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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Why does he have a picture of his ex on the wall?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been having a long distance relationship for about three months with a guy I have known for 10 years or so. I went to visit at his house last weekend and noticed that there was a picture of him and his ex up on the wall. They were together ...

Why am I being ignored all of a sudden??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months now, and I thought everything was fine between us, but suddenly he has been completely ignoring me for the past few days. We live two and a half hours apart and only get to see each other on the ...

Going through hell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been going through hell of late. So here it goes. I was married for 10 years. 3 of it happy, next three years long distance and unhappy and the past 4 years without having sex and always fighting. I was having a...

I could be gone for 8 to 24 months...how do I stop our relationship falling apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - my girl and i have been in a serious relationship for over 8 months now, everything has been going wonderful, we love each other dearly. But, today I just got word that I got into Job Corps, wonderful opportunity. But the problem is that I leave ...

My sister is being played -- how do I help her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok this is not about me its my adopted sister she is 30 years old and is in a long distance relationship. The guy is 26 and is a truck driver. They have been together for 4 months and he proposed to her they have only seen each other twice since ...

Should I worry about my girlfriend's guy friend in our long distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I feel like my girlfriend is drifting away, shes away at college and i come see her a couple times a week, i do everything and anything she asks, i even help her with her homework in which i never took the classes for, so i read her text book and do ...

My long distance girl wont commit to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

28 April 2009 (?) - help! my long distance girl wont commit to me, we act and do everything a couple do in a long distance relationship but she wont take that extra step and put a label on us! Her reasons are...shes scared of heartbreak and she does not want me to make ...

LDR girlfriend doesn't know if she can move for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys... Well I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months - in which time we have seen each other for 10 weeks and she is due to move over here in 4 weeks. She was my best mate for 3 years before this. My proble...

He blocks my emails and keeps his distance -- what's up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Here's my dilemma, I met a guy a few years back, we hit it off immediately. In the beginning we spoke on the phone all the time chatted on line also. We met in person 4 times. Everytime we met in person, he blocked my e-mails and kept his ...

He said he doesn't come to see me often because of the distance... could this be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - We live more than an hour away. We met online 3 years ago. It took a while for us to meet in person. We hit it off immediately. The first kiss was amazing. We parted our ways and spoke online more always intending to have another date. Six ...

If I don't see her again I'll go crazy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - I seem to have alot of problems recently anyways... I just came back from a absolutely fabulous trip to Paris and I met the most amazing person on my travels. I gave her my email but im a tad worried that Ill never hear from her and theres an even ...

She always says she doesn't know what she is feeling. Do we have a future together?

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25 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now, and we both claim to love each other, but I'm not sure she understands love. Whenever I ask her to come to mine she is always a bit reluctant but would eventually come to mine after I ...

Did I do something wrong by sending him this email?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - There´s a guy I´ve been having an email friendship for a long time. We are long distance and he is in the military. We are friends and like to exchange jokes, thoughts, and check on each other pretty often. I send him an email b/c I regularly visi...

The cheating distance factor...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives in Illinois, and I live in California. We've been dating for a while now, without seeing each other, once. So it's officially long distance, without meeting in person :( And recently I found out he was cheating on me. I love him ...

Can anyone tell me if this is over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - so what can i say, im a little confused and im pretty sure its over but i just want to hear others opinions on this matter, as it is rather confusing and frustrating. So ive been in a long distance relationship for a while now, everything was f...

Can anyone tell me what this girl is thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi all, I hav this crush with this family friend. She's 17 and i'm 25. Well basically it's her who initiated and sort of pushed me to say my feeling to her. I didn't formally say that i like her (but we both told a story which is pretty obvious ...

Why do LDR not work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I was with this amazing guy for a while and then he decided b/c he couldn't see me all that we couldn't be together. We were so happy until then. He lived about an hr. away and I had even planned to see him when he broke up with me. Why do long ...

Should I move to be with my LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I dated a girl for two months, then she got out of the military, and moved back home..... to the other side of the country. We have talked on the phone everyday, sometimes for 3 or 4 hours. We have had some fights and arguments, and come close to ...

My lover lives far away....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend lives over 700 miles away from me, and I get so lonely sometimes. He is really busy with school, as am I, and it feels like forever since I've seen him last. We talk all the time on the phone and online, but I miss him desperatly...Any ...

I broke up with her but now I miss her and watch her every move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I have just got out of a LDR which lasted 6 years, at first it felt the right thing to do as the distance between us became too much of a strain, only seeing each other 3 or 4 times a year. We decided to break up in March, everything seeme...

LDR--Am I being a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hi i have been in a LDR for almost a year and a half, i usually see my boyfriend about two days each fortnight. He had a job up my way this thursday and said that after he had done that we could go out for a few hours afterwards. I spoke with...

I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I get visions of my girlfriend cheating on me. I don't know if it's the paranoia that I have created in my mind or she is truly cheating on me. In the past, she hasn't shown any traits of doing so, in fact she has always been very loyal and t...

He seems to be less and less interested in having sex with me because I am so hard to please...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my sex life. I'm in a long distance relationship with a man I adore. I've been with him almost a year now and he means the world to me. We see each other half a year, I'm at Uni. The problem is when we are together I want ...

Recently my wife has been very cold with me and I'm paranoid she may be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - hi, I need some advice as I feel paranoid and depressed at the moment. I am in a LDR with my wife of 5.5 years... we've been living apart for the past 2.5 years. She's been recently very cold to me... never says anything nice or writes nice emai...

Because we live 50 miles apart I only see him weekends but he never seems to want sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - HELP!! I'm a 31 year old woman driving myself MAD!! I've been with my fella for 8 months now and we live 50 miles apart so see each other most weekends... my sex drive is way high and all I want to do is *well-you know* when we get time together, ...

What do I do and am I being taken advantage of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a female who is currently in a lesbian relationship for over a year. My partner and I reunited after a 7 year departure, excluding any form of communication/contact. Now that she and I are back together… we have mutual understandings, that ...

We fight a lot lately, so how do we get this resolved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I are in a long distance relationship; and I am planning to move in by the middle of May. The problem is that we've been fighting for a lot of time now. We fight, we reconcile, then we fight again. Our fight is about anything, we seem ...

Want to do a vid for Army b/f -- how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend deployed to Iraq, since he has been gone, he as been asking me for nude photos and a video. I have no problem in taking the pictures for him! My biggest problem is doing the video. How do I do one without looking like a ...

In love - long distance relationship she's not... maybe...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 April 2009 (?) - When you're in love with someone and know they're not in love with you, what do you do then? I've fallen for her..(we are in a non commited long distance relationship). I fell in love with her over the years of knowing her but I know she is not ...

Should I go and visit my online b/f in the USA?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - i meet my online boyfriend 2 years and half ago. untill now we are still regularly communicating. chatting, texting but he doesnt call me cos he always worry about his phone bill. i insist him to come and visit so we could meet but he always want...

I told her how I felt, and she is shocked. Any advice?

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19 April 2009 (M) - I often go to the same region of Spain for holidays,i know people there,2 years ago i met an amazing English lady there, we embark on a mad 6 months relationship,it moved very fast,then suddenly without any warning she ended it,said it had no futu...

He's away at school -- normal to question my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - is it normal to have high and low feelings for my boyfriend while he is away at school?...

Am I over-reacting in my current (LDR) situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Well my question is if im overreacting in my current situation? I'm in a long distance relationship and at first my girlfriend didn't trust me much. She finally started to trust me but know i have doubts about her being fateful. Recently my girl...

I keep craving attention and flirting all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi all! My problem is that i cant stop flirting with men. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years in a long distance relationship-i have always been faithful and would never cheat on him. Lately though i just want to keep flirting with other...

So close yet so far away! Do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5487 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I have this friend with whom i chat with on facebook since he is abroad.the problem is i really used to like him before he moved but i didnt tell him because i never knew he would go so far away.i really like him.am not sure if i should tell him ...

How do I survive the next two months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been going away during the week to school for the past two months. He drives three hours sunday night and comes back friday nights. It was only supposed to be for two months and I was so excited that he would be home at the end of ...

Loveless...split family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Dear readers, To cut a long story short, and without going into personal detail or circumstance. Is there anybody whom has lived apart from their partners for years on end and only get together may be 8 days a year... A phone call once a day to di...

I love my ex but would like to date this other guy too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I'm an 18 year old female and I have never been so confused in my life. A few months ago, I dated a guy online, a friend of a friend that goes to school here. The problem was that it was a long distance relationship. He broke up with me about a ...

He says he loves me, but only texts and calls me when I contact him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - i have a problem with the father of my kid.we been together for 4 years now but he says he loves me but the problem is he doesn call or sms me,he only cals wen i sms him first or give a miscal.we don't stay together, this is actualy a distance rela...

Falling for a guy in the Army- tips on how to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Okay, i missed my first few classes to do this... so im really hoping i will get some responses and feed back. Here is my story. So my cousin is in the national guard and he went off onto that 16 week training after boot camp. There he met a guy ...

How can I know if he is still feeling the same for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for the last four months. After long search and many unsuccessful ones, I believed I have found my compatible match. He is from Italy and I'm from Malaysia. We are both in our early 40s and desire for a serious ...

What are the sort of signs she'd be giving me if she liked me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - It sounds really silly but here goes. There is this girl I think I love, we are friends but live in different states and speak every single day be it online or over the phone, we used to live in the same town but she moved away... we've been seeing ...

Do you think I ever have a chance with her being my real girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I feel really guilty. 2 months ago I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who claimed he loved me. The problem was I hadn't seen him for a long long time and I cant fall in love with someone over such a long distance. I really liked him...

Is he making me depressed too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I asked this question before but I think I need to go into more detail. I met this guy online about a year ago and we have talked every day since then, I really like him a lot but he lives in a diffrent state. We have never met in person and I'm ...

Longing for the love I once had and want to have a family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone,I have a boyfriend who I have been with from I was 14,but when I turn 16 I was on a plane to the us. I was so said and hurt for leaving him down there and I always remember the last time I saw him he was crying so much. I came up here...

Is my girlfriend being unfair by not forgiving me my mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a relationship for eight months. I love my girlfriend but, alas, I've made some stupid mistakes. Considering that our relationship is long-distance, it's been difficult on me as I'm a guy and had recently lost my virginity (to my...

I'm back..why doesn't he make any effort to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for around 6 months now. We had a great first 4 months, then I had to move to another part of the country. We've taken things long distance for the last 2. What confuses me now is that I'm back for a few weeks, and he ha...

Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never ...

I want to move to where my g/f will be studying, 300 miles away. How do I go about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey I am 18 and life in Northwest England i currently work in a bar and have recently finished an IT course, my Girlfriend wants to go to uni this September in Plymouth which is something like 200-300 miles away and i fear that we wont be able ...

We're moving in together soon but I don't trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I can't trust my LD bf as much as I try. Is it me? or the relationship? The problem arrived when I caught him lying to me on several occasions. The most recent was a girl with whom he was flirting with and exchanging txt messages. I saw the ...