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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I want him back, but I don't want to go back to somebody that is just going to hurt me like that again. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello! I am having major heart anxiety and I do not know what to do. I have been dating and been hopelessly in love with a guy since the beginning of my junior year in high school. We were together for almost two years, but about seven months a...

I've never taken a guy on a date, what should I plan to do in London when he comes to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I'm 20 years old and I live in London, and there's a guy that I'm talking to who's 21 and he lives in Leicester, just over 100 miles away from me. I met him when I was in Leicester visiting my friends at their uni...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

I love my husband but he loves his money and freedom more than he loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My ques: myself and my husband got married 12 years back. We have 2 daughters. I love my husband more than my life. He 2 loves me. But he a very practical person. He is away from me for 9 months due to his work in ship. But when he is near to me he ...

I feel lost in this new place and miss my Bf. My Mom's new Bf tells me what to do all the time. If I returned home I'd have new problems. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, just feeling a little lost and could use some help. About 6 weeks ago I decided to move interstate, as my mum lives up here and I wanted to try something new. I got myself a full-time job, and borrowed $5000 off my mum to buy a car....

My LDR wants sexy pictures from me. But I have put on weight. I've tried sending him fake pictures.What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. He is in the marines in one state, while I am in another state. We've hung out a lot before he left, and I was pretty thin then. I have Gained some weight since ive last seen him. He asks...

My first partner didn't enjoy the sex -- how can I compete with experienced guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

21 February 2013 (M) - I've been a relationship with a woman I met online for more than a year. We live thousands of miles apart but we've had two visits. The first visit, we weren't sure where we were going with our relationship, but we ended up having sex the first day ...

Is my girlfriend being unfair? She's allowed to be with male friends late at night but I'm not allowed to be out with girl friends late???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

19 February 2013 (M) - long distance for the most part but have the goal ultimately of living together. We visit multiple times a year for months at a time as well. I love this girl more than words could ever describe. I just need some opinions. My girlfriend is a very ...

No matter how much we talk about it, my boyfriend keeps making the same mistakes over and over again! I can' t take it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I'm not sure what to do in this situation. My fiance and I have been together 3 years. Currently, we're in an LDR, but that's only been for the past couple of months. I have a problem that he keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. I ...

Extreme loneliness from a sudden long-distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been having an extremely difficult week, and I guess I just need reassurance that it does get better, and maybe some new tips for very long distance relationships. My boyfriend and best friend, whom I have lived with for almos...

Am I cheating? Can I have a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

19 February 2013 (F) - I Moved to a new city, a new school and really started liking this guy who is a very nice loving guy. we told each other our feelings and made out a couple of times, but i told him i don't want a relationship now as we need to study really hard. ...

Should I keep him in my life as a friend knowing he'll never love me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

18 February 2013 (F) - I'm seventeen and I've been in love with a guy for over two years. When I was in the 9th grade, we dated for pretty much the entire year...until he broke up with me. Even though we were young, we knew that we loved each other. He moved away just a ...

Is he messaging me because he is bored? Or is there more to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

17 February 2013 (F) - J and I were friends for 2-3 years. He was moving out of town so we met up, and had a fantastic 13hrs together, unexpectedly. Unfortunately he had a gf and I had a bf and he was moving away. Soon after that I broke up with my bf, and though he was ...

He's upset with the gift I gave him -- even complained on lack of gift wrap??? Explain it to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

16 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have a long distance friend that lives in Germany that I've known for almost 3 years. I'm 25 and he's 23.5. I feel we like each other a little more than friends but each have our own lives, etc. And I don't see them collidi...

Why was I ignored on Valentine's Day?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

16 February 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I currently having a long distance relationship , it transitioned to long distance only a few months ago . There is a guy where she lives that she sees often at the gym and i know they text often . Yesterday valentines day she ...

He has stopped telling me he loves me and he misses me. How do I save my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

15 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship because I'm away for school. Up until recently, our relationship has been pretty amazing despite the distance. We've had our fair share of disagreements, but they've never been serious and we ...

My gf forgot valentines day, should I break up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 February 2013 (M) - its valentines day. long story short. im in a ldr with a girl because of her school but we see each other often. im affectionate, romantic, gentleman kind of guy and she is not much affectionate, she never let her guard down, she is cold as a snow ...

I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

14 February 2013 (F) - I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me....

Wanting to end the distance in an LDR but worry being apart for the whole summer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

13 February 2013 (F) - So here goes : I've been seeing this guy since september 2011. In December of the same year he moved to the US, and I currently live in Canada. We've been dating ever since and the distance was not a problem up until lately. He's had financial ...

Girlfriend says a break will benefit both of us but I don't agree!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

13 February 2013 (M) - I didn't think I would have to come here to find some insight, but I am just losing my mind and need some info/opinions from strangers because usually thats advice that is non-biased and you can take on. Well make a long story short...heres th...

LDR--is it normal for him to masturbate every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

12 February 2013 (F) - My fiance and I are on a long distance relationship due to work. We see each other twice o thrice a month (on weekends). My concern's that he masturbates almost every day ( I know because he sends me pics and we talk about everything in our ...

My long distance boyfriend of 7 years hasn't given me a promise ring yet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

10 February 2013 (F) - Hello all! Let's see if I can sum this up and make it short and sweet and to the point. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 7 years. I am ready to take the relationship to the next step. Unfortuntely, because of financial ...

Two weeks ago I asked my BF for a break, but he is pushing me to end the break. He's so controlling.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - If you were in my situation, what would you do? Long story short, I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 8 years. The first 2 years in our relationship were amazing, he was loving, caring and very sweet. We talked about moving in ...

He was maintaining a relationship with his ex-girlfriend on and off even while we were a couple. Do I confront him or forget him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

9 February 2013 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I post this because I seek your advice on what I should do. Perhaps this posting is a little unnecessary, because in my mind, I think I already know the answer. I met my boyfriend of one and a half years at work in New Zealan...

Does it sound like we are right for each other? Is it going to get better between us when I go home again in 9 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

8 February 2013 (F) - I have trouble understanding where my long-term relationship is going and need some advice. I'll start from the beginning, but sorry in advance for the long tale. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years in one month. I was 17, he was ...

Is it time to break-up? Why am I holding on to someone who doesn't want the same things as I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

6 February 2013 (M) - I really need some outside perspective on my issue, so here it goes... First of all, I think you should know that I'm the type of guy that always has a girlfriend. I'm also the type of guy that loves to show my affection a lot, through little s...

My experience of an LDR has been flawed by his need for a FWB as well. I refused the latter. Can LDR partners stay faithful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - can people mix up long distance friends with benefits relationship with a committed faithful long distance relationship meaning? I was in a long distance relationship and thought he was faithful for the year prior to my trip to meet him. He ke...

Being A Good Agony Aunt or Uncle

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

6 February 2013 (F) - I have been reading comments and feedback from agony aunts and uncles to queries and questions posted by OPs. Some of the advice, opinions, comments and feedback are encouraging, motivating and insightful But nonetheless many are very negative, j...

Am I with him for the wrong reasons? We are in a LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

5 February 2013 (F) - I have been dating my long distance boyfriend , X, for 3 1/2 years now but im afraid im with him for the wrong reasons. He lives in one place, and i live in a state far away. Ive met his parents, hes met mine and its gone really well. His parents ...

Since we took the distance out of the relationship he's been treating me badly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - I was in LDR for past 3 with my bf and since I came back my bf is acting weirdly. He is treating me like shit all the time, forgets to call me even for a week. Never goes out with me anymore, doesn't want to break up also. What should I do, pls help ...

Why am I not feeling stronger but worse now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - I'm 18 and I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend . He is 34 . We are both very happy . We only met for the first time Saturday and had an online relationship previous to this . Every night for three months solid we had 3 hour phones ...

What caused him to change his mind so dramatically? I can't figure it out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - Hey guys, this is basically a question about long distance relationships. The one I was in has already ended but I am just desperate for an outsider’s opinion on this because my friends and family are too close to the situation. I play in a ba...

Parents and relatives control my life. Would I be a bad daughter if I left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

4 February 2013 (F) - Hi guys, This will be long, so please bear with me. I am a 19 year old Asian Australian. All my life, my parents (especially mum) have restricted me from doing much (this includes going out with a guy friend for coffee, going out, parties..etc). S...

Boyfriend broke up with me because of my depression and distance. Should I wait to see if he'll come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4099 days ago

3 February 2013 (F) - My ex and I were at school together in Norway when we were seven. Years later due to the wonders of facebook, we got in contact again. We found out we both loved hill walking, etc…so a couple of summers later we went on a walking holiday in Norway ...

Is the right man worth waiting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4098 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - Dear cupid... I met this wonderful guy in Durban almost a year ago, and we've been chatting alot..and recently he had to go work on this cruise ship. Before he went away he came all the way to Pretoria to see me before he goes away. We had such a...

What to do about my Bf's attitude change towards me due to my distress at a possiblity that we could have become a LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone... I'm having a little bit of trouble here, I've been in a relationship with this great guy for a little more that 3 years, and we've haad our ups and down but everything got better and we grew up together as a couple, we even ...

I think I'm developing feelings for this online guy. How to handle this? He tells me lots about him but never asks much about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4100 days ago

2 February 2013 (F) - I "think" I am developing feelings for a guy online.. There's obviously a few issues with that other than the very obvious one of it been an "online" friendship but also he lives in America... I again think the feeling is mutual but have no idea ...