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*airy_Lu
writes:I just want other people opinions on this really because I want to know if I have every right to be extremely hurt.I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months and we're 3 hours away and I'm willing to get trains every Friday night to spend the weekend with him, he has always told me he loves me wants to stay with me forever, wants to marry and have kids, can never imagine being with anyone else and will never let me go. Well yesterday night, told me that we can't be together because his family will disown him (I've never met his parents so I don't really understand that) because we're to far apart. Anyone else think that this is the worst lie you have ever heard and that I've been incredibly stupid? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Thats the spirit. Don't let it get you down.
Life is a learning curve.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (30 March 2008):
Fairy_Lu is verified as being by the original poster of the question Were both over 18 and id love to have a chat to him but he just ignores me wont answer his phone texts anything, i just feel so hurt ive been hurt so many times and he said he was diffrent stupidly i believed him but never mind sure il live
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (30 March 2008):
Fairy_Lu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWere both over 18 and id love to have a chat to him but he just ignores me wont answer his phone texts anything, i just feel so hurt ive been hurt so many times and he said he was diffrent stupidly i believed him but never mind sure il live
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (30 March 2008):
Fairy_Lu is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWere both over 18 and id love to have a chat to him but he just ignores me wont answer his phone texts anything, i just feel so hurt ive been hurt so many times and he said he was diffrent stupidly i believed him but never mind sure il live
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): How old are you two? If you are over 18 then you dont need either parents consent, so why worry. But if he comes out with this one now then i would be a bit wary of this one. Have a good long chat with him and find out just what is going on. Maybe he has made this one up as a get out clause. Some blokes promise marriage and kids and then realise just what they have said. Then panick. Talk to him.
take care
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (30 March 2008):
I am very sorry for you , all my sympathies.
Pick up the pieces and start a new life again.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (30 March 2008):
You have every right to be hurt!!!
Hmm I dont really understand why his parents would disown him because you guys live so far apart. Did he tell you exactly why in more detail? Is it some religous/culture difference/issue?
The fact that your bf said things such as 'i want to marry you and have your kids' so early in the relationship suggests something suspicious to me! I mean really, you cant be sure of all those things when you have only been going out with someone for a few months. Its impossible. Often guys with not so good intentions tell girls i love you in the very early days of a relationship. So i think that was a warning sign for you there.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 It seems like a lie, does he really come from a family that is rich enough to matter?
If it is the truth then he obviously cares more about money then you and if it ain't, he just used a rather bad lie on you.
Either way, you seen his colors.
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