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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Is it wrong to have this type of friendship with a married guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I made a casual friendship with a guy when I sold some radios for an air base (he's air force) He was very friendly, yet a bit too much back then. He left a week later. I had to contacted him a month after that by email and since then we began ...

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...

He's married now, but I am still in love with him! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was in my very first serious relationship with a guy for 5 months before he left for basic training for the millitary, I didnt hear from him but slowly started finding out that there was another girl in his life, his ex girlfriend before me. we ...

Is this married guy looking for trouble with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he's married so we became friends since day one. He's military so we never lost touch out of what ...

He is very angry and says I don't care about him...what more can I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - My 20yr old boyfriend and i have been dating on and off for about ten months. over of which he has gotten a dui and lost his license for a year. i moved 4 hours away from him, for school that offered me a scholarship, about 3 months ago. i have been ...

Why are these guys nice to my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Dear All: I am facing a really difficult situation lately. The thing is, I've been dating with my gf for almost 3 years and we love each other a lot. The problem is, we're not living in the same country due to the fact that she went to England ...

I spent an amazing summer with him. I go abroad and he hooks up with another woman in only two weeks after I'm gone !!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading, I know it's a novel! Sorry!! I met a guy on a dating/social website in May, and we started dating in July shortly there after, he asked if I would be his ‘girlfriend’ I didn’t see much point since I was moving in a mont...

Did I do something wrong? HELP Please advise!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Well, I´ve being having a long distance friendship with this guy I met in person quite some time ago. It happens that I was the one emailing and he replying every time. There I was battling to know if he was just polite or what. Until he sai...

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on my current relationship. He is a great guy I think I am in love with him. I am not sure if it is for the right reasons. My husband committed suicide in front of me 1 year ago. I am sure sure if I will ever really get through ...

Time is running out....what can I do?!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have been talking to a girl from America for about 6 months. Around 4 months ago, we started to flirt with one another. Since, she has made plans for us to meet eachother before christmas. The only problem is, I have a girlfriend now! How can I ...

Should I carry on with this long distance romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 14 and live in manchester in england and met this girl on msn. I really like her and she likes me and we are dating. Howevver she lives in aberdeen and is 12. We really like each other but should i carry it on??...

If we marry, I will have to move to his country...not sure if I can do this! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are considering getting married. Actually, from the beginning of our relationship, our intention is to see if we were a match. Over the year, we have communicated almost every day and are completely in love. The prob...

Long distance relationship, a guy and his emails. I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I've being having a long distance relationship with a guy I met a year ago as a customer. What it was supposed to be a simple email contact has become into a very special email relationship. We have talked on the phone once. He's in the air force...

I need some ideas from you for him to tell me what is troubling him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship with my 35 year old boyfriend for nearly 1 1/2 years. I have never been with a man this long (whilst all his relationships have been long-term) and I am not sure how to handle my current situation. At ...

How do I break up with him and get over it? Or how can I make him want me the way he used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I’m 18 years old, my boyfriend is 20. We’ve been dating for two years, with our share of ups and downs but lately he’s been acting a lot different. It all started when I left for college, it’s 2 hours away from home. The first week was fine an...

I'm in a LDR since 4 months and I planned to go see her soon, but recently she seems less interested and now I'm not sure what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I have been in a LDR with this girl for about 4 months. at first we couldn't stop chatting on msn and texting each other but now when i talk to her on msn she may not reply for ages and i know she is there because if I ask if she is she always ...

I decided to go on a break with my LD boyfriend of 7 years because I have cheated on him so many times. I miss him already, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - So, here is the background information. I have been with my bf since i was 16, hes 7 years older. we have been together for 5 years now. When i finished high school, i went 400 miles away to go to college. we always talk every day, multiple times in ...

Does this mean I don't really love my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Evening all, I have been with my fiance for 5 years (we have a long distance relationship) and the initial spark has gone for me.. he however is still loving and attentive as he was when we 1st got together. I do love him but I no longer get that ...

I've fallen in love with a girl in another country!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - Hello. I'm nearly 15 and I know this is a site for adults with real relationship problems and worries, and I feel a bit pathetic as a hapless teenager using this site, but there you go. I just want advice. A few days ago I returned from th...

How do I fall out of love now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, I feel so frustrated because I fell in love with the wrong guy and now I do not know how to get him out of my head. I met him 3 months ago at a movie screening that I went to with my co-workers. I had finished a relationship recently ...

Do I stay with my pot-smoking boyfriend of 9 months, or go for my long distance aquaintance ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, off and on, and I love him.. but he hasnt told me i am cute, pretty or gorgeous..(I always tell him he is gorgeous and cute) it bugs me, because I dress cute for him and want him to notice me.. However, ...

How can he be such a coward that he cant tell me its over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man for 1 1/2 years. I'm 53 and he's 41. For about the first year we were together we were madly in love with each other and talking about a future together. We haven't seen much of each other for about 6 months ...

My partner is in Iraq at present and I am missing him so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My partner is currently in Iraq at present and I'm missing him so bad its unbelievible! We love each other and we are the practically the same person we are that much alike... The problem is the intimate times we have together are mind blowing, ...

He lives so far away... will this work or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - So I met this guy online, and we both really like each other, but we both live so far. I'm not sure how to make this work, so I'm just wondering if I should just move on or keep on talking to him and see what will happen?...

Is my boyfriend doing Acid???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have met my current boyfriend back in March 08, when I was on vacation. We ended up having a one-night-stand that then turned into a serious relationship. Since I lived quite far away, most of the time between March and now we've spent being in a ...

What is going through her head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down ...

How come he used me and not her? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am really depressed and therefore i decided to open my heart to someone as this situation is totally eating me from inside...well last christmas i went for a holiday at a friends to improve my english and met this really great guy. at first i ...

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in ...

LDR: What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. Normally we send eachother text messages in the morning at lunch and in the vening before going to be. Lately I am increasingly feeling that I am putting more effort into it. Sending mor messages calling and ...

How can I manage the practicalities of my long-distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I have an 18-year-old girlfriend (I'm 17) who lives in England, and I live in Nevada. I love her with all my heart; I truly know I'm in love with her and I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. The problem is, even though I ...

We're meeting in 2 months time but I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn. Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good ...

My future is very important to me, but I don't think he understands that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being...

Feelings for one guy, sex urges for another... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I have a friend who is a long distance one. We are friends, we are not dating or anything, just keep in touch by emails and do enjoy each others friendship and care very much for each other. I admit I have strong feelings for him and do want him ...

Am I losing my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - Am I losing my mind? I'm in a long distance relationship, and recently my boyfriend and I had an "air clearing" session so to speak. He's told me how he really doesn't like it when he can't get through to my phone and it really pisses him off when...

We broke up, mainly because of my actions, now a mutual friend wants to be my man. I feel scared to hurt my ex but also so happy, how can I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - ok i broke up wit my "ex" cuz things were never going well i done some things wrong didnt respect our relationship *** if u know what i mean *** cuz he was never paying attention and he just wouldnt care about anything important i had to say and ...

How can I stop obsessing about her and maximise the chnaces of this long distance relationship working?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

19 October 2008 (M) - Last month I spent 8 incredibly romantic, wonderful days with a young woman who lives 6,000 miles away. It will be 3 or 4 months before we can see each other again (we have talked about it). We had been penpals for 2 years before that. I really ...

Am I stressing over nothing? Should I give her space over the exam period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

18 October 2008 (M) - Hi i am long distance relationship for 4 years now, my Significant other is currantly doing her hsc, we spoke the night before her hsc started and i asked her what she will be doing during her exams etc and she said she will be studying etc, so 3 ...

My partner has gone to work on the other side of the world for 3 months, how can I remain strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - My partner of 3 years has had to go to the other side of the world to work for 3 months. It's been 3 weeks now and until now I have been pretty strong, but now I'm starting to fade. I'm feeling very depressed and lonely. I only get to speak to him ...

I feel like she sees me as a compassionate friend rather than a lover.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Hi all. I have a problem where I love a girl way too much. We are in a long distance open relationship. After having a few talks and arguments with her, I've found out that her interest in me was misplaced. I think, (90% positive) that I represent...

Dating a couple months now. Should I ask her to marry me this christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - HI, Im in a long distance relationship. We are completly in love, going out for two months now and she is coming here to live and we want to live together it will be in a couple of month when she does. I am 17 she is 19 i have nothing i dont want ...

A million milles away relationship with a turkish man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - I've been going with the turkish boy for a while now and I really like him and I know what people say about them that they cheat and only want money etc. but i thought!! mines was diffrent until i started to think: Does he even love me ? Does he j...

I did lose some trust in her because now I know she loses her guard when she is drunk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

16 October 2008 (M) - Hey I am in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of over a year. She lives about 8 hours away and is starting her freshman year at college. She recently got drunk and let a guy bring her back to her dorm and they kissed goodnight before ...

On the road again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - Hope this is not the end. And although nothing has happened yet I would like a bit of insight. My boyfriend and I started originally as a long distance couple. He had ties to where I am..a few friends and his company's HQ were where I live. ...

Any tips on how to make our relationship grow without ruining things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - Hi I've just met the most amazing girl online. We really clicked when we flirted, and I want to continue that. The problem is, I live in Walsall, she lives all the way in Essex. I can't stop thinking about her though. I've just got out of an un...

He broke up our long distance relationship and now I don't know what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of over 2 years just broke up with me a few weeks ago and I'm going crazy. Our entire relationship has been long distance.. but we made it work. We talked every night for two years and this summer he started going out with friends all ...

He lives 130 miles away and said the distance is too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

15 October 2008 (F) - My best friend's nephew is older than her, (17 on Sunday) and she introduced us a while ago, I think we got on quite well, he's my exact type, kind, funny, I spoke to him on msn and bebo and I decided I really like him. Some people suggested I ...

How do I make her have sex with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

15 October 2008 (M) - I am a 19 year old man and have been dating an 18 years woman since April 2007. We had sex once in November 2007 and now that we are in a long distance relationship I called her yersterday and she told me that she is not prepared to have sex with ...

He asks lots of questions and says I’m mysterious.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - There’s this guy I like at work but I can’t tell if he likes me. He’s teases me but he acts normal with other girl’s. Sometimes when we’re talking I’ve noticed he holds eye contact. It’s like when he’s talking he looks into my eyes a little longer. ...

What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in ...

I got married after a LDR, but she is not the way I thought she was...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - i just got married after long distance relationship, but as i went back to marry now my wife i just discovered that i had no feeling for her.She is no longer beautiful as i thought and nobody else has told me that she is beutiful.after our wedding I ...