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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

He finished with me because we didn't see each other much. Why wasn't he willing to work at things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6658 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hey there. I am feeling quite down/depressed at the moment and I would really appreciate some advice. I am an 18 year old girl and 3 weeks ago my boyfriend of 4 months finished with me. It was long distance as he lives in London and I liv...

This is a really difficult one... My boyfriend is so depress he wants to end it all... And it's all my fault. How do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now. and our relationship has been difficult from the beginning. He's from Australia, and I'm from the Netherlands. He's the 6th I've slept with, I'm his first. My last boyfriend and I were together fo...

I don't want my guy to leave and go to sea, but I don't want to feel guilty for holding him back, either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I've recently met this guy that I really like and we've been dating since the end of August. I just recently found out that he wants a career going out to sea for maybe 3 or 4 months at a time. At this point, I can see myself with him for a very ...

Things between us are strained since my boyfriend moved interstate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have a bf who had to move to another state 3 months ago for a job in the Oil Rig Camp. Before he moved we were always in contact either through email or phone. Well since he moved away he never phones or sends emails. The last time I talked t...

She's left to study overseas, and now I can't help wondering if she's going to get drunk and disorderly when she's away...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

24 January 2006 (M) - I need help. My girlfriend recently left for study abroad. We have been dating for 6 months and she is continuously partying and going out with other people in groups. I really miss her and don't really want her to get drunk and do anything with ...

Should I give my cellphone chat buddy another chance? He said he'd been hospitalized...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Ok here's the deal, I met "Greg" in chat room on my cell phone in September 2005. We really enjoyed chatting and soon began to talk on the phone and things just kept getting better. "Greg" lives in New Jersey and I live in Ontario Canada witch is a ...

I have a crush on my new co-worker, and I think he likes me too, but I'm leaving work for 6 months to go traveling around the world! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6669 days ago

21 January 2006 (F) - I have a crush but I don't know what to do! Help! I really like this guy at work, he only started about 2 months ago but in that short time i've really grown to like him more and more. I haven't fancied someone the way i fancy him for over a year....

I'll miss my guy when he's overseas, but does that mean I can't go out and have fun while he's away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 and am currently in my first relationship. We have been going out for 6 months and I love him loads. Trouble is, he's in the army and in that 6 months I've only seen him for a month. I speak to him reguarly and we text each oth...

Torn between love of my life and love for my son... B

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 January 2006 (?) - I have been married for 12 years and then one day, I got an email from the real love of my life that had broken down 15 years earlier. I won't get into why it did not work out then other than to say we were young (early 20's) and careers and ...

Have I "idealized" my old boyfriend? Should I way for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi! I am in love with two guys. One i've been with for 6 months and i'm sure I was in love with until an old flame who lives abroad showed up. He is away for over a year and I won't be able to see him. The local guy I know i could love but I ...

Whenever I can't be with my long-distance guy, he gets unhinged and insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Need advice. I had been in a long distance relationship with my bf for one year. I travel a lot to visit him, but it seems that every time I depart (back to my hometown) he immediately becomes this insecure guy and wants to break up with me. H...

Before Christmas is was Love At First Sight. Now when I speak to him, he's just "really busy". What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Does he want me? I met a guy about 3 months ago and it was basically love at first sight. I have a little girl of 2 and he was just so natural around her. We spent every possible minute together. However, he was only here for work and actuall...

It's even harder to tell my friend that I'm beginning to fancy her, because she works overseas so often!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - 18 months ago I met a girl who works abroad for 9 months of the year. We keep in touch and meet up when she is back but I'm unsure as to tell her just how I feel about her. I have tried in the past to show how I feel this and was met with the ...

My boyfriend's rushing to move in together, but after the miscarriage and our breakups, I need to take things slowly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I met my boyfriend around 9 months ago whilst working for my aunt. We live 100 miles from each other, but without a doubt he visits me every weekend. I was 15 when I met him and he was 20. I am now 16 and he is a few months away from 21. My par...

I don't know what she's up to and she puts all the blame on me but I still want her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Me and this girl met just a few days before i had to leave the country. We spent my final 24 hours together but no intimacy involved. That was actually the first time we got to spend time alone. I called her the next day from my home country and she ...

We're in college and going to different schools. My girlfriend thinks that it would be easier if we weren't together. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6674 days ago

16 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now... we both are in college at differnet schools and now she is saying she doesnt kno about us. and she is sayin it would be alot easier on us if we werent together....what should i do?...is ...

Is this a creepy infatuation I have... Or is it for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Ok, I know have known this girl since as long as I can remember. We grew up in the same church. Anyway, we hung out on occasion, but never that much until I joined the Marines. Then it seemes like every time I would come home on leave, we would hang ...

I'm not in love with him anymore! How do I tell him without him freaking out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy on and off for about 3 years now. I just saw him for the first time in 3 months because we live far apart and I needed space because we were not getting along. I love him but I'm not in love with him. I'm not physically ...

She lives so far away! Visas and culture are conspiring to keep us apart! What do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

14 January 2006 (M) - King of all frustrating situations to be in. Me, Irish, living in London. My girlfriend, South African was living in London, but now home in SA to study and for visa reasons. We were good friends until 1 year ago. We hooked up, had an amazing...

He talks to me for 2 minutes, then goes chat to people online until the early hours of the morning! Is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6676 days ago

13 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years and everything is going great except we don't seem to talk as much as we used to and recently its getting me down. we're currently in a long distance relationship as we are both at uni but while he seems ...

Did I do the best thing, cutting off contact when she went back to her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - Hi. Need some positive reinforcement. I'm 30 years old (single, kinda good looking, some would say a catch) and was seeing a girl of 24. We live 150 miles apart, so only saw each other a few times but talked and txt every day, several times a day fo...

Should I be trying harder with the (married) girl I met and fell in love with (online)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

13 January 2006 (M) - I met a girl online last January year that I quickly became good friends with. I thought she was very attractive, we shared the same sense of humor, but unfortunately, she has been married for 10 years and has 3 children. So I kept it strictly as ...

When he leaves to go back, we argue much more...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6678 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I'm.17yrs old.hes..20 I knew him b4 he went to the army hes been in the army for a Year/half now. We've been inGaged for 9months.*Long Distance is harder than I thought.I just dont understand. When were together we dont argue but when he leaves we ...

Am I too needy and insecure of my high-flying boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Dear cupid. I hope someone out there will be able to give me some advice on my situation. I have been in the best relationship of my entire life with the man of my dreams, and we want to marry, he is currently in NY working on a project for...

My guy wants to join the Air Force, but I worry about him changing into someone I feel I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6680 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I am really confused and do not know what to do. My boyfriend and me have been friends for 5 years and been dating for almost a year. He wants to join the airforce and I really do not know what to do. I do not want him to leave because ...

Does my (now) gay ex girlfriend still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6682 days ago

8 January 2006 (M) - I've posted here before about my situation, but things keep developing. About six weeks ago, I got told by my new girlfriend suddenly that she was gay. At this point, we weren't that close so we just agreed to be friends. We'd email each other...

When we were long-distance,, he couldn't see a future for us, but now he's back and he won't let me move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - I was going out with this guy for 3 months. Before that we were best friends for a year and a half. It was a great relationship. My mom liked him, his mom liked me - that kind of thng. He moved out of my city for a project and we decided to continue...

Is a long-distance relationship the way to happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6682 days ago

8 January 2006 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for about 2 or so years now and over recent months me and him have both expressed deeper feelings for each other. I truly do love him, and I am not using that world lightly either. I care for him so much, more then I ...

Can my long distance lover ever show more emotion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - How do I summarise my relationship in just a few lines, to give you the background?! I'm 36, and until now I think I've only ever been in love once before (when I was too young to realise!), but my fiance is definitely the one I've been waitin...

Don't wanna be the "psycho paranoid girlfriend" to my long distance online boy but on the same token, don't wanna be naive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6683 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - About four years ago my friend Nadine introduced me to this guy she met on this online game named Nate. He's from Canada. I am from the States. We play flirted from the git-go, and would joke about messing around some day and what not. We never ...

Stuck between two guys, the slick Swede and a former co-worker... Please help me choose!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I am stuck between two guys as well :S I have been seeing a former co-worker for the past few months and I really enjoy being with him except at first he was really disapointing becuse he never wanted to make plans and he always seemed to...

I have to move interstate, and I worry that I might find someone else besides my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6684 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - OK, I need help. Here it goes... I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and I really do care for him. I'm moving to a different state and I still want to be with him, but a few months ago my boyfriend went away for a month and I s...

I always have time to text him a quick message, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to have the same time for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6684 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - hey there, there is something that is really bugging me. My bf is currently working in another city, and we are devoted to each other, during the day we both get very busy, but I whether i'm busy or not always send him a sweet message or, how are ...

Do I quit Uni for my Parisienne girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6687 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I fortunatley overcame our first problem of age. She is 22 and iam 19 and we met at University. We are really in love and are considering marriage now we have been together for a long time. It is not ourselves which have thrown up ...