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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How do you make a LDR successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - How does one make a long distance relationship in the least bit successful? or even slightly functional? The reason i ask is that i'm in one...and to be honest i kind of want to rip his head off with my bare teeth. ...

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...

How to make her forget how I acted and start afresh, confident and assertive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I need some advice. I have been dating a girl for three years. Half of the time we lived in the same city; the other half has been long distance. The distance has been getting to me. Despite the lack of evidence, I have been: (1) suspecting her ...

No communication for about 2 days..

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30 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are actually very close to each other as if we were a married couple, but we have this long distance relationship.. but we really love each other. Suddenly, to my surprise, he didn't talk to me for about 2 days in yahoo ...

I just don't know if I can trust him, so should we have a LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am wondering how do you make a long distance relationship work? A friend of mine lives far away from me- about a 3 day drive or a 3 hour flight. And he wants to give a long distance relationship a go with me. I really do like him and care for...

I feel so violated and stupid now that I was nearly scammed by my "boyfriend". How do I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - The guy and I were friends for a month before he asked me for a relationship. I met him on a penpal site, and we just talked about our family lives and I helped him find scholarships and stuff (he was from Africa). When he asked me for a relatio...

At a fork in the road

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I am running in circles trying to figure out what to do. Over a year ago, I met a guy who I knew would instantly be apart of my life. Though he lives almost an hour away and visits were bare minimum.. We spoke almost non-stop, venting to each other ...

Should I move up to be with him or let our LDR go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend live 4 hours away, i am 17 and we have been together nearly 6 months, my boyfriend is now thinking that it is too hard for us unless we lived closer so i was thinking bout moving up as i seriously can't lose him, he means ...

Am I just imagining things or is he not in love anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have this problem. me and my boyfriend are only for about 5 days. i am really in love with him.. and i just want to make him happy. my problem is: he doesn't reply to my texts, calls and messages. it was wednesday, he told me he's not feeling well ...

Ever since we got caught having sex we argue about stupid stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can. The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his...

My boyfriend just joined the Marines, how can I feel better about this new situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3.5 years just came home today with big news. He enlisted. He's a Marine. We have been talking about this for about 10 days, but he's been thinking about it for a long time. We're both liberal minded folks, me definitely more of a ...

A question for the guys about long distance hookups.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Here's a question for the guys please... If you had a one night stand with a girl that lived over 200 miles away, what would be your motivation for staying in contact with her through online chats?...

Could I have developed bi tendences nearly over night???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am 21 years old and have always believed myself to be 100% heterosexual, until recently (about a week ago to be exact) I have been thinking that I see or 'notice' guys. Sometimes I just think its psychological coz its as if i have developed bi ...

LDR ended a year ago yet I still think of her & wonder

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I'll try and make this short. I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years. We met here in my town, but she moved away before things got emotional.We e mailed and text constantly, and talked occasionally. I could not get her to commit to moving ...

He claims he didn't get my texts... something fishy here don't you think?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and just recently had to switch it up to a long distance relationship when he moved this past summer. We seemed to be holding strong but now for some reason I think he is lying to me. This past Friday ...

What should I write in my letter to my Army guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is in the army and i want to write him a letter but i just dont know what to say i want to say something cute, loving, caring knowing im here for him and that i miss him but i just dont know how to write it can anybody help me write ...

A troubled long distance relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a bit of a pickle. I met this girl online, around a year and a half ago, and we have been together pretty much ever since. The thing is, she lives in the US, I live a couple of oceans to the right, in northern Europe. She's all I have ever ...

He runs hot and cold and its been going on for awhile now

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25 January 2009 (F) - My question is whether to give up on this relationship. I have been with my boyriend for a year and a half. We are in our late thirties, both divorced, I have kids. We seem to have a great relationship, fun, passion, affection. We have been on ...

How can I deal with not being able to see my long-distance lover??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi there, I got so stressed due to my long distance relationship. Hmm, both of us are High School students which is the most troublesome problem.. (he's in OH but i'm CA, we've met several times when we were in China, btw, we are Chinese.) Our t...

We're fighting alot, living apart and I'm not happy with the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Well first off i'm 18 yrs old! Will be married a year in Febuary! We have been together for two years and have a 10 month old together and he is a Marine! What i need help is with what i should do and if we will make it! Well my and my husband a...

How can I make him love me through the telephone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - hey my guy he lives in usa he is study there he will back after 2 years and he's perfect and i realy like him but how can i make him fall in love by telephone sometime i feel like he calls me cos he wants to talk and he dosn't care about me bu...

How should my boyfriend and I deal with a girl who is trying ot get between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I have a question and the answer may be obvious to some, but I have never dealt with a situation like this before and I don't want to do the wrong thing and blow things out of proportion, I want to deal with this correctly. ...

How do you know if you're going too far with a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Ok so the basic details are, I'm in a long distance relationship here for 6 months now... long story as to why we live so far apart but it's going soo well... I really have been thinking about sending him a picture of me, not in lingerie, but a ...

Comments on his facebook have got me wondering what he feels towards me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've just split up from a long term relationship. I like this new guy. We've met twice, the first time I chatted to him briefly, I knew that I liked him but thought he didn't like me as he didn't seem that responsive so I left as I didn't want to ...

I feel trapped in this situation but don't want to hurt him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hello everybody i have a huge problem. I met this guy while home on winter break. He lives in New Jersey and I go to school in Florida. We dated and basically fell in love with each other. I love him very much and care for him deeply. I went back to ...

She broke my heart and all I want is to help her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - So, my most recent girlfriend just broke up with me, she says it's because of the distance, she lives 5 hours away, but the distance has never really bothered me, and now she's very very depressed, she's started cutting herself, I still love her, ...

I miss her so much I break into tears

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 January 2009 (M) - hi, i was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions to my current situation. About 6 months ago i met this gorgeous young lady from italy who i immediately fell for, but the problem is she lives in italy and i cant stand being without her now ...

Creative thoughts on where to hold the wedding??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi Creative Cupiders, My fella and I are planning on getting married sometime in the next year (hooray!)... here's the issue: we met when I made an impromptu move to the West coast (without the intention of staying, but love happens where/wh...

Will I be making a mistake if I dump him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Guys, my boyfriend of almost 2 years hasn't really been treating me well, we have been in along distance relationship but calling and messaging has been my responsibility alone he calls only when he wants,alot of things and i mean alot of thngs have ...

Her inconsistencies are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great t...

I told my parents I'm bisexual but it didn't go down too well.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm 17 and I have a major problem. I am bisexual and I am in a long distance relationship. She lives 2 hours away from me. However a few days ago I came out to my parents and it didn't go well... I also told them about my girlfriend umm... ...

Have I wasted my love on her?????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - I've known a beautiful, sexy woman for fourteen years, about seven years ago, we became a long distance couple. I invested in her store in the midwest, subsidised her income to the tune of $800/mo this past year and a few in between. She has always ...

I feel as though he doesn't love me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now in a long distance relationship and i love him. Because we live far away from each other we use msn to see each other on webcam but before he got into a social site he never really went on msn. Now i se...

How can I make her believe that I love her so much knowing she didn't feel my love before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Dear readers who support this page, I begin my question with the story with my loved one and only GF. First of all I've been in relationshiop now (LDR) I can say relatioship is going strong even where far, we both committed for each other and s...

Is it friendship? Or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I had been chatting with this guy for 4 years and I decided to go meet him. I went over to his state to meet with him, he was working so the time that we could spend was limited and I was only able to stay there for the weekend because I had to come ...

I really like him and I would like something more...

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19 January 2009 (F) - Three weeks ago I had a one night stand with the brother of a friend of mine. We agreed the next morning that it had been a really great night but that it would be a one off. As he had very recently begun to date another girl, and the fact ...

She doesn’t want to begin a physical relationship until she’s has had a tummy tuck completed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - While working as an online volunteer, I gradually formed a long distance romantic relationship with a co-volunteer. I’d known the woman professionally for a couple of years and developed great respect and admiration for her. However, we live 2000 ...

Has anyone else ever had their heart ripped apart like this, and how did you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I live some miles aways from each other, and every time he comes to see me (he never lets me come to his) he had to take two buses, which took nearly two hours and cost a lot of money which he barely had. Last night he came into ...

I'm having a very difficult time with LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, in fact ive never been so happy in a ...

Since my g/f has been ill she's distanced herself from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - hey well i got a bit of a problem and im not sure wat to do.. me and my gf have been goin out for 4 months or so now (long distance) and she has been very very ill for about 2 months and she finds it difficult to have long conversations an...

We agreed to be friends but it hurts so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Hey everyone. I have been in a Long distance relationship for 1.5 years. I am a few years older then the girl, shes going into last year of school now. Pretty much We had a GREAT relationship for the whole time, I was in love with her, and she was ...

Not seeing one another enough and it is affecting our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, infact ive never been so happy in a ...

Is she keeping her emotions in check and waiting until my divorce is final?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Let me tell my story. I need some insight from someone on this situation. I have written on this forum previously. I am in a long-distance relationship with a single mom, whose son has deployed to Iraq. We are high school classmates and hadn't ...

3 years, cheated on twice yet I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for over 3 years. We have always been in a long distance relationship and recently she has moved closer to me for university. For the first month it was fantastic having her so much more close. My girlfriend is a ...

Any beautiful places to take him to in England?

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15 January 2009 (F) - Me and my online lover have been chatting for the past two years now. I can honestly say regardless to the fact he lives in the US and I in England; we have leaped without struggle over many hurdles that have faced us. We love eachother and ...

Can we make it work when we can't see each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a good 5 months now. Recently he got kicked out of the house by the lady he was staying with which was supposed to be his mother that took him in to help him make a better life. Well being that his real ...

Anyone had a relationship with a chatmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - hi , i met this female on a social networking site. it has been almost 2 years we have been talking on the phone.we do like each other a lot and she has also said that to me a lot of times.the only thing is because of our college schedule...

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5581 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought ...

He lied, he cheated, now I wonder if he'll ever contact me again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I was talking to a guy on eharmony for 2 months over a long distance. We spoke every day for 1-2 hours, sent emails and cautiously acknowledged that there is a lot of potential for long term. He came to visit me for three days and had a fantastic ...

I got dumped and she continued to mess with my head while she was sleeping with someone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - So me and my gf of two years broke up in november, before then we lived togethor for a year then in Aug. I had to move away for grad school so it became a long distance relationship and it was going okay. Until I found out she was talking to her ex ...