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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

We've been rather distant recently, I'm worried I might lose her!

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30 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone I'm new to this whole asking questions about relationships and stuff kind of. But yeah anyway there's this girl I met online from las vegas and I'm from chicago. we met while I was in highschool my freshman year and we've been frien...

How am I supposed to act when I've traveled 1,200 miles just to get rejected?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Well I met this girl on facebook and we started chatting casually. We were truely interested in each other. We talked and texted on the phone with alot of pictures for a couple months and so I decided to make the trip over this thanksgiving holiday ...

I cant stand the idea of not being with him, but then again I know deep down it is the right thing to end it.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a confused state. I've been with this guy for two years. Our relationship has been far from fairy tale, but we made each other happy. So we've been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months. Its been really hard. He questio...

Ladies, what turns you on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend just got back from California and I kind of wanted to make her feel good about being back. i also wanted to turn a small welcome back kiss, into... something more. I guess I'm asking for a list of things that would turn you on......

Long distance relationship advice sought...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I really need some advice about my LDR. My bf is coming back for a month at xmas (he works in south America and i live in the UK) but only wants to see me for about a week. I don't want to be unreasonable cos I know he has to see his friends and ...

How do I end my long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I been dating my bf for almost two years, but it isn't the same anymore, our relationship has lost the spark, but it was all his fault, i love him, but not in love with him anymore, because he used to compliment me and say sweet stuff to me and now ...

How should I tell my parents about my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for about 4 going on 5 years now and we've been good friends before we even started dating but I've never told my parents. Most of our relationship has been long distance and my parents have never met him before (he ...

I don't want someone who pulls away and destroys my confidence!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Hi - I posted here many times about this guy so I wanted to give the update on the situation. I am confused and kind of sad so I would like to have your opinions. Quick background: We started this like ten months ago. It is a long distance thing. ...

Family member hates my boyfriend, what do I do? I don't want to lose him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been going out for almost a year now and one particular family member of mines does not want us to be together cuz she said he is a bad person but he never treats me bad... despite that we live far from each other but i love ...

Tired of the games in this LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - how can i fix my relationship? i am in a LDR with a guy and he flirts a lot. i am tired of it and i am tempted to cheat to get rid of him. we love each other but i am tired of games. please help me do what is best for me...

Should I fight for a LDR or be single at uni?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Hi All, Okay, so the situation I'm in. I'm in a relationship with a gorgeous, successful 25 year old man who lives back home in London. He's perfect for me and I can see us making a life for eachother, we have the same goals and ideals. He makes...

Is he cheating in our LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - My friend and I have been exclusively dating in a long distance relationship for the past four months. We've been close friends for the past 10 years. Since the drive is only two hours, we've been able to see each other most of the time every ...

I can't drive yet and he doesn't have his license, so how do we see each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We live about 20 minutes apart. We live in the same district, but different towns. Lately, our arguments have mainly been about seeing each other. Unfortunately, i can't drive yet, and he doesn't have his ...

The Atlantic Ocean is the only thing keeping us apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - Is it possible to have strong feelings for someone you've only met once? I'm in a tough situation and need your advice. I went to Vegas about a month ago now and on the last night there I met guy. We hit it off right away and was head over heels for ...

My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it ...

I like him so much but he's leaving me till last!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - since august ive been talking to a guy online. hes 6 years older than me and hes turkish, lives in turkey. he is so lovely! and i find him so attractive. we would speak online every night and see eachother on webcam, nothing wrong, just faces as hes ...

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to be saying these things? Or is he crazy to want to come and meet me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - no body replied to my question so i have to post it again.plzzzzz reply. Im in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,...

Is my boyfriend just crazy to meet me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - m in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,so its not easy to spend so much time with my bf.when i told this to my bf,he ...

Moved to Ireland t/b/w long-term, long distance bf, home sick, no job, no friends, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Soo... I've got myself in a bit of a pickle here. I've had a long distance boyfriend for a long time (about 2-3 years), and don't get me wrong, this isn't about him, he's wonderful. The problem is that I moved over to, of all countries Ireland ...

I love her but we have very different opinions on important issues!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl from a little over a month now. We connected extremely fast at the beginning and things were great for several weeks. As I got to know her, however, I found out things that I'm not sure if I can deal with on a long term ...

He might be moving away so I am trying to distance myself, but he is still calling me baby!

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24 November 2010 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we have been spending time together at least once or twice a week. It is hard for both of us since I work 12 hr night shifts and he works M-F, and sometimes I work weekends. So we see each other when ...

Star-crossed lovers.........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4903 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - ~ Long story short...My ex and I have an intense unexplainabe bond. Our history is bizarre. From point one, we were two bulls in a china cabinet. We've never been intimate. We are familiar with each other...but...wee don't know each other. We h...

Am I holding out for a reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I had a relationship with this guy over the summer that ended do to the distance between us but we still talk and get along really well. I guess you could say we still act like boyfriend and girlfriend just without thte title. When ever we see each ...

I just need help to deal with my frustrations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man (long distance) for about a year now. It started out as an online relationship, but we have met plenty of times, and he is currently working on saving money (as am I) so that we can move in together in the future. Now, we ...

First boy that I've ever loved, but I think I'm gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Hi, My problem is this. My boyfriend lives in England whereas I live in Ireland. I met him when I was there on holiday and he's the first boy I've ever loved. I love him deeply and we have plans to see each other soon. The only thing is. I alwa...

What is my next move?

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23 November 2010 (M) - Hi, Have posted another couple questions anonymously but hoping this will be my last. Quick back story- Went out with ex LD for 3 months. Broke up 3 weeks ago, she told me it was because we werent comfortable in person/i didnt try hard enough with...

She I ask for her back at her housewarming party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We had been together three years and were very close - being each other's first loves. I decided to end it as I was moving town for a year (2 hours away) and was thinking I'm too young to be in somethingthis ...

How can we grow closer to each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - hi im in a LDR with my bf for almost one year i cant say that i love him and he loves me normally like the other couples do , our love story is unique and im so happy because im living in it though we love each other strongly, we still have ...

What should I do? Should I move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 3 years.recently my boyfriend started behaving wierd he never pick up my calls, stood me up on several dates when i went to see him.we are in a long distance relationship and when i suggested we break up,he told me he ...

My friend's in a LDR but she had anal sex with a stranger!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - hello everyone. a friend of mine has a question. she is in a long distance relationship. she didn't want to go out and have vaginal sex with a stranger so instead she had anal sex with a condom. it didn't mean anything so she is wondering if she ...

My married long distance friend is ignoring me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts, I need your advice. I have been on and off long distance friends with a now married man for 10 years. We first met in an internet dating chatroom when he split as a bf from his now sife of 5 years. At that time we discussed aspects ...

Would this be considered cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me ...

How do you end a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4904 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I've been fighting with my at-home boyfriend like cats and dogs for a week now, and i really don't think i want to be with him anymore. Like he's coming to visit tomorrow for ten days and I really don't want him too. But how do i end it?? he's a ...

Should we stay together in an LDR that has no end in sight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a 5 year relationship. I'm 33 he's 28. It's also been LDR for the last 2 years. I'm in grad school he has his own business. We get a long really great when we're together (about every 6 weeks) and really love each other. There are no plans to ...

I want her to realize what she has done! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Hello everyone! My gf and I have been in a relationship for almost 2 yrs now. We're both 21 and love each other a lot and have a very good understanding and completely trust each other blindly. We have been having a long distance relation...

After this heart-wrenching break I wonder if I can ever love again

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Well here's my sad story. My ex girlfriend ended things with me about 2 months ago and she has been with a new guy for about the same time as well. She basically left me and started dating this new guy about a week after, which she met while still ...

Long Distance help please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I am currently in a long distance relationship. My girlfriend and I dated for over a year in college then moved pretty far away upon graduating (~8 hour flight). We decided to try the whole long distance thing since we really love each other, and ...

Long Distance - Not Allowed - Relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - So I had a very serious relationship last year and it ended in July 16, 2010. After my ex and I broke up we didn't talk for awhile, and he got a new girlfriend and everything and he started talking to me again and he still had strong feelings for ...

Has he lost interest, moved on, what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I'm currently in a long distance relationship and we've been apart for the past month but have lived together for four months proceeding him leaving and were a couple. He's gone to the other side of the country for four months so that he can renew ...

I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. Should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. I am in a long distance relationship with an older man who has done it all and been there but I have no experience and I feel like I am missing out on plenty of things. I need ...

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open I'm worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy just over 2 months now, We met through online dating and met up with each others 4 times now. He lives 1 hour 30 mins away from me and have not had any exclusive conversation. We seemed to be getting along well and we were ...

Are they being bad parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I have a friend who is 23 and lives in south USA. She is married and has two kids; a girl who is almost 2 and a bog who is 1. She is a stay at home mum and her ex druggie husband works full time in mcdonalds. However she often sends the kids ove...

Met first love during exchange overseas, how can we get over each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I met my ex-bf during exchange in Europe, we were each others' first serious love. The time when we were together was amazing. But since we are from countries that are half the globe apart, we had no choice but to break up after our exchange. It's...

Do relationships work if you're not fully compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - he says we aren't compatible. we've been dating for over a year now, and he moved away a few months ago, so currently in a long distance relationship. When we first started dating, we had a lot to talk about, mostly because we were getting to know ...

He's a closed book.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Hello there. I'm I'm a LRD. I love it a lot. But lately he's been a closed book. well actually, he has always been. I've never really noticed it much till now, and i'm not sure how to deal with it. I'm always throwing myself at him, and he is just ...

We traded in a LDR for FWBs when we come home on breaks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - so i began seeing this guy over the summer and he decided we shouldnt so long distance after about 2-3 months of dating and i agreed. However i know we are no longer gf and bf he asked to be friends with benefits when i come home on my breaks and ...

Need critique on my love letter!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

18 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I have been talking with a good friend of mine for a few weeks. We met about 3-4 years ago in college, where we hung out amongst a few friends for a couple of years. It was about half way through that I developed a crush on her, but she had...

Insecure about my LDR!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Hi to you all! This is my first time in this website but I would like very much to receive your suggestions. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and we have our weeding booked for 9.7.2011. ...

He inquired about me, does that mean he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - There is a guy in my class who I think is really, really cute. I have thought this from day 1 (When the year started). Now, I don't have the best self esteem so I didn't even bother talking to him or anything as I didn't think I had a chance in ...

Why am I feeling so sad about this amazing holiday?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Hey all, I know this is going to sound a bit silly or immature, but.. I'm leaving my partner next week to go to new Zealand for 3 weeks. This has been booked for just over a year and we got together just under a year ago, unfortunately du...