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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:So I've been talking with this guy for about 2 months now. It's a bit complicated as we met thru my ex, but that is LONG over at htis point and he def. knows that.Anyway, we're both in our mid/late 20s, we have similar beliefs about dating - esp. at this age - that unless there is sincere potential there, you shouldn't waste someone's time. I mean, it doesn't always work out, but if you want marriage, etc. what's the pt. of someone that you couldn't picture having that with? So, we've been talking for 2 months, we've hooked up like 3 times, maybe. We've hung out a bunch (we live in diff. states, but only like an hour and a half awya from each other), so we've done lots of lunch dates, etc. when he is here for biz. We talk ALL the time on the hpone tho - mostly started by him. We literally spend hours a day (and at a time) on the phone.The thing I don't understand is that it doesn't seem like he is working to progress the relationship more so...There's been times when he could easily come to visit me, stay over, and he hasn't. I've stayed at his place once, but that's it. He wants to plan a weekend trip together - which I LOVE, but I'm confused as to why he wants to do that, but won't come hang out on a Friday night?Any ideas?
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