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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping ...

I caught him cheating and now I found out he married the 'other woman'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6022 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to ...

She's really upset, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help...

How can I blow her a kiss across the Atlantic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am currently participating in an exchange program with a school in Nuernberg, Germany (I'm from Atlanta, USA). The exchange partner I was assigned is a girl, who, I might add, is extremely beautiful. Not only that, but she's amazingly fun to talk ...

His affection has cooled off. What is happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hello I'm new here, and I really need your help.. I'm in a relationship, and have been with him for 15 months now.. It is a long-distance relationship, but we've been doing fine really until about 4 months ago, when I was doing my A Levels and did...

I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we ...

Should I follow him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - The man I'm in love with moved to another state for his career. Should I follow him?...

He will work away from home for a while and I'm terrified he will cheat again, as it happened in the past when we faced distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm in a bit of a strange situation at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and we moved in together a month ago. He has been asked to work away from home for 3 months which will start just before christmas. It is ...

Calling all those with experience of Military relationships, there are long periods where he s away - stories please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi im wondering if there are any females out there who's partners are in the army / navy and have to spend long periods of time apart. I have come into a new relationship with a guy in the navy who will be away for long periods and if anybody has ...

She said I'm not that handsome, is that important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I Have just met a lovely girl, online it has to be said. We both get on like a house on fire on the phone and both admit we feel comfortable and happy with each other's personalities and that life is better and Happier now we h...

I can't trust him to tell the truth. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years (the last 6 months he has been living abroad). He told me only last week (during an argument on the phone when I shouted he had been selfish leaving me alone like this) that he had actually delayed ...

Why am I tormented by visions of my ex doing things with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - A few months ago, my girlfriend split with me because she was going to university far from me. And now, I keep envisioning her making out and having Sex with other guys. I am the only guy she has ever slept with, as she's never been in a long term ...

Suggestions: What would you do with your ex’s stuff? (in order to let go)

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - After asking for answer and help on a few websites. I reach the conclusion that I have to ditch all my ex’s stuff in order to let go. Also, not to mention my father is coming to London to stay with me. I don’t want my dad seeing all the men stuf...

I admitted to something I didn't do. How can I win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I met a nice guy from Burbank, CA, and in the two months that we've been chatting we fell in love. Using his words, we found a connection. He's not been into a relationship for 5 long years and i've never been into a relationship for so long a time. ...

How can I keepi t alive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year, but we have been together on and off for about 5 years, 2 weeks ago he moved all the way around the side of the world. New Zealand. Right now i dont feel like hes putting enough effort into keeping us alive. How do...

Advice for kissing and dating, please... But, we're in a long distance relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - i'm planning a date for my boyfriend and i. i've only kissed him once and that was my first kiss. can i get tips on kissing and on the date since we are in a long distance relationship?...

Before I moved 1,000 miles away, me and my boyfriend got engaged... But I'm not sure I want him. What do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - HELP!!!! Before I left for college (1,000 miles and 19.5 hours away) in August, my boyfriend and I got engaged. I have always been faithful in all of my previous relationships, but they never lasted long and I would find someone new and usually we ...

Do most people "block" contacts once a long distance relationship goes bad? He's asking for space and keeps changing his mind.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My bf of over a year (long distance) turned around and said he needed time alone and space and distance to figure himself out. He cut all phone calls and said it was because he needs distance, and that he didnt see the reason why we should talk o...

Love affairs from afar, circumcision, and masturbation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - First, I'm in a distant relationship and love my gal too much. This is what's causing da problem. I think about her to the extent of my head aching. I miss her so much that it really hurts. Sometimes i feel she doesn't love me as i do because ...

My boyfriend has a trouble past, my friends think he's no good, how can I convince them they're wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is so good to me, He shows he cares, and loves me so much. I met him online and we have been together for 7 months now. My love life is great, not to mention the sex! I have never in my life met anyone as wonderful as him. And he tells ...

My busy boyfriend lives far away and doesn't seem to care to see me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and I always the one traveling to see him. I don't mind the traveling 'cause he has a really tide , really busy schedule and he can't make it. The thing is that it is not easy to get our schedule together, and ...

My long distance girlfriend doesn't listen to me, am I a control freak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - Hey everyone i have been in a long distance relationship for a year and a month and we havent seen eachother since this due 2 immigration issues and i was deported from Canada. I am in Portugal this is the story things at this point is really ...

I'm 16 and he's 24, I'm unsure if this relationship will last.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - hi.I am 16 years old gir,and I am going out with 24 old boy.I don't think that the year difference make our relationship immposible,there are another reasons.First reason that makes us separated for a time is that he is always on move.Today is in my ...

I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

25 October 2007 (M) - I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...

Why does it hurt again after three years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My Ex and I were in a long distance relationship, which we ended nearly three years ago. The break up was mostly mutual, and we agreed to a pseudo open relationship. We did see each other twice in the following two months, and I always thought we ...

Ever since the beginning we knew we would get married. But now that it's drawing near, I'm scared!! Are we moving to fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi! I am coming up to a really exciting time in my life. I am 21 and getting ready to graduate with my bachelors degree in a year. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years (since senior year of highschool). I never thought that I ...

I am 12, he is 28. We are in love and he says he wants me to move in with him as soon as I am 16.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - About a month ago I met a really sweet guy at my aunts wedding. I'm only 12 but i look alot older and people tell me i am a lot more mature than my age. He's 28 and he works with my aunt. Pretty much everyone in my family knows him and they all seem ...

People have told me that her dumping me is her loss... Is it really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - After 2 years and 8 months, she's left me. I thought we were doing so well. We'd both gone to seperate universities, but our conversation seemed to be the same as ever, and I was happy. Now it's over. I don't think there's anything more I ...

How do I go about marrying a Turk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi i have a turkish bf and he says he loves me everyday and i love him and he has asked me several times to marry him i am suppose to be going over there in november to be with him and he wants us to get married then but i have not got a clue how to ...

I never see him, it's long distance, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6030 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - okayyyy so ive been talking to this kid for the past month and we use to like each other last year but it kinda faded away.. he lives at college which is like an hour and a half away.. he only comes home like once every 2 weeks or so..and i still ...

Stay with him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6031 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I need some help...i'm seeing this guy a few months now...I didn't think it was too serious, well it isn't really but he said that he considers me his gf and what we have together is absolutely great, my last relationship left my self esteem in a ...

Lot's to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing ...

Do I have to tell him that I want more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - i have a real problem and am confussed as well.2 years ago i meet a man but we were leaving so far; him in usa me in africa but in the first year he came for holidayz .Returning in usa he remain to call me we really keep in touch.now he is here in ...

All the nice girls love a Submariner - how do I cope with separation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi there, how many of you have been in a successfull long distance relationship with somebody in the armed forces? I have met an amazing guy who is in the Navy, at the moment he hasnt been given a date of when he will be going to sea for a long ...

How can I avoid making waves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6031 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and I recently split after 15 months with the strain of our long distance relationship (different universities). She had mentioned about a month prior that she thought we wouldn’t have much free time with increased workload...

We are supposed to be serious, so why do I have to wait until the weekends till I hear from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Hi i need some male advice. I met this guy on the internet a month ago. We had a great first date, and i ended up staying 4 days at his. it was really nice, we cooked each other meals, he took me in to work in the morning. It was like a r...

How can I be myself and not loose my lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - i had find my great love in net ,so everyone of us want to know every detail abt the other partner. i was feeling at ease with him coz we had getting along with each other but ,yeasterday, he had ask me to show him my bra , he mentionned that he ...

In a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - Hi guys! I have been "dating" this guy I met online and we have been talking for just over a year now. He lives in the US and I live in Canada. I'm 28 and he is 23. We talk on webcam all the time and just recently we decided he would come to visit ...

He is telling me to move in with him, or its over!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - my ex wants me to move 35 miles away to live with him or its over. i have never left my mum as she has M.S and all my family and friends live here. His family live 35 miles away but he works with them 10 hours 5 days a week. He can drive and i cant ...

Should I stay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Ive been together with a guy for a month now,its long distance about 3hours away on a plane,we met when i was on a vacation and we shared intense chemistry. HOwever he said he doesnt see that this relationship might work and he is not ready for a ...

When we meet up should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Hey I'm in a long dist reltaionship. We're meeting up soonish. we havn't cn eachother in 2 months butkept in contact. I want to tell him I love him coz i do and i miss him loadz but I'm nt sure he feels the same I kno he likes me a lot but i dnt kn...

Can a long distance relationship work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

20 October 2007 (F) - Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to d...

Do I wait four years for him or do I get on with the single life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyrfiend and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. He's been gone for a month now and I really miss him. I'm so used to seeing him all the time. We spent every day together. Now, i'm lucky if I could talk to him once/twice a week since he left ...

Long distance relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Long distance relationships. There are so many views on them. Some people think they can't work, that the relationships aren't "real" because you don't see your boyfriend or girlfriend everyday, but that's their opinion. They haven't been...

She moved away.... Can it last, I don't want to lose her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

18 October 2007 (M) - ok well me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and she recently moved to washington a few weeks ago and I was woundering if loong distance realationshipd work out? because I don't want to lose her...

Friendship is nice, but should I take ONE LAST CHANCE to try and make her mine again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

18 October 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. I'm sorry if this has come up before, but I'm faced with a bit of a crisis. Most of you on this site know me and my situation by now, but for those of you who don't; I was in a long distance relationship for two years, and this ...

Please help me. I love him and will never be able to forget him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Hi! I had posted a question but I think the readers dont get a proper idea of what Iam trying to say.So I clear it again. I love a guy who is younger to me.I told him about my feelings and he said he only wants me to b his friend.His behaviou...

Stay mum or tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) - there is this boy i really like at school. we are quite good friends but he has no idea i like him. he has recently announced that he is moving a fair few hours away ad i dont think i will see him again. should i tell him i like him or leave him to ...

He says we won't work b/c of his parents - but I still want to know how he feels about me! How can I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Actually I am stuck up in a problem, which I expect that u may b able to solve. See. I had met a guy in delhi. He worked in a shop and we didn't know each other. When I returned back to bombay, I was not able to forget him as HE also looked at me in...

Should I try to get back with him or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 16months broke up a month ago, it was a long distance relationship and we saw each other about every 3weeks and talked everyday for about an hour about everything! The reason for us breaking up is he found it had gotten too hard with ...