly, online, and I shouldn't ...

I believe a relationship means doing things together, so why does he instead spend time partying and drinking with his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I posted a question a while ago for advice on my LDR with my boyfriend. As i've already been helped with that, I want to ask for help with the next issue i'm facing. For a boyfriend that has shown signs of being more committed to alc...

Do you think I creeped her out by moving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - There is a girl I chatted with a lot for several months and we even joked/entertained the idea of dating but she lives on the other side of the country. We don't really chat that much anymore because one day we had a fight. However I wrote to her a ...

I really love my GF and don't want to lose her but how do I deal with all the insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

22 July 2011 (M) - hi i am in a relationship with my gf more than three years.we both love each other a lot.But recently we hav started fighting a lot.these may be the reasons first of all she is not that expressive she only says i luv u when i say no initiati...

Not sure about my LD relationship anymore! there is another guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Well, this is kind of complicated.. and I could use some advice please.. I haven't told anyone about how I'm feeling and I think I just need to tell someone and get some help. Basically, I met a guy on the internet in February we started going ou...

If I can't handle being apart for 11 days, how can I be cut out to be an army wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - For a while now I have been dating an Army Man. We have been apart for 11 days now and it just feels like I can't function sometimes. We have talked about marriage but I'm a little scared, if I'm going through the motions after only 11 days, am I ...

This guy is madly in love with me....but I have no idea who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4664 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Dear-cupid, From 2-3 days one guy is messaging me. I don't know who that guy is.When I asked him, he said that he came to my city for studies 6 months back ,he saw me and fell for me. I'm 16 years old. He is 17. He got my number from one of his ...

Should I break up with b/f? He says he cares about others but doesn't know how to show it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I really need help to decide if I should break off with my LDR BF. We've been together for 3 months and it has been long distance 2 months ago. When I'm with him, everything is fine, except that he's quite self-centered. He tal...

I am getting the feeling that he may not want me to come up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy online last year. Not only is he 10 years younger but lives 2 hours by plane. Over the past year we have seen each other 3X and continued to chat, etc. We are planning to see each other the August Long Weekend. I am flying out to...

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a ...

Choices. Can't decide between two perfect men. What do I base my decision to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I've noticed that other women on this forum have gone through or are going through a similar situation to mine. However, mine is a slight variation and the advice to the others didn't really apply. Here's my situation: I just recently broke o...

Do guys care if their girlfriend is taller than them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy my friend introduced to me too online for quite awhile and he's going to be in my area soon soon so we're going to meet in person. I am tall, 5"10 to be exact, and I know he is about four to five inches shorter t...

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Ok so here we go, it mite get a little lengthy but bear with me please. So I am 17 and was with a 21year old. (Please no comments on that) We we're together about 5months and grew, unexpectedly, very strong feelings for each other. We had a rough ...

What should I do to save my children from this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been active on this site and giving advices as well to those who seek emotional help but at this point in my life, I would like to seek some enlightenment of making decisions. When I got married, my family disowne...

Having feelings for someone else, should I leave my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Basically, I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly 6 years. When I was younger it was because we couldn't afford to move closer, and now its because he's been in uni and we can't afford to live together. So we have been apart, we see ...

I know he must think alot of me but I am still convinced he will cheat on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - I am 17 and my boyfriend is 23 so bit of a big age gap, but i love him alot and im really worried as he lives a long way a way - meaning 160 miles. In the past ive been cheated on and hurt REAL bad and it took a long time to even consider having a...

Can we survive a long distance relationship?

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18 July 2011 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months. We have gone through a lot in those 3 months. Its been pretty bad. I started to hear rumors about her. That she was cheating on me(I found this out around after our first month). I ...

He'll be there and I'll be here, why did he wait to ask me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) - Well hi, I am so frustrated, I need advice or just some opinions on my situation. Please help. So, me and this guy started talking over a year ago. After a week of talking he told me he liked me, then after two weeks of hanging out and constant...

After losing my virginity will it be really difficult to stop having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - Is it true that once you start having sex it becomes really difficult to stop? I know my current boyfriend is the man I want to lose my virginity to (I wouldn't be his first), but we're an LDR so only get to meet up every 2-3 months. If we go ...

Please someone explain to me how I can let go, stop texting him and respect myself more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - I am driving myself insane over my LDR on/off? thing. Basically, I met a guy from the army six months ago and fell for him. We decided to start a LDR. Last week he was on leave and came to stay with me for a few days. During this time I realised ...

Is this dream a sign to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - had a dream last night and its really bothering me, i dreamt my man had someone on a back burner he knew and was friends with there in his life, just incase things didnt work with us, i was going to text him and tell him this, but he might think i ...

Is it my fault she reacted this way? Or is she over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

17 July 2011 (M) - Hello (first of all , sorry for my poor english) So, this will be a little bit of talk about ... the so called "internet" love. (shes from Germany, im from Spain) Im a 18 year old dude and at this time i broke with my current GF for 5 days ...

When he gets needy, all I want to do is be alone.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years now. We see each other about every 6 weeks, and the longest stretch was 3 weeks in a row. I thought he was everything I was looking for sweet, kind, loving, smart, funny...ect., but now I am...

Why can't my man give me his all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - what do i do if i feel my man of nearly 2 years is not giving me his all, its LDR we see each other best we can and we commited and loyal to each other, text when we say we are going to text, talk on the net everynight, but i am getting like a cold ...

Falling for my long-distance crush.....please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4669 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - hi ! I am a 17 year old teen girl who has a crush on a 19 year old Pakistani guy . i don't know how things turned out ,it was just when he's not online in Facebook, i'm starting to miss him :( and i'm so worried because i might fall for him :( and...

How do I tell him I'm worried by his need to make more friends? He might meet new girls and think twice about our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4669 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We're living in different parts of the world and could only see each other maybe 3-4 times a year. My bf is quite sociable, he gets along really well with everyone. I'm not that...

Me LD friend, chatted it up but when we starting sexting he wont talk about anything else.How do I get my friend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - 3 months ago i met a guy on facebook. I live in Canada, he is in Granada. We discussed religion, music, our cultures, etc., nice fun easy flowing chats. We progressed to once a week cellphone text, max characters. Emails, everyday...fell in love, or ...

LDR boyfriend wasn't interested in sex this time. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Im really confused about my boyfriend. We have been in a LDR FOR 6 months. I had not seen him since february until he came and stayed with me on tuesday. I was expecting it to be amazing but Im really disappointed. We had sex, and the first time was ...

Long distance worry: she ended it but we still talk a lot.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - So I met this girl last summer on a cruise, she is from Tennessee and I am from Pennsylvania, we talked for a while afterwords but we both eventually got in relationships with other people, until about this past May when by coincidence we both ...

I cant deal with her mindgames any more! Should I let the relationship diminish, or finally answer her calls and let her carry on behaving this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

13 July 2011 (F) - My girlfriend and I 30 and 26 respectively. We just hit the year milestone on our relationship July 11. I haven't verbally spoken to her since two days prior to my bday when she unofficially broke up with me June 27. Anyway I haven't desired to call ...

Cheated and feeling very guilty, how do I get over this and have a healthy relationship with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

13 July 2011 (M) - I am a 29 years old man. I have a girlfriend who is living in a long distance with me. We used to live together and had a intimate relationship. Since she has left there was some problem between us. Basically it seemed that problem was only my side. ...

My husband is away, I've noticed some changes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Husband is away, noticed changes. We've been married 9+ years and have an 8y.o. My husband has left the country because of immigration reasons. He hadn't been back to his country for 14 years. He has been gone for 3 months. Before he left h...

Is this a recipe for success, or disaster?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, i'd like to thank in advance for help. This is going to be quite long so bare with me. I feel as though it's time to ask for somebodies advice about whether my relationship with my boyfriend is a recipe for success, or disaster. I n...