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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I feel so lost and don't know what to do is he acting different because his friend is there or is it because he is actually leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - So, my boyfriend of two and a half years is in the military and we have a long distance relationship. We had relationship problems before because we have been apart for one year and we both have trust issues. Recently, he has met a friend and I am s...

I cant continue this LDR but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi After ten months of a long distance relationship, I can't go on. I love her, love my time with her, but the relationship model is all wrong, it's not working. We have just done the "time to think" thing, I know we are finished, so does she, we ...

How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...

When or if do I give up and walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours...

Wife in Girl's weekend . Do they have to call their husbands?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - My wife spent the weekend with her friends, she just called me on Saturday night for one minute saying that your cellphone was working in the area and she was using her regular cell phone.Sunday she didn't call me at all( she could find a to place ...

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...

Help me, what should I do with this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i m in LDR for the last three years..... we deeply madly inlove with eachother.... sumthing happened 2 years ago that created lots n lots of troubles for both of us ... and eventually we had to get departed cuz NOW our families would nt let us get ...

The future holds... holds what for us? I'm so conflicted and uncertain!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I feel so conflicted I'm not sure where to start, I'm in a relationship with a girl I'm certain could be the love of my life, we love eachother so much, we talk about anything, we're happy, but there's one thing we can't figure out: the future....

I'm wondering if this is all for nothing!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and I thought we were doing okay. My husband's has issues with the way I raise my children two teenage girls whom has been with us for 4 years now. He is very emotionally needy for a Soldier. I do everything around the ...

I don't like how she handles arguments!

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29 May 2011 (?) - Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ever t...

How do I end the relationship when we hardly speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - hey... everyone, i got this kind of confusion.. about my long distance relationship... am 17 and he's 21 and its been a year that we are apart.. but now i somehow feel that we need 2 end it.. but i dont know how to as we hardly speak cause he is ...

Is it far to keep me waiting? LDR woes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hello.. I guess I will start off with some background info on my LDR. This may be a little lengthy, so please bear with me :) I met this guy online. He lives in the USA, I live in Australia. I have known him since Dec 2009 and we have pretty much...

Affection from my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I'm currently in a LDR. I'm very attracted to my boyfriend, but there are periods where my feelings are very conflicted. I'm romantic by nature, and love to make him handmade presents, cards, and goofy online links and pictures related to his i...

Is this LDR guy trying to say I love you to me without actually saying it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I am involved with a guy long distance, and we have been talking for a long time. He usually tells me that he likes different things about me, but lately he has started replacing the word like with the word love and when we are online he emphasizes ...

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've brok...

Should I be with this guy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a long distance relationship since 4.5 yrs.. My bf is nice and caring but he doesnt put in the extra effort that is required in a long distance relationship. Initially i used to send him hand-made cards or few other personalised stuffs.. ...

What can I do to keep my Long distance Relationship exciting and vibrant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Hello! I am a American boy from Texas who has fallen head over heels for a darling British girl of 18 from Guernsey, UK. We are both very spontaneous and have shared a passionate love for each other since the recent start of our relationship. We...

How do I deal with being unable to see my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - i haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 months because he fell out with his family and went to other relatives for a while. we called each other every day and i think it was ok but now hes moved closer to his aunty's and he has to go on a police tag ...

I don't know if we can fix this relationship, she's very stubborn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

26 May 2011 (?) - hi. Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ev...

I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able ...

My ex-girlfriend only wants oral.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Ok so I have an ex-girlfriend, who is in her mid-20's and I am in my later 30's. We live 1,000 apart now. I was visiting the city she lives in and on her birthday we hooked up and then two days later we hooked up again. She wouldn't have se...

LDR boyfriend and I got into heated argument on the phone. Should I apologize?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I really care for this person. He only lives about 4-5 hours away and I have yet to physically meet him. He's put me through so much emotional stresses so I never felt ...

Why did he change his screen name to this girls name?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Ok my boyfriend dumped me almost 2 month ago. I was in a LDR with him for 3 years and in real life we are perfect. Absolutely amazing. Last time I saw him was January and not long after I left he became depressed. He got really bad and lost ...

Why is she so guarded now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of the past two months used to communicate everything to me, as I do with her about her, me, and us. It was the most amazing thing when we started dating to get to know this woman so openly and freely. But now she has backed off and ...

Will the day ever come for us to move in together as a family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - just a question to your great agony uncle and aunts who always helps me on here if i ever have a problem, just a thought, will i ever move in with my man of nearly 2 years, its LDR and we are fully committed see each other as often as we can, and we ...

I told him he could sleep with other girls while he was away, but it's killing me. Should I try to make it work when he gets back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I am writing this because I feel like I need an outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, I am 16, he is 19. In January, he left for China to teach for his gap year. Obviously this was going to be hard...

Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...

I feel like this LDR is making her suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Dear all, I'm in love with a beautiful and bright girl in the world, nothing makes me happier than spending another day with her, She is an insecure and sensitive lady, but that's not the point cause I love her no matter what. I need help from...

I'm going to lose him if I end things, but I don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - there's this guy i met on a penpal site last summer in July; he's from Jamaica and when we started talking; we just clicked; we had so much in common especially since my background is jamaican as well. we talked every single day for hours on the ...

Our problem don't include infidelity, but everday is agony for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergenc...

How do I move on into a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - my junior i got preg.i moved away from home had my baby boy. his father had "feelings" he said for me but was in another realationship with everyone. i wasnt going to deal with that and after everything he put me thru i lost all those feelings..well ...

LDR--is he always out of phone credits because he's talking to someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys! please I really need some help!! Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. I recently had to leave the country and now i am currently in America, while he's in Africa. First of all prom is coming up...and i get that he ...

I don't trust girls because I hook up with girls who are cheating on their boyfriends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - hey everyone, i have a small issue..actually its a biiig issue, i dont trust girls anymore, its like i really cant see myself trustin a girl in my life, im a goodlooking guy and i consider myself to be a player, im in a long distance relation...

In a long distance relationship but there's someone flirting with him - should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I've recently entered into a long-distance relationship with a chap from Britain. We're both very attracted to each other, and talk almost every day (we've known each other for a year, and have recently gotten quite close). I'm saving up to go out ...

My long distance boyfriend has changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - i m 17 in committed ldr relation since 2 years.my bf is 18. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me.at night he hardly calls. what to do so that my ...

Should I try to fix things up with my ex or stay with my new guy? Both LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) - I'm 20 years old, and I've only been in one relationship. I was with a beautiful kind boy named Y. We met online, and we were long distance. It was very difficult, but it got even more tough with my first year of college. I was busy living the mome...

B/f says leave him alone I screwed up his job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years LDR, Canada and USA. I was up there just two months ago and we are talking marriage and he asked his parents and mine for a blessing etc..I get back home and lost my job got a bit too overly bored and over ...

How long do I wait before I give up on him? He's over there going out drinking, I'm still here paying the bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - When my fiancé moved to another city for a new job we decided he would get settled and find a nice place for us to live. Then the plan was that I would leave my job here and follow him. Once there I could look for another job, during which time he ...

I don't want to get involved in his custody issues. But should I be concerned about his drinking and his custody issues if he is to be my Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4709 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a man for one year following the break up of my only other long term relationship. We don’t see each other every week because we live some distance apart. I am wondering how much I should concern myself with what, to me, is a...

Is he trying to tell me something by taking longer and longer between when he calls me on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other. Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by....

Am I making it worse by being with him now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - so, i am deeply in love with my boyfriend. i love him with all my heart, and we've been dating for a while. but my problem is, that he's moving like 7 hrs away from me,on like july 1st. and i'm not gonna be able to see him anymore. he doesnt want a ...

Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me ...

It kills me inside every time she rejects my sexual advances...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

Serious relationship question, why is he in such a rush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - i was in a brief serious relationship with a guy who I had been in contact with about a year ago. just recently we became back in touch and decided to try a serious relationship. the only things was that he didn't tell me what his backgrou...

I need advise, are we just friends or can I hope for more from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - 2 years ago I met this guy online we became friends straight away It seemed we connected really well we had almost everything in common He asked me to meet in real life and I accepted. He didn't try anything bad with me and we had a great time In ...

Is he just a friend or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I have a guy friend who lives in a diffrent country.we met 2 years ago through mutual friends.one day,he asked me to go on holiday with him and i did.we had sex n a pretty good holiday.we're apart again now, and he texts me every few days and he's ...

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys I just want to know that Ive done the right thing. I was in a sort of LDR with a guy who worked in the military. Before he went away we were kind of seeing each other but it wasnt serious. We kept in touch via facebook and texts but I know ...

My boyfriend of 2 years didnt acknowledge my birthday....am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - hi there agony aunts, may i just say, i so thank you for all your help when i post a problem on here, and here i am again, i am not sure how to start this one but here i go, i am in a relationship and its LDR well a couple of hours away, we are ...

My LDR boyfriend is not paying any attention to me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - i m in committed ldr relation since 2 years. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me. At the night he calls only if i will msg him something. he...

Broke up with my long term gf but am starting to freak out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - I've been with my gf now for 4 1\2 years, almost 5. We've always had the most amazing relationship we could have possibly imagined with plans on getting married in the near future. Thing is she moved away to california 2 years ago but she's movin ...