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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Why put forth all of the effort to just change his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - About a year ago i dated this boy for about a year, we were both 17 at the time. I broke up with him during the exams because we were both really stressed out and werent getting along. Neither of us got over it for a long time, we havent seen each ...

Met an amazing guy in a foreign country, now I'm depressed that I can't see him again until February. Please advise.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - ok guys i need help - although i dunno if there is a solution! ok, i was with my boyf for 3 yrs and we broke up - on friendly terms. just before we ended, i was in brazil and met this amazing guy. we were with eachother for only 3 days but swapped ...

He use to date my best friend and now he is asking me out. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - there us a guy who use to date my ex-bestfriend know is asking me out. his saying he should have ask me instead of my former bestfriend but i don't want tobenore than a friend to him. what shouldi do i don't want to lose our friendship and i don't ...

I currently live with my dad but I want to live with my mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I am 13. I lived with my dad for a long time now about 8 years with my younger brothers. I now want to live with my mom, but I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings. What do I do?...

What can I do to make this night really special for us both??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - i met a man over the internet a year and a half ago. we hit it off really well and i now live with him in australia. today is our one year anniversary of the day that i came here and i wanted to do something really special for him but i dont have ...

Should I tell this guy I like him even though he doesn't feel the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 62 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I really, really like this guy I met a year ago in a meeting. He then had to move away, but I manage to contact him by email. Since then, we've being in touch by email and have become friends, sharing thoughts, updating on stuff happening around ...

He says he wants to be with me but won't leave his mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. he is 27, and im 18. Im looking for a job now ive left college because i want some independance and my own place to live- hopefully with my boyfriend. He isnt on a very good wage in his ...

I'm falling for someone who is Transgendered....from female to male...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi! So...this is complicated. I will try to condense it some to make it more readable. I was engaged to a guy, who after 3 years told me he wanted to be a woman. I cut off the relationship as I just couldn't deal with him wearing my clothes and such...

Why did my ex contact me for no reason? Was she thinking of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - so i live in the states for univeristy, and on the last day of exams my ex decided to text me for no reason other than to ask me how i was, and how the semester ended. i replied with a cold good and im getting ready to go back home, and then she ...

Please help me I really need advice on whether I should stick around for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 63 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Right the problem is my best mate told me she loves me and I feel the same way, I have done for a long time. I really opened up to her and told her how I felt. But she has moved now and is three hours away, she says she feels the same but the other ...

Should I keep in touch with this older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 63 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - i went on holiday about 4 weeks ago and met a guy there who was on the entertainment team, i really liked him and he was such a nice person, about a week after i had come back off holiday he text me and told me he liked me and that he didn't tell me ...

Any advice on how to play this situation??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Any advice for how to play this - I haven't seen my boyfriend for 8 months. I am due to fly out to him in 3 weeks and we have had an argument (not the first time as the distance has taken its toll) but he has said not to bother coming he is not ...

He's moving away, should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend who live in the same state as me but different city. He use to live near me, and we been together for 3 months, and then he moved. i want to know if i should stay with him even those he is known for cheating on his girlfriends. ...

Should I just leave him be, or try and work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I am in need of words of wisdom and encouragement from an aunt or uncle. I'm sorry, but I'm kind of a longwinded typer.. My long distance boyfriend (he's in school, only 4 hours away, not a problem and its only for a year) and I broke up b/c bas...

Does she want me? She says such contradictory things! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - I met this woman back in February by chance and we hit it off. We live 5 hours apart and the distance made it difficult. We decided to back off and when we see each other the sparks just fly. I am moving there in a month and now she says she doesn't ...

Should I congratulate him for his promotion or wait till he tells me about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I've just found out from other source that the guy I like had just being promoted in his job. He's on a business trip right now, so I guess he's being told of his promotion. I really like but unfortunately I gotta admit he's not that into me , at ...

Surely if he were so in love with me he'd make that 2 hour drive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - met a guy in March, he lives far away bout 2 hour drive. Well he is my friends cousin. We started dating and he came to see me a few weekends and became very serious very soon. He said he wanted to marry me, knew he felt that way and started ...

I am moving and leaving a great girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are having a good relationship, minimal fights, general fun, and happieness, I couldn't ask for more. The only problem is, I'm moving to Iowa at the end of august (we live in WI). Any advice? I'm at a loss....

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months... Any suggestions on how to make this time go a bit faster and better for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world to work for a few months. Where he is gone is pretty remote so he will only be able to ring me maybe once a week. I'm feeling very down about this, he only left yesterday..I am desperatley ...

How do I choose and who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Please help me. I have a boyfriend of 4 years who i am in a long distance relationship with, although we do see each other at least twice a week and talk everyday. he is willing to give up everything and sell to move to where i am and buy a hous...

1 year on since heartbreak, and I haven't yet found anybody... Should I be worried, and how can I feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 66 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. Well, here I am, one day before the first anniversary of the day that my first love broke my heart. And I don't really know how to feel. Our relationship was long distance, lasted 2 years and we met up 13 times over that course of ...

I just know that he's "the one" but I don't know how to make him see that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - What do you do if you love your best friend, and you know in your heart that he's meant for you, but he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend that he loves and thinks of you only as a best friend? I'm going crazy because my friend is so ...

I'm not willing to become a hermit because of my mother's own problems. Please help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - I posted a week ago about how I had been struggling to move on with my life after being betrayed by my friends in the past -- best friend started dating my ex two weeks after the break-up when I was very depressed, then both were malicious to me ...

We broke up but he is now asking if I will lose my virginity with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I am only 17 years old, I've dated a guy for only a month then we broke up. We kept talking for a while and he's always been honest to me, even when we broke up. Know were going to see each other and he ask me if i want to lose my virginity with ...

I feel betrayed and am not sure I can continue this relationship. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 64 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - Ok I met this lovely girl 6months ago when i was on holiday in another country. We were instantly attracted and had a holiday romance for a week. I expected nothing to come out of the relationship. Then we communicated online and she flew to my ...

This job has been my dream but I don't want to move away, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

24 June 2008 (M) - I'm 16 and going into college for 2 years to study computer programing/website design building. i was having a look at an online game i play sometimes at jobs that they have going. It is really good pay as it's £15k a month. the only problem ...

I'm going to college away from my b/f, will we make it? I'm scared one of us will find someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. In august i will be going to college and my boyfriend is in his last year of High School. I am scared of going to school away from him. I am partly scared if one of us will find someone else. I know...

My sex life lacks passion, should I stay with my BF that I DO love or keep in contact with the other man who made me feel so special...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I went away for the weekend with a group of friends to Ireland. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, who I love very much. Our sex life hasn't been very good for the last 1.5 years, he doesn't initiate things very often and only makes an ...

He doesn't want to commit due to emotional issues...how do I know if he's seeing someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I've been kinda seeing this guy. We're not serious or anything because we live far away from each other but we constantly e-mail each other and when we do see each other (maybe once or twice a month) we have a really great time together. He said ...

I want to send her a sweet message about how I feel about her, but I don't want to appear too obsessive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) - Ok, so here's my situation. Dated a girl long distance. She seemed totally into me at first, was asking me to come visit her at school even though she knew I couldn't, sending me suggestive texts. We had a few dates over the period of a couple ...

He's moving away, how will I manage without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

22 June 2008 (F) - i and my bf be together just for few months...i met him in college he was my classmate. actually that time i already has bf but that time my relationship not good anymore and i decide to break up with my ex bf. now i have relationship with that guy ...

Is it unreasonable to ask him to wait 6 months for me knowing that it will decrease his chances of getting a good job placement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - Hi guys, My boyfriend and I started going out knowing full well that he wants to move to the other side of the country at the end of the year. He has been studying for 5 years for his degree and wants to move to a country town to start his career...

Paranoid teen seeks help to trust boyfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - how can i trust my 22 year old bf when i am not around him i know i can kinda trust him but i am not sure he has told me he loves me and want to marry me and buys me gifts none stop offering to pay for everything i am fine with that but he lives an ...

Tempted to stray now my Bf is far away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - I'm very much in love with my bf. We have been in a long distance relationship for about almost a month and a half, and before that we were practically living together. I just recently met a guy who i think i might have a crush on. I'm not going to ...

Older guy and a younger woman on a rebound...can it work when their families are in different countries??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - Last year I started chatting to a man 7 years younger with the intention of friendship. He was distraught with his wife leaving for someone else, and I had left my husband so basically we hung out together, cried together etc. and we found that time ...

Any phone conversation tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - What are some good topics to talk about over the phone with your lover?...

Was this long distance relationship a fantasy and a farce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - I am gutted as my long ditance g\f broke with me but friends say it was a farce. What do you guys think? * In jan 2007 I had 10 days with a girl in NZ, full of passion and affection. I am from UK * Between Jan 07 and April 07 we email and ph...

I can't take it anymore, my ex won't stop calling and it's messing with my head!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - So I took everyone's advice on here and stopped calling my EX. He moved across country and didn't want to be with me--Fine. I'm learning to accept it. Now comes the fun part---he won't stop calling me. He called me on Saturday, twice on Sunday,...

How do other couples work through a long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - As I sit here typing this, I think of how ironic it is that my boyfriend and I, 25 km from each other, would have to endure a long distance relationship. However, yesterday I was informed of his plans to travel to the other side of the world for 5 ...

Long-distance confusion... I feel like I'm settling for being second-best, should I walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I met this woman almost a year ago thru work. We live in diff countries. She came to visit here in the US and stayed for a week. Amazing sex, conversation, etc, we got along fantastic. She came to visit for 2 more weeks and another amazing visit. ...

I told her I fought with depression in the past, now she does not want to see me anymore! Is she thinking about us or really ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this girl for 2 months. At the moment we are in differnt cities about 1hr flight apart. A couple of weeks ago during a weekend visit to her, we were discussing our past experiences where I mentioned that a couple of...

I am so confused and upset, perhaps being a fool, can anybody please help me out here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I have been friends with this girl for around two months and talked every day online or by text or in person. I wanted to be more than friends but she had a boyfriend and never wanted to lose her as a friend, so was happy to be friends. I found out ...

Help! We're across the country from him, we're friends, but I want to tell him might mess that up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Ok, So of course.. there is this guy i like.. we dated on and off for about a year... (mostly on if your wondering). and we broke up like five months ago.. i was dating another guy and he was dating another girl. well me and him remained friends and ...

I need help trying to deal with my love and my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Dear All, I had put the question relate to this ( May 31 2008 ), I have long distance relationship and we come from different country … I have problem with my family about my sons that they did not allow me to bring my sons with me to US ( now , I ...

Ex girlfriend keeps calling when I back off for a few weeks, am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

17 June 2008 (M) - Can you guys pls help My G\F dumped me 3 months and said let be friends. I agreed. I have tried not to chase her but every 2 or weeks she initiates contact to say hi and catch up. Then I don't call her and 2 weeks later the same again Am i re...

I'm hurt now and confused about my boyfriend, does he really care and love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend go to dubai bcoz of him family, i love him so much... i care about him family i always help i dont care how mauch i spend money to help them.. but how can i make sure my bf is he really love me or he just treat me nice bcoz he need me ...

Boyfriend unsupportive during miscarriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - ok please answer me. Am i being unreasonable? 2 days ago i had a miscarriage, now i was trying to have a baby and i didn't even know i was pregnant but i found that i was extrememly upset and vunerable. i'm home from university for the sum...

Is he building a friendship or looking for more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) - I met a guy through a male friend 3years ago.he stays in another part of the country.he's visited me twice. ever since then,we ve been communicating but d communication reduce 4 a while.but recently,he often calls me durin d day 2 ask about my ...

How many people actually stay with their high school lovers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

16 June 2008 (F) - i have a very straight foward question. Basically does anybody here think that somebody my age (18)can actually keep with their bf from school? im out of school both of us are at uni....what are the chances of it happening? how many people do u know ...

I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

16 June 2008 (F) - OK so I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage of almost 2 years. My husband is Iraq and I recently brought my sister to live with me for a couple of reasons but the main reason was to help her get her life together. I stressed to my ...