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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How can I support my boyfriend during this trying time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello- Was wondering if you guys could give me some insight on this situation: How to comfort a loved one during and after the death of a family member. My fiance's grandmother is very ill and has just recently stopped eating (which is usually...

She is a bit of a shy person and supports sex after marriage! I am exactly the opposite!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am in a confused state of my mind regarding my girlfriend.. We were friends from college but chose different universities in different cities to stay in...so we have always been in a long distance relationship..but v hve been together for 4 years ...

My boyfriend won't live with me even though we've been together for ages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years and in a few months we are both moving to the same city for work (we lived in the same city for 3 years, pretty much next door to one another then have been long distance this last year). Our relat...

My boyfriend just announced he is planning to emigrate to Australia. Do I try to carry on our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has just announced to me, two months in to our relationship that he is planning to emigrate to Australia as soon as his visa (which he had already applied for) comes through. I feel very hurt but don't know where I stand. We have ...

We decided to have a break, but I can't understand why I'm so upset. The more I think about it, the more confused I become.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i decided to have a break from one another 3 days ago. We have been together 18 months, and it has been a long distance relationship (we live 100 miles apart). The sex has not been good for a while now, and the touchy-feely, ...

It bothers me that our time together is so limited, what can I do to show him this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 482 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - he says he loves me and i believe he does but we hardly spend time together doing the relationship thing. he lives in another state but works in my hometown. when he is here is tired and when he goes back home we hardly talk. i know he is busy and ...

I want to marry this man. He is phenominal. But I'm not sure he'll ever ask.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for over a year and a half. We've both been married before. Currently no kids. We're both established. And own our own homes. For the entire length of our relationship I've lived about 100 miles away from him and I b...

I have a wonderful boyfriend,but I don't feel happy or like my emotions have changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (?) - OK,this month,I met a boy on the internet.He's 13, really sweet,and has always made me feel special.I asked him out yesterday,and this morning,he said yes.I was excited when he said yes,but it feels like nothing's changed.I don't feel different.I...

We went through an awful break-up, it's been a couple of months, I want to give it another try, any suggestions, as to how to go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Dear all, My boyfriend and I broke up in May. We were very much in love, but it was a first real relationship for both of us and was long distance. On top of that, both of us are very conflict-avoidant and dated for a year with the assumption w...

We met online, he just told me he loved me, we're going to meet up soon. But will it work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i met this guy on habbo about 2 and half years ago now. We started speaking on msn then too. Now he's the same age as me. And i have developed strong feeling over the past years or so and the other day he was tipsy and he said 'sorry i'm a little ...

Has my long distance boyfriend lost interest, or am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - So this is my 1st relationship at that a long distance relationship, my bf and i have been together for 3 months.... we used to talk all the time, like i said a few questions ago he wants to marry me, but now i feel like he's not atracted to me ...

I've known him for some time but only recently he started flirting with me. He lives quite far away. Could it still work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for about 2 and a half years and just resently (about a few months ago) he has started flirting with me and has resently told me exactly how he feels... the only problem is that he lives quite far away now. would it work bet...

I really like calling her, but I don't want to annoy her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - We are together for almost a year. We seldom meet. I miss her a lot. Whenever I feel I want to talk to her, I will call her. I know I have been calling too much, 2-3 times everyday. She did tell me she get annoyed by that. I have tried not to cal...

Will I ever hear from the guy I met on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 484 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I've just come back from holidays 4 days ago and while I was over there I met a really great guy. We didn't get to spent a lot of time together alone because we were both there with friends, but the time we did was amazing. We just talked loads and ...

I worry about him because he's in jail. I haven't had the chance to tell him how I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 484 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have never loved a guy.I'm the type of girl who is strong but the first time i let my guard down i got hurt.I think i love him idk wat love is yet but yea.He left for a couple years he is doing some time in jail.When i found out i was so mad but ...

He is happier being with his friends than with me, we have intimacy and sexual problems, he seems to be losing interest, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 485 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - For some time now I have thought my boyfriend is bored with me, but then I have put it down to my low self esteem as he still makes arrangements to see me. As time has gone on, I have noticed that we never seem to spend time alone anymore. He ...

Should I pursue this online relationship with this girl? We live 400 miles apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I would really like anyones help on this little situation I'm in. A little while back I met a girl online through an extremely large art website (deviantART for those of you wishing to know) so her and I started talking on there...

I don't want to marry my long distance boyfriend and get a divorce down the line....how do I go about this decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - hi all, i have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4yrs. it was gr8 at first but then we had some issues and broke up for about 3-4mths. now everything is back to normal (break up was not becoz of cheating or sth like that.some other ...

I'm afraid of him sleeping with someone else if I end it! I'm also pregnant and he's in the army.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I'm in desperate need of help, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. We had a few one night stands with other people while we broke up. He is in the army so he is away alot, he went away for 5 months and i found out i was pregnant ...

He started falling for me early on but flirts with other girls online! Is this LDR going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - we met in jan and he started falling for me soon but never ever said that, later he flirted with other gals online. but now he is totally committed to me. but the problem is he never ever sends me gifts?? his password is also on his ex's name an...

My long distance girl says she's losing feeling, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - Well I met my girlfriend online, and im only 17 but i already have gone to see her in South Carolina I live in New York and as you can tell I love her alot because only after 3 months of talking and writing to eachother i went down to see her. I ...

How do I know when I should end my long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. We've been good friends since high school then I moved to the states when i was 16. Since then we've always kept in contact and told me he loves me. Long short, we start our long ...

He's away and I'm paranoid... what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I was seeing a guy 4 7mths who was a friend of a friend that i had known for ages. Before we got together he changed jobs and now is a snowboarding instructor. When we got together he was out of work but knew that eventually when he got one abroad ...

Cheating in a long distance relationship! And how do you know if you love someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I started going out with this Australian guy about a year ago, he was living in the UK. After about six months he went travelling for a bit, this was his plan before he met me, but we stayed together and I even flew over to meet him while he was in ...

I met a guy on holiday in Greece, now he says he misses me and wants me to go back to meet up!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I have been back from a holiday in Greece for a week. While I was there me and my friend got to know a local guy really well. He spoke perfect english and worked in a restaurant and a supermarket which we visited reguarly. He was older than we were ...

I fell in love with a girl I met online. Now I'm beginning to suspect there are things she hides from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 486 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - Hi. This may sounds funny. I met a girl online which lives so far from here. We have been talking to each other online for few years. I fall in love with her. She does say she loves me. From talking online, we progressed to talking on phone f...

What am I to her now? Not even a friend? Is it best to walk away without a word?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for a year. Until few months ago, I moved for working and no longer meet each other that often. We still talk to each other on phone everyday. Last month, she told me she is going to vacation on the ...

Business, Love, Long Distance Relationship.......advice needed badly on how to deal, I feel I'm losing our connection, how should I write him a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! Im 22 and the guy that im in a long distance relationship with someone who is 23. I live in Pittsburgh, and he lives in Seattle. We have been together for 2 1/2 months. We met each another last month for the first time. He was sup...

Any ideas on how to give my long distance boyfriend a great time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - hey my long distance boyfriend will be coming to visit me soon but i dont know how to go about when he gets here..as in what do i do,i want him to have the best time ever.....

How can I stop myself from cheating on her long distance? I really love her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - I am writing this coz I want to know why i am, "the way i am". i'm 24 and i have a girlfriend of 5 months, she was my friend initially for about 4 months. She lived nearby, i saw her quite often. then after 3 months together she left to another ...

She says she is moving away for good, but she wants to start seeing me again. I don't understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 486 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - please help me!! i had a long distance girlfriend for 3 years and we spent some amazing time together, both deeply in love with eachother. 3 months ago, as she was finishing college she broke it off with me after about a week of silence from her...

My boyfriend started working out and now he gets lots of female attention. It's bugging me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is currently working out to improve his health and also the looks. He's a big build guy (typical Scottish guy), blond hair and blue eyes. I know he's faithful to me and will not go out with any other girls. Since he started working out, ...

I made an effort on her birthday, she didn't on mine... I know it's petty but I feel bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - I think i sound petty but not sure. Basically my birthday just went couple of weeks back. My Gf couldnt be there as she was working and because of her fam (im in a long distance relationship). I told her i completely understand and she kept saying ...

We just got together but we won't see each other for another month! I don't want to nag him, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 489 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - Iv only just got together with my boyfriend after we started talking on a dating website. We met a few days ago and it was fantastic, the best date iv ever had and we spent the whole weekend together. i think hes amazing and he says the same about ...

Do you think I should tell her how I feel about her? I want to do this right.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - hey everyone, I have been really good friends with this girl that goes to the same uni as me. As we got to know each other I asked her out for lunch one day and walked her home etc. I never dated her then because she had just broke up with so...

I've been a faithful girlfriend for years - why am I tempted by this new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - Im in a long term relationship and can honestly say Ive never even turned my head at another guy in the 5 years we have been together but recently a guy at work has caught my attention and Im confused. I have only known him since december but he ...

My boyfriend moved out of state to play football. Should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 490 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - im 15 and i really love my bf but he treats me bad and moved out of state for a year just too play football my friend are telling me too break up with him but i cant im too attached ?wat shud i do ...

We're going to different colleges and I'm afraid of what it will do to our relationship. Should I visit a palm reader?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship since fresham year of high school. We've been on/off, but everytime we get back we both feel like our relatioship is better and stronger. We both learned (at least i know i did) from our mistakes. We're both going to ...

I'm facing A-Level results, uni, long distance love and it's all just too much!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I need some guidance, I've tried talking to my mum, my boyfriend and my friends and I'm still at a loss. I think what I need is some outside perspectives. So here goes... I feel so confused, ovewhelmed, scared and just generally strange recently...

What's the most special thing I could do for someone from a distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - hi, just a quick question. how can you make someone feel special at a distance. without having to be with them what is the most special thing you can think of that says i love you in a million ways and i cant wait to be with you? thanks ANON...

We moved to Australia from the USA. I miss my friends and I want to go home.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - I am a 14 year old girl who comes from USA but lives in Australia. We moved here when I was nine, and I instantly missed my friends and my old life. Every day here seems so dull and boring, and Even though I plan to move back once I get out of ...

I have a bad feeling about my long distance love. How can I make it go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 490 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - hi, i have a question i wondered if some girls or even guys could give me a little advice as ive never been through this before and would really like some advice... ive been with my bf for a while he is amazing i really do love him and i feel t...

I'm dreading his last day but what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) - Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to ...

Is love enough to conquer all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - Does Love conquer?? I thought I would ask for opinions on this. How long does anger, resentment and bitterness stay? Does it affect your relationship in the long-term? I am single/40 (never married), but was in a long term relationship (12+ ...

I miss him and I'm lonely without him, but he has other women. Should I forget him or try to work it out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - When I was 20 I moved away from my home town in Florida, started a professional career in Texas. About 6 years ago, when I was home visiting my father in Florida, a guy I grew up with told me he's always had a crush on me and wished I would move ...

How do I stop people saying I'm gay? And how do I cope with a long-dtsiance relationship? And tell me about shaving for the first time please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

20 July 2008 (M) - i have 3 questions ite first one is im 13 and im strait but everybody thinks im gay. all my friends ,exept one, r girls any advise on how to get people to stop saying this? the second one is im 13 and i met a girl that i only get 2 c in the summer ...

My online boyfriend said he wanted to get married and then deleted me! What did I do wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 491 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - I really liked this guy and i knew him only online.I stopped going online and he started calling me 3 months after i stopped going online.He called me with 5 weeks difference, because i had feelings for him i tolerated that.He told me he wanted to ...

Should I let my parents meet him and show him my baby photos?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 492 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lives two hours away from me, for my birthday this year (december, a long way away i know but still) I want to see him with all my other friends. He must be there, that's the only way I'll be happy. My mum doesn't know him because she ...

She wanted a long distance relationship, I didn't, now how can I comfort her without sending the wrong message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 491 days ago

19 July 2008 (M) - Hi, There's a girl I know from Liverpool. Some months back we used to chat online. After a short time she began hinting that she was looking for a long distance relationship. Having already been in one myself, I was dead against it. She kept try...

I lied and now I think I'm in love with a guy, but I'm married!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - I am a married woman who has found love over the internet. I lied about my marital status, what should I do? I have been married for 10 years, and we have 2 daughters together. My husband is a great father and provider for our family, but we j...