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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 499 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I live far apart and sometimes when I call her she makes jokes that I dont like too much. For example, I called her and said "Hey, what you up to?" and her reply was "I was just thinking about fooling around with my boss". ...

Is it just the commitment phobia or he is behaving normally and my thinking is wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 499 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hi all, I am ankita from India. I have just got engaged a months back (It will be an arranged marriage) and the boy is working in a different city (So we dont meet actually). He calls me nearly everyday but we talk for just 10-12 minutes. Initially, ...

I have never had a female talk to me the way she does without having deep feelings for me. HELP!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 499 days ago

31 May 2007 (?) - I am in love with a friend of mine. We are both in our late 40's or so. I would have bet my life on the fact that she was falling in love with me as well. Our flirting was so obvious that some people noticed it and said things. However in January I ...

Do you think I should drive to his home and confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 500 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years (2 hours distance). I'm forty years of age but have never adored a man as much as this guy, who was 8 years younger. For me it was a wonderful relationship and felt as though I would've spent the rest of my ...

I think I'm in love with her......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

27 May 2007 (M) - hi i met a girl on msn, she lives about an hour away on train, ive met her loads now and i think ive fallen in love, problem is that i dont see her that often and the longer it goes on the more painful it is not seeing her, what should i do?...

What can I do to show him that I miss him during the weekdays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - I met my boyfriend in Uni and we have been dating for a couple of months. The term ended about a month ago and he moved back home for the summer. He lives about an hour and a half away and comes to visit me on the weekends because I don't own a car. ...

how can i telll if he actually loves me like he said before he came over or if he is just using me to get on his feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 506 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - my partner has recently shifted from a different country to be with me he has known me for about 9 years. i currently feel like i am being used he had decided in january to come and live with me when he arrived he had next to no money we have just ...

Is this long distance relationship worth continuing with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My boyfirend lives thousands of miles away. We've been together for over a year but living apart. We speak a few times a week and rarely actually see each other. I have no doubt that he cares about me and would like to be with me however i'm not ...

He says he loves me when he sees me, once a month. Then I don't hear from him! Is he being sincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in different towns. I see him once a month and when we see each other he always tells me that he loves me, but as soon as he leaves, I don't hear from him for weeks. He won't even return my smses. Do you think he means it ...

I feel he's going off me, should I say anything to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Is this normal Have been seeing my bf nearly a year Started off long distance so always made most of every sec together now he lives closer coz of work and he dont seem as pleased to see me I worry hes going off me i feel low about this I know hes ...

How can I make him see how much I care when all these issues are in the way and he lives an hour away!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 507 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Dear Everyone, Please give me an advice on what to do. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 1/2. Everything seemed to be fine up until few days ago, I did something really stupid, here's how the story goes: He has 2 daughters (1...

He's moving to another state because of his job. Should we end this relationship or continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I met a young man in March 2007 and since we have been dating and establishing a wonderful relationship. His job recently informed him that he would be relocating to Louisiana and we currently live in Texas. My question is do you think this ...

My e-crush unexpectedly called me his gf! I want to be happy, but I feel weird. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hello, I have a strange problem. I'm a young woman living in Canada, and for the past 3 years I've had feelings for this man that I met while on vacation in France. We met, traded numbers and addresses, and became penpals. I developed a weir...

How can I be with my boyfriend when the money is tight and the visas are causing a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - well here it is. I met a guy when i was working abroad and what was supposed to be a fling became a full on relationship and we fell for each other. I have since returned home and have been back for nearly a year. Somehow we have managed to keep the ...

When my bf goes away to visit his kids, I'm going to miss him terribly! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I've been going out with my bf who has been in the army for nearly a year now. I think the world of him. He has kids from a pre relationship and obviously wants to see them when he can. In July, he will go away for six weeks on leave. He is gonna se...

He says he wants a future with me, but he has still not figured out the details. Is it even worthwile to stick around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - ok so heres my question. The love of my life lives two hours away. We've been on and off for 4 yrs. The distance kills me sometimes. Him:never married, no kids, me: one child, divorced. He works all summer fourteen hrs a day. In the fall though...

Been in a one and a half year exclusive relationship... but never met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - what should i make of this?I am in an understanding with this guy i have met online one and half years ago and tho we have not met in person yet,cos i live in asia and he in the US,(we have plans to meet this year)we had an understanding to be ...

My long-term BF is going away with the Army for 3 years and wants to marry me when he gets back, but what if he comes back a changed man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

18 May 2007 (F) - Me and my bf had dated for 3 1/2 years off and on. The last time we broke up i left him for another guy. Now me and him are back together and I'm for real about us this time and he says he is too. We have been dating so far for 4 months now. Whe...

I'm not really into seeing him or having sex anymore - is it time to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 511 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I think my relationship might be coming to an end. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for 10 months now and the last month or so I have been feeling unhappy and we have been talking and trying to fix things, but i still feel unhappy. I dont know ...

I miss him and want him to move here with me...Do you think it was wrong for me to move because of my job.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - Do you think it was wrong for me to leave my mate and move because of my job. We are not married but very much in love. We have been dating for a year and some months but known each other longer? I cry everyday cause I miss him so I want him to move ...

How do I keep her interested until I can be with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

17 May 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend had been going out for 4 months, but ever since the start of our relationship it was kind of hard because i wasn't able to drive to see her as often as i wanted to because my license was suspended. and lately it has been really ...

I would like to work on a proper relationship with this man. But our slim wallets and the distance between us make me doubt our chances.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - I've recently recovered from depression, and this guy came into my life just at the right time as I'm planning on making a fresh start. We're not in a relationship but I told him I would like to be in the future, and he said he was expecting it ...

Why is he avoiding me??? That is tearing me up completely????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

17 May 2007 (F) - Hi, In dec i met the most amazing man, the moment we saw each other there was something there. We get along so well and we're so close without even trying we understand each other and trust and confide in each other. We live 5 hours away from ...

How do we avoid running out of things to talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

16 May 2007 (M) - Hi. I just wanted to know what the best way to keep things fresh in a long-term relationship is? I'm 17 and recently started dating and i chat with my gf for at least an hour every day. But i'm worried that, at some stage, we might run out of ...

How do I keep my cool with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

16 May 2007 (F) - I met this lovely guy online, we got on really well and met up last weekend, I realised straight away that I had fallen for him in a big way and I think I got too serious too soon. I'm now worried that I have frightened him away. I have asked him to ...

Why won't he let himself be with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

15 May 2007 (F) - Hi, I'll try and condense the last year and a half into this... basically i split up with my boyfriend of 3 years, with the intention of it being more of a break. We had gone from living together to being long distance, and weren't coping with it ...

Her parents are forcing us to only meet once every 6 weeks. Can we keep a relationship up this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 515 days ago

15 May 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, im new here! I heard this place is pretty good with advice so im going to see if you people can re assure me that im doing the right thing. I met a girl over the internet through a friend, now i love her, met her, and well, feel lik...

She's so talented and I'm a geek. Does she really want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - Okay so, I met this girl online a few months ago (just to make it clear, I am a bisexual girl myself), we started emailing each other, we would write really long ones every day and talk about everything and anything. We sort of just connected. After ...

I have an anxiety disorder which means i can't stop worrying about what people think

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 494 days ago

13 May 2007 (F) - ok so i am in love with this amazing guy, as cheesy as it sounds, i feel as though he is the other part of me. he is so understanding. i met him because my mum started going out with his dad and then we met, we are both adults and told each other we ...

It feels as if we're a couple even though we're just friends. I slept with someone else, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 517 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - I am in a limbo-state with a man who lives on the other side of the country. I met him during a business trip last year. Because of our stressful work schedules, we are not able to see each other more than once or twice a year. We are both ...

He kissed another girl but said he pulled away immediately. Why can I not forget about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

12 May 2007 (F) - I know there are a ton of questions about this, but.. my boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for 8.5 months at the time, the longest we went without seeing each other was about 3 weeks though. After my birthday, which he came to see me ...

I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 495 days ago

11 May 2007 (F) - My situation is about some trust issues. I have problems trusting my boyfriend because of the past. When I am with him, and he goes out with friends (without me) I am perfectly fine. When I am away from him, this is where the problem is. I had ...

I'm moving but she wants me to stay "single" for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 520 days ago

10 May 2007 (M) - I have gotten involved with a girl from work. At first we were just friends, but last week she was hinting that it was something more. Yesterday she told me flat out that she really liked me ever since we started working together. I know it's not ...

I broke up with my LD bf to be with this guy, but I'm not sure I did the right thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 520 days ago

10 May 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend but i don't know if i made the right decision. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 4 and a half years. He is the most amazing person and i feel truly lucky to have met and been with him. For the first three year...

How can I get to the bottom of all that he's telling me? It's difficult as he lives in another state!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 521 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - The man I am very much in love with lives in another state and we talk four or five times a day, unless he is with a woman that is 15 years younger than him and lives near him. We have been seeing each other and talking back and forth for the last 7 ...

Why does he never text or email me when I'm away and only calls for 5 minutes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 521 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - Hi all, I am a female of 21 yrs old and since october I have being doing an Erasmus exchange so I currently live in France. I return back to the UK in 5 weeks. I left behind in England my boyfriend of 20 months. He is brilliant to me when I have g...

In my heart it feels as if I have cheated. Even though I know I didn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I need someones advice really bad. I have no one to talk to about this situation because no one really cares. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. We have had our ups and downs. I broke it off about a week ago because it turned out ...

I met a guy at a concert, he lives quite far away but I'm worried because I'm overweight and he is really good looking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - Well basically, at a concert last summer I met this guy and over the past few months, we have spoken a lot over the internet, and briefly met up at some other gigs. I really like him, and I think he likes me too, however, it's hard to tell as by ...

My bf is on a long trip, how do I keep my urges curbed without him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is away on a trip and it's been three months. I have never gone this long without sex before and it is totally getting to me. I'm totally irritable and depressed. I wouldn't dream of cheating on him, and masturbation is just not working ...

my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 523 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - Basically, my one year relationship has recently turned long distance and it's not as easy to get together as it used to be. It is more important to me that we see each other frequently than it is to him. He agrees. Is this the typical male and ...

I've been a total fool here! Do you think he really wants to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

7 May 2007 (F) - I need some advice please. I dated my boyfriend while he was at uni but it was long distance. He found it hard to be faithful and often wanted to be single like his mates but eventually he met a girl from his uni and so dumped me. When he ...

Should we stay together when he goes to university or just break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

6 May 2007 (F) - Hey, I was hoping if someone could give me advice. I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is going off to uni in about 4-5 months. We've been going out for quite a while, and we've been discussing what to do whether to: stay together when he ...

I really want her and I to go the next level...problem is-she has a long distance bf! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 524 days ago

6 May 2007 (M) - I've gotten to know this flat-out amazing woman for a few months. We've hung out and become pretty good friends. But from her body language and demeanor around me, it's clear to me that she wants what I want -- to be more than just friends. My p...

He still wants me even when his wife is with him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 525 days ago

5 May 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a man for a year now and he works here but from another country. He told me last year that he was married and if I wanted to go I could.I love him to much and couldn't go away.I asked did he want that I go bye and he said no ...

We are both young and considering a long-distance relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

4 May 2007 (M) - Ok, so my girlfriend is going to highschool next year but I still have one more year of middle school left. We really love each other, and are going to stay together. What do you think will happen, although it is a long distance relationship?...

I want to teach overseas for 6 months but will my 3 year marriage suffer as a result even though my husband supports me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 526 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We are relatively young (late 20s). I really hate where we live (a developing country) and am making plans to go to teach in Asia for 6 months. Is this crazy? Will our marriage last such a ...

Why would he want to end it so suddenly to be with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 526 days ago

3 May 2007 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for nearly 4 years. It was an off and on affair, I never met his family or friends but he met mine as he stayed with me regularly. There was never any mention of commitment or settling down, we enjoyed being ...

I'm still in love with my ex, will I ever get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

2 May 2007 (M) - I'm still in love with my ex. We were together for about 6 months, although we'd been friends for much longer. She broke up with me almost a year ago. I think I should be over her by now, but I still miss her just as much as I always have. I don't ...

I feel so alone now that I'd take anybody.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 528 days ago

2 May 2007 (F) - My grandma died and my boyfriend dumped me in the same week. I use to be in a long distance relationship i didn't see my friends much i don't have any close friends and i can't speak to my family. The closest person i had was my boyfriend he dumped ...

He wants to wait 5 years to save for a house but I need security here, and I have 3 kids to think about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - well first off i am in a long distance relationship, we are exactly 257 miles apart..i trust him completely and he trusts me..we are definitely in love..we met online, i drove there to meet him the first time and that was dec 29th..and we spent new ...