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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How do I tell if he isn't talking to me because he is being responsible and realistic or because it was a short romance in his eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I,23 female,have moved far away for 6 months from a man, 31, who I fell in love with. We spent only 3 days together but I got this feeling he loved me by the way he acted and looked T me. Firstly, can I trust this feeling? Could I be deluded bec...

He is an Australian, and only here for another month and I will never leave America

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3371 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Major Agony ?? I met a wonderful boy 2 months ago and we hit it off very well. We like sane things he is kind and hardworking. Good guy. We waited a few weeks before sleeping together but that hasn't changed him or us he's still great The...

Do I stay with my boyfriend? Go with another guy? Or become single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - I am in a long-term, long-distance relationship for almost 6 years. I am finishing college this june and don't know what path to take next. I am very ambitious and have big career goals. My boyfriend has a well-paid but unstable job that requires ...

Am I pestering him? Do I need to be more considerate? I am scared of losing him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - Basically I'm abit confused; It's regarding a LDR (which yes, we live far apart, and yes we have met each other a handful of times - I would happily move down to him or vice versa but finding work is the tricky thing, we both work full time and have...

I can't get over the feeling I am second choice simply because the other woman went back to Poland

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - How can I stop feeling second best? I met my boyfriend through online dating. I was on the rebound and he seemed ideal in many ways but mainly because he had no kids (former relationships had Young kids and the restrictions that brings) Very qui...

My fiancé is not calling or texting. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - hi everyone my is helen i live in nigeria am having a problem with my relationship. my guy is based in jos and I am based in kaduna. things where ok until he got a mission,and went and recently he came for break and everything move well until now ...

I found out my boyfriend lied about being married, should I keep dating him? He only sees his wife once a year

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - Started dating a guy in the army back in June, it was more casual than anything else. Then the last few months it got more serious and I could tell me was falling in love with me. When I first went to his place I asked him if he was married as there ...

My boyfriend is ruining our relationship with video games. How do I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7months, and we are in a long distance relationship. We see each other for 2 weeks a month, so we get to see each other as much as we can. Things were going fine, but he is very addicted to video games, and he's 27 ...

His best friend has told me very upsetting things about his sleeping with other women, including her! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I always knew my boyfriend was hiding something from me regarding his best friend but I was never sure about what it was. I do have trust issues due to be hurt in the past but it was something different this time. It was like I could see it with my ...

Should I be worried about his change in behavior?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of two years has been somewhat distant on and off for the last month, but for the most part things have been okay. We are somewhat long distance, we live 40 miles apart. We just returned on Tuesday from a group trip for two weeks. He ...

Is my boyfriend pretending to be single again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - My long distance boyfriend got really distant for weeks until lately, we have talked about it and everything is back to normal. However, few things changed. He doesn't post anything about us on instagram like he used to, he just posts random things ...

Why couldn't we stay friends? LDR break-up. He says the trust was broken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi guys. I just need to understand something from an outsiders perspective. So I met a guy before Christmas online and we got on great. Only thing was he lived over 100 miles away and I did wonder if this could be a problem. However, I wen...

I am pregnant, fearful and uneasy with my LDR engagement. I need an intervention.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - How do I act, communicate or make things better in my LDR relationship without looking like a jealous, insecured and weak woman? I am currently engaged to my LDR boyfriend and we just found out I am expecting a child on NewYears. I may just be ...

Should I suggest we move in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3380 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a sort of a long distance relationship. He lives with his parents, but also keeps a flat in the city where his university is. Lucky for me, I'm living in the middle, so when he goes home or back, he spends some time with ...

My Mom got drunk and talked nasty when she met my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. We meet on a trip I did to Cuba. My sister and mom went to Cuba recently it was my mom first time meeting him. My sis already meet him. My mom really embarrassed me. She got drunk like always and she ...

My ex vs. my LDR -- can you love two people at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my LDR for eight months. I love him and our sex life is amazing. We have lots in common and always have fun together. Sometimes though, I feel like he hasn't got much time for me. We don't get to see each other t...

Follow up to previous post: How should I act when he comes home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - hi all. Following my previous post where basically my bf of three months went to india- sister's wedding and his cousin's wedding. Also his parents live there. Even though he had said not to msg as his sisters will be near him etc, i found it ...

How do I become less obsessive about checking for messages from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - My SO is currently traveling for work and due to this we're communicating via email. We've both promised to write to each other at least once a day. We don't have a fixed time to write so I find myself checking my email every ten minutes to see if ...

Why would a man be so stingy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - I (25/F) and Art (30/M)recently broke up from a 1 year relationship. The problem: he barely paid for our dates, even after I told him it bothered me. He wants to get back together, but I'm unsure. Art is a smart, sensual, and charismatic man....

I want to be with my LDR but I don't want to leave my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - Hello Cupids I met my boyfriend on an internet chat site just over a year ago. We chatted for a couple of months and somehow lost touch as he had logged out of the app we used to communicate on and forgotten his password. I wasn't too bothered as ...

Do I really have to turn my back on my cousin to make my g/f happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

5 January 2015 (M) - Hello, This may get complicated so please bear with me. My girlfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship and we have been for at least a year. She lives in the Philippines and I live in the US. We met more than a year ago, and st...

I feel trapped and stressed - I need words of wisdom.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3151 days ago

3 January 2015 (F) - Hi, I feel trapped and I am pretty sure I shouldn't be feeling this way. I am on a gap year and whilst travelling fell in love. This guy is so genuine and has fallen for me completely. I also fell for him but I don't think as hard... past ...

I want to build the relationship before we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3395 days ago

2 January 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am nervous. A guy that I have cooked for in my place, gone to dinner with and been chatting with for at least a month now is coming to visit me again over the weekend. We enjoy great conversations - where he has virtually told me...