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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Do you think she and I will ever be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hello aunts! Even if I'll try to sum up my story in the best way possible, I think this will be long. Thanks in advance for reading. I met this girl like a year and a half ago in a one-week summer activity we both signed up for. She is from Japa...

Is my long distance romance over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I met a guy online in august. Things built up gradually, we were a great match and had lots in common. I loved spending time talking with him each day and getting to know this guy who I found to be lovely. We had similar, goals, aspirations and ...

After 2 years of being LDR we finally meet and it ended so badly. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4501 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I've been in this ldr for almost 2 years. We met on a chatline and instantly connected! Every time me tried to meet up,something would always happen on both of our ends, so although we had never seen each other we did skype and video chat and send ...

The Other Woman .. are they JUST friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a chat forum online and hit it off. We now spend most of our day (even with the time zone problem) talking with each other in one for or another. but I have a problem. Jealous...

My girlfriend's going to China, what does her insurance cover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - My girlfriend's going to China to teach for a year. I've been told she gets insurance from the school but I don't know how extensive it is and I want her to be covered properly. In anyone's experience, does this usually cover most things needed ...

How do I get over being obsessed with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Okay, me and my best friend have known each other about a year now. She moved away 3 months after i met her, to Cali. We always keot in touch. Just recently, we told each other we have have feeling for one another. Way more then just friends. ...

9+ years in a long distance relationship and I can't seem to understand my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Happy Holidays to all of you and thanks in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am a bit confused and I find it so difficult to deal with my boyfriend. He is sign Cancer, very sensitive, kind, but very selfish, very demanding and al...

I don't want to ruin Christmas for him, but should I be worried about the two of them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - i need you to help me in my relationship I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months, but now i think he is cheating on me. My boyfriend and I are in a LDR, i know about the girl he has been in contact with at the same time. she is outsi...

Can an online relationship with a pen-pal guy in prison and me a virgin in UK work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - I have a prison pen pal, and have been writing for a few months. There is definite connection but last night he asked if we can be in a relationship. I'm in the UK and he is in the US. I am kind of a 'loser' out here in real life. I am 34, still a ...

I knew my Gf was moving before we started dating. What do I do now? Do I let her go live her life and forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

22 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I have been dating a girl since early September who i've known for a year and a bit. I am 18 just finished my first semester of Engineering, she is almost 17, finishing up highschool. We get along really well, I like her a lot. We've do...

LDR Boyfriend hasn't been replying to me- No idea why.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Hello all, I may be reading into this too much, but I thought I would look for insight from other people. I am in a LDR (In different countries)with a guy things have been great, in fact more than great. We talk every single day for hours on end...

Found out my fiance has been cheating....should I go ahead with the wedding or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - Im about to get married with my bf of 2years. Ours was a long distance relationship for a year as we are both working abroad. Communication had been constant, almost everyday we did get in touch. Never did i doubted my bf's love and sincerity ...

Fell in love with a guy after a week and now trying to have a LDR in another language! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - So. Problem. I'm absolutely in love with a wonderful young man who I met during the summer over the course of a week. After that week, of course, we each returned to our respective homes, and are now literally thousands of miles apart. The chanc...

What does his status mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

21 December 2011 (F) - my bf put up a status on fb for a few moments and went straight offfline again, and it worries me what he wrote.. "My fragile heart is been done so wroong... It seems like pain is been my only friend :'( " we're having no problems at the momen...

Should I try to date this girl whether I'm ready or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

21 December 2011 (M) - Been talking to someone for a few months now online.. Haven't met yet, hopefully after xmas.. We talk almost everyday and have become pretty close as friends.. I like her and I know she likes me(there are signs such as her liking/commenting on som...

Should I risk losing face by telling him how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

20 December 2011 (F) - This guy and I briefly dated over the summer. We fell really hard for each other and he told me he loved me very quickly. He had to move out of the state after a few weeks but told me he still wanted a relationship because he loved me. At first, the ...

Should I Do as my heart tells me and marry him then start this long distance thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone and happy Xmas in advance :) So, my bf proposed to me and asked me to marry him in Sept. Which qould be wow! if he hadn't just moved abroad for work (2hr plane ride). I cannot leave my job over here at all. All I can do is go be ...

MY LDR of 9 months has just cut contact and won't answer my calls... Help me please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - My LDR boyfriend of 9 months has just suddenly stopped taking my calls and answering my texts. I know hes ok and still alive because there is recent activity on his facebook page. We last spoke on the phone last week and everything was fine. Now he ...

She loves me but should I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

17 December 2011 (M) - ahh good ol Cupid, have not been here in many months or years to be exact! Well its that time again where i am falling in love and iv hit a BRICK WALL, to say the least. Iv been seeing this girl for about 6/7 months now, we are not officiall...

It's Driving me crazy, I cant get hold of my boyfriend! Am I Over reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend who i'm in a ldr with has ignored my phone calls all day. He phoned me last night and was fine. Today I try calling him 3 times and he hasnt answered. I know he has no credit to call or text me back. But its driving me crazy that I...

Just for a night I want to feel like a priority, not an obligation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

15 December 2011 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year and recently I've been contemplating cheating. I knew with distance I wouldn't be the main focus for my boyfriend but I never expected that I'd feel like some days he'd be talking to me out ...

Is this online guy a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

14 December 2011 (?) - Here's the deal. I met this guy online and started talking to him (after a long ordeal of me ignoring him) and we eventually started hitting it off. We have a lot in common, have the same views about life and are physically/intellectually attracted ...

I think I have a cheating boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

14 December 2011 (F) - i'll try to keep this short. i think my bf of 3 yrs is starting to cheat on me...our relation is a long-distance one. we talk to each other abour 2 hrs over the phone.recelty he is under a lot of work,so he comes home tired. 3 yrs ago, a girl was ...

Nervous about being away from my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4517 days ago

14 December 2011 (F) - I am going home for the holidays for almost a month during my college break. My family lives very far away from me, our rather I moved very far away from them. My boyfriend couldn't get off of work for the whole two weeks so he is flying out after ...

We have great conversations on the phone, but he won't talk to me on Facebook.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - I'm a teenager btw...Theres this guy i met almost a year ago, he goes to a different school and lives in a different town.So its hard to commit because there is a bit of distance, but not a huge one. I'm just gonna put it out there..i think i love ...

I just lost my virginity to my best guy friend, but he is returning to his home country tomorrow. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Here's the whole story. I met this guy when we started secondary school together (we were both 11) and we had a sort of thing going on. We were both too young to know what we actually wanted and both were too immature to think about having a ...

Different religions, ages, countries, and cultures...should we even try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - Hi guys, So i'm in a bit of a pickle, I'm 31 and have fallen in love with a wonderful man...only we can't be together. I'm a 31 year old female from London whom lives in the city and I'm from a middle class Jewish family. I am educated wit...

How much communication should I expect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4519 days ago

12 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I used to text every day and talk on the phone at night daily. We do this because we can only see each other on weekends because he lives an hour away from me. In the last couple weeks, I noticed that he doesn't text as much and on ...

Should I pursue a woman in an open relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

10 December 2011 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago and we really clicked. All the vibes were great and we are really close. So close that shes my neighbor! The only problem is, shes in an open relationship with this guy who is in the navy. He doesnt get discharg...

I had a fling with a guy I met on holiday, but I like him! How do I approach him to see if he would be interested in something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4521 days ago

10 December 2011 (F) - This is just for some advice really. So I went on holiday this year with the girls and we met a few lads out there. We had such a good time and I got particularly friendly with one of them. We recently had a reunion with a couple of them which ...

I care about him despite our distance and 13 year age difference. Should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4521 days ago

10 December 2011 (F) - Hi. I need objective opinions. I'm 30, and have been seeing a 43 year old never married man, I'll call Sam. It's been almost a year of dating. We don't refer to each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. I've secretly dated other prospects briefly....

My boyfriend drinks all the time but I am scared to talk to him about it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

8 December 2011 (F) - Every single day I text my boyfriend all that comes out of his mouth.. "I am high." Or... "I am drunk." And I hate it.. I want to tell him, "Don't talk to me until your sober, and if you don't stop I won't see you anymore." But I don't want to say ...

Confused, irritated and falling for her all over again;-(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

6 December 2011 (M) - Hi, I am so confused and irritated I dont know what to do. Approx. two years ago I was travelling overseas and I met a German girl also travelling, (I am from UK) and we dated for 3-4 months, spent days together, and was difficult to keep us apart...

Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Being in a relationship where you have regular face to face contact is difficult enough. Being in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) is more difficult. Local Relationships (LRs) require a few things; Honesty, Trust, Commitment, and ...

Why is he talking to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - I briefly dated this guy after finishing school. We fell really hard for each other and he told me he loved me very quickly. It was only a summer romance, as he had to move out of the state after a few weeks but told me he still wanted the ...

LDR b/f says he needs space. Does he mean stop talking about our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi all, I hope you can help, my LD( about 2 hrs drive) bf and I have had a roller coaster relationship since we met- lots to do with my past, my dad being diagnosed with cancer, my insecurites, my constant over analysing of our relation...

My LDR owes me money. He's coming to stay with me. How should we work out who'll pay for what while he's with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend works in another city and is coming to stay with me for 4 weeks on his holiday. He's coming to my place because he lives with his mom and I can't go there, and also I am not going to have time off until next year. He borrowed mon...

Do I send any further communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - Hi All, I will try to be breif but since my LD bf and I met in March this year we have had a roller coaster of a relationship. Due to my past and lots of other things going on in my life ( My Dad being diagnosed with cancer one of them) I have bee...

Is he being selfish? My boyfriend wants no sex before marriage, and I'm not okay with that

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

6 December 2011 (F) - So, 10 months ago I met a guy at a coffee shop. We hit it off quite well. I had to move away for a job, do we were forced into a long distant relationship. After couple months of virtual conversations, we both fell hard for each other. Despite the ...

Silent Treatment from an Ex lover, now platonic friend. What Happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - I was seeing someone for 5 months, a beautiful short romance. I ended it because he did not want it to b anymore than a casual relationship. It was also a long distance affair. It ended on a very calm note of agreement. I also mentioned that t...

Missing my LDR. Am I pushing him away? Am I starting to lose feelings for him, because I'm doubting myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

5 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is away on placement for 5 weeks and its only been two weeks without him. He's in Africa and im in the UK. We have been together for 8 months which for me is a long time as im not one for relationships. i feel like I'm pushing ...

Am I losing feelings for my ldr boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I'm dating someone who lives two hours away. We've only been dating for about six months, and we've known each other for a year. When we first began talking, I was SO into him and when we had little arguments I would go over the top about ...

Why does my ex post a photo of his ex from 2 years ago on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - I split up with my LDR boyfriend because he wouldn't commit to me and he was messing me around. I told him he had to let me move on if he wasnt prepared to commit, but we could remain friends. He was horrible back to me so I deleted his number and ...

I don't know what to think, should I bother with my long distance boyfriend or not? Is he just playing games?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

4 December 2011 (F) - Hi all, I am a bit confused. My long-distance guy was being distant, and sometimes I wouldn't hear from him for weeks. I took the hint that he just wasn't that interested, and even though I love him with all my heart, I distanced myself and didn't ...

Drifting apart while in college. How can we work on the long distance relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

4 December 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now. We are both now in college and are drifting apart. It has gotten to the point where she has told me that I annoy her all the time. We are both busy and when I try to talk to her she will ...

Should I leave my current boyfriend to find someone more suitable for me? And what should I do about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - During my freshman year of college, a student from Japan studied abroad at my school. We both like one another, but didn't develop a relationship until the end of the semester when he had to leave. Over the summer, we kept in touch by video chat and ...

Is it just that time has changed my attitude? Or could it be the promotion is affecting things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

3 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years moved to another town a year ago for a job. We were living together and everything was great. The plan was that I follow him there once I get a job. It's been a year now and initially I missed him like crazy and I thought...

Do I just pretend everything is fine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

2 December 2011 (F) - My bf and I are both in our early 30s and have been dating for 4 months. Everything was going really well until a couple weeks ago when we had our first major argument. We made up but I think things have changed a little bit since. He used to be ...

Can my ex be my confidante?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend is amazing. I know it sounds weird since he's my ex, but that's it's own story. Anyway, I've been going through some incredibly tough times lately, and I really need someone close by to talk to. I can't handle everything alone. And ...

I want to let him know that I'll be thinking of him, should I write this short story?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

1 December 2011 (F) - i posted earlier about this situation between this guy and I. So my next question... We've been kind of shaky since September, but I really do care a lot about this guy. At this point, I'm not afraid to put myself out there. I want this gu...