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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Should we give this is a more "official" feel of a relationship or will it make it worse!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6266 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I met someone while traveling through Australia last winter and we've kept in touch regularly through emails/MSN/text messaging. I tried to keep a pen-pal feel to the whole relationship, but lately I just really really miss him and I'm struggling to ...

I'm worried that while away hes just going to get used to being without me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - is there anyone who reads this in the army or navy? do the guys stay faith full to there girlfriends? my fella went away 2 months ago and hes now more relaxed and getting used to been away he doesnt really call me that much any more but trys to...

Shes asked for a divorce, But also needs money, I want her back, dont know what to do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Separated,no children,12 yr friendship,10 yr relationship,4 yr in marriage. We were best friends, we studied together for sometime. My W confides in friends, Mother and diary but never me. I was insecure,jealous,overpro...

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who ...

How much more should I give and take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the ins...

How can I balance my new job and continuing to see my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I'm thinking about taking up a job that might affect the number of times I'll be able to see my boyfriend. He lives 2 hours away from me, and we spend every weekends together since we dated 2 yrs ago. If I take on this job, I know most of my ...

We have 4 months left together before she goes to Canada to study for a few years. She has suggested seeing less of one another but I really don't know, I don't want this relationship to end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6268 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Hi everyone... My gf is going to Canada to study for a few years. We love each other very much but we arent' sure of how to keep a long-distance relationship going... She's going to Canada in Augest... We have about 4 more months left with each ...

I kissed by flatmate...but I love my boyfriend! Now my flatmate's trying to make me jealous! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I need help!!! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we are really happy together, but i moved away to uni last september and i think i fancy one of the lads i live with, we kissed but i felt so guitly coz of my boyfriend, now my flatmate keep...

My partner has been engaged 3 times in the past, he says he loves me but never talks about our "future." Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He was engaged 3 times before. First time he was in his early-mid 20s. Second time he was was in his early 30s and last time in his mid-30s. I have never brought up marriage to him. He ...

He told me he was confused about our relationship and wants to hook up with other girls, he apologised later for it but now I can't get it out of my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6269 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half now and for the past 6 months we've been having a long distance relationship, but we've managed to be able to see each other at least once a month. the other day my boyfriend called me and ...

she told me she wants to make out with another woman and it is seriously worrying me that she would want to do that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship that is fairly new (4 months). I really care about her and she has reciprocated these feelings. Things were going great up until a few weeks ago when we hit some bumps in the road - dealing with the distance and ...

Do you think he told me his true feelings when he was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - I fancied this guy for some months (we lived in different countries). and he stayed at my place for one month and went back to his country recently. During the month he stayed at my place, we spent a lot of time together. We had sex, too. ...

he lives with this girl at college, although it's purely platonic but he talks about her all the time and they're very close friends... How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6270 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Hi I am not sure if this is even a problem or all in my imagination...I have been going out with a lovely man for eight mths (we are both 20). I really love him and I know he loves me, we have a very close friendship and good sex life. However we go ...

My boyfriend of a few weeks is moving way too fast talking about marriage and kids already and it scares the shit out of me, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we ve been seeing each other for a few weeks and he doesnt live very near me and hes already talkin about marrige and having kids with me he also keeps sayin he wants me t be his last relationship and it really ...

He hates me talking to others on MSN. Why should I cut off all my friends for him? I'm not doing anything wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - hey my bf hates me tkin 2 otha ppl on msn, myspace or bebo etc, i dnt see the problem with it, but he has a big stress about it. we agreed a couple of months ago that we should only tlk 2 each other but i found out he tlked 2others so i started ...

I think my friends are being really selfish here but they say I'm the selfish one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - So once upon a time, I was head over heels in love with this guy named Danny. Then all of a sudden, his parents received new job offers, and he ended up moving to England (I'm in Florida, USA). I was heartbroken. It's been 1.5 years since we'v...

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it ...

I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) - I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's really close friends with this guy in Singapore ( she lived there for six years but now we live together in Australia) who is supposedly her "best friend". I have met the guy a few ...

We broke up and he told his friend "I was The One" now I want to go back with him but I told him no second chances. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - My Boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me in a text, it said how much he cared, but he thought trying to have relationship would hurt us in the future. He wants us to get back together after i move home(we go to different colleges, but he still ...

He's going away for army training for 6 months, what will I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I love this lad but tomorrow morning he is going in for his 6 months army training only 4 days ago he said he loves me too but since then it seems different and we arent together what can i do???? please answer!!!...

My girlfriend never wants to go out with me any more, she says she has no money yet she is always out clubbing with her friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

23 February 2007 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for 10 months. After new year all she did was go down town with her friends all the time. We live a long distance from each other and we used to spend every weekend together but latly she would rather go to the pub. Also ...

Can feelings of love come back after a couple break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

23 February 2007 (M) - do feelings come back after a couple broke up? I'm having quite a confusing time... I just broke up with this girl. Yeah, our situation all points towards the direction of "not gonna make it", so in a way, many people expected it. First, we were l...

How can I get rid of severe depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

22 February 2007 (F) - Im suffering badly with severe depression, i am in a long term long distance relationship and we have been together 1yr and 6months. ive got no friends at all accept 1 or 2 but they moved away, and i have no family, i only have my boyfriend and ...

She seems to be pushing me away, I just want to know where I stand with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

22 February 2007 (M) - Where do i stand with her? Im in a long distance relationship with a girl I really care about. We used to talk all the time about how we are feeling and how we miss each other and love each other. I have been visiting her as often as her busy sche...

My boyfriend told he's moving! We're so in love with each other! What am I going to doooo???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - Me and My Boyfriend Love Each other Hes 17 And Im 14 Nearly 15. I know people will say that we cant love at this age but your wrong. I Love Him And He Loves Me. But Yesterday He Told Me He Is Moving To Cornwall To Live With His Mum Insted Of His Dad ...

He said he has a relaxed attitude to our relationship now. What does that mean? Are we growing apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - hay, my boyfriend is in the navy and hes just gone away on a 7 month tour of the gulf. it was really hard when he first went and we both really missed each other as we have been going out for a year and we live together so we are/was very close now ...

Should I let him decide or try to persuade him to go against his parent's wishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I am feeling very lonely and depressed in a foreign country where I am in unhappy marriage to foreign national. Last year my childhood sweetheart contacted me wanting to know how things are with me. I have been in touch with him and I think I am ...

My jealousy drove him away, how can I get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I was seeing someone up until recently...when we were together, it was completely amazing, and we both agreed that we had this brilliant connection. Id had bad relationship experiences in the past, being led up the garden path and such, and I knew ...

Why can't I shake these feelings of doubt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

20 February 2007 (M) - I'm an 18 year old high school student, and I know it seems semi-juvenile for me to be acting this way, but I can't shake it, and I've tried everything. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (one year exactly in May.) and although...

My girlfriend is working abroad at the moment and I kind of resent it. Am I being selfish here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

19 February 2007 (M) - I'm a 20 year old student and I've been in a relationship for over a year and a half. I've been living with my girlfriend for 9 months. She has recently gone away for 5 months to work. I didn't want her to go. I understand why she wanted to work ...

He's moving to Australia soon, why does he have to move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6276 days ago

19 February 2007 (F) - ok so here goes me and my best friend have always had a spark, he's gotta girlfriend but she lives in oz and i recently told him i'm in love with him. he says he feels the same but he has to go as its all planned! i'm devastated and its killing me ...

I know we have no future together and I have broken it off with him but HOW do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6276 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - I'm 40yrs old and for the past 2.5yrs I have been seeing a married man whose 38, has 3 kids (10,13,17 - there abouts)and from what he has told me, happy in his marriage. This is an area that he really doesn't talk about nor wishes to discuss. We ...

My BF is away for work and is writing me explicit pornographic letters but we haven't had sex yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - BF writing me explicit porn. I'm in a new relationship, like 6-7 months now, but he's in the service far away, so we write to each other. Lately he's started giving me really, really detailed information about the size of his penis, how he is...

My GF moved to go to Uni and now she has broken up with me! Should I move on or hold on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

18 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years recently broke up with me saying that she wasn't sure if she was ready for the next step. We've been apart the last 5 months while I've been at university. She said she wanted to use our remaining time apart (3 1/2 ...

Do I bring up how I feel about him or do I leave it unsaid because of the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6278 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - Well I am back again with another problem. I recently broke it off with my boyfriend of 3years. The problem Im having now is with one of my close friends who Ive been talking to online for the past 6 years. (im now 23 and hes 24) He and I were ...

Do long relationships work? I'm moving to New Zealand at the end of this year and my girlfriend is in the UK

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6277 days ago

17 February 2007 (M) - I am 16 and am in love with a girl of 17. We've been going out for 6 months, and are really happy together. However, I've just found out from my parents that we are moving to New Zealand at the end of this year. (We both live relativly near to each ...

I would rather find out that he no longer cared for me than suffer in this limbo.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - Hello Readers, I am desperately in need of your advice. In particular I would appreciate input from people who have experienced meeting their "soul mate" and you can't understand what this is like unless you have been through it. By that I mean hav...

He contradicts himself all the time, what does he REALLY want? I can't get my head around it at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6279 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I had a boyfriend for about 7 months. He was the sweetest guy. He had his flaws, but I loved them all. There are a few things you should know about "John" and I. We live about an hour and a half away from each other. We only got to see each other on ...

My long distance fiancee of 3 years dropped a bombshell - he killed someone 8 years ago!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I'm getting married in July to a man I love so much and have been with for over three years long distance. We met when his job brought him overseas and we have been inseperable ever since. We speak on the phone everyday, sometimes up to 8 hours at a ...

I care about both men in different ways and don't know what to do for the best...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

15 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with this guy that I was dating for 2 and a half years because I didn't feel compatible with him at the time. He was my first everything. He was the sweetest most gentle guy and I knew he loved me but I wasn't quite ready for love. We ...

My friend has moved away and I really have feelings for him, I told him in a letter and this is his reply. What do you think he means?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - Ok I told this guy that I have been with off and on for over two years what I felt. We had just decided to be friends because of his research traveling with school, but I told him that even though we couldnt be together, I loved him, and this is ...

My boyfriend wants to spend some time travelling with the boys first before I join him, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - hi, my boyfriend-26 is goin away soon, i will be joining him after a couple of months coz he wants to spend some time travelling with the boys first... should i be worried? i keep hearing of people who go away and then ring up their other half and ...

Is there hope for our relationship? I'm totally stressed out and don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some help because I'm so confused, heartbroken and I feel as though I'm falling apart. Last week my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs told me he needs "space, can't be in a relationship, doesn't want a commitment" I took this as a really ...

My boyfriend has finally broken up with me because he's too weak to go against his family's wishes. How can I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - Hi All It's Valentine's Day and I'm so broken-hearted. My long distance boyfriend....has finally broken up with me. Not because he doesn't love me, nor want to be with me........but he is too weak to go against his family wishes, and come back...

I love sex, it's my passion and all I seem to want is one night stands. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6281 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - im a girl and sorta in a long distance relationship... but i think the only thing i want out of a man is sex what should i do? for sum reason i have a thing for one night stands which usually end up being 3 night stands cuz i will se the guy a week ...

I have good morals and she has a boyfriend. How can I restrain myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

13 February 2007 (M) - I am currently living in a university dormitory and live on the same floor as a very attractive girl. She and I have many things in common and share similar morals. In fact, we have almost ritually gone to dinner together every night for a while ...

Should i keep the faith and continue waiting or figure out how to cut my losses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6282 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - Me and my ex-girlfriend were going out for 6 yrs. We were long distance for most of that time. Things were real good for both of us until last year. I got out of the military and she was begging me to move to her. I visited her alot but only on ...

I think he likes me but the gf far away has his attentions! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Hay there guys. Got a slight problem your typical girl likes boy, Boy - clueless. I had my eye on this guy for ages. we eventually got talking at some gigs one reason that attracted me to him - music style, wow , i really fall for good taste in m...

I am in a long distance relationship and want to move to be with him. I want a break to get my head round this to make sure I'm doing the right thing. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6284 days ago

11 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years and it is a long distance relationship. we live a little over an hour from each other. I am thinking about moving up there but i think i need to take a break first for a few months to get my ...

How can I get her to put her faith in me that I love her and will never cheat on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

10 February 2007 (M) - We used to have a great and enjoyable relationship with each other where we'd go do all sorts of things all the time. Since school has started, everything changed. Last semester, she spent most of the time with me and things were good (when school ...