New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

121360 questions, 517307 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (3), 2 (5), 3 (4), 5 (3), 6 (2), 7 (2), 8 (2), 9 (6), 10 (2), 11 (5),
12 (1), 13 (1), 14 (4), 15 (4), 16 (1), 17 (2), 18 (7), 19 (4), 20 (3), 22 (4),
23 (5), 24 (3), 25 (2), 26 (3), 27 (1), 28 (2), 29 (7), 30 (4), 31 (1),

Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

First time seeing him ... what should I wear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - hey its been a year and i have been talkin to this guy ever since,btw we met on face book he always wanted to meet up but i delayed it cuz i wanted to be sure of him before i met him but later on i got to know that his best friend knows my family ...

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about hi...

What can I do to let him know that I care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 236 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Alright, I've been with my man for two years now. We've known each other for a very long time. We never have any big fights, but lately things have been looking down for us. Small things that I know can be fixed with a little effort, which we are ...

I just have a feeling he doesn’t like me like that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I met about a year ago and in that year we have became very good friends. I believe I can say he is one of my best friends and recently I've developed a huge crush on him. I denied it to myself for a while, but finally gave ...

How can I convince my long distance gf that we should feel anchored down because we've never met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - First off, Both of the people mentioned in this are 14, just for a little clarification. I met this girl over the internet. We've know each other for about a year now. We live quite a distance from each other. Far enough at least ...

I'm not too keen on him, but I like the attention

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys. I have a question thats similar to one that was recently posted on here, despite a few differences. That one didn't have many answers so I thought I'd give it a shot :) I've been getting to know this guy for some time, through msn. He ...

We met in an online game - he's 8 years older but I think we are in love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Ok so my life is messed up... completely. last year in my spare time i played this on-line game, never spoke to anyone it was really just something to pass the time. One day some random person came up to me and asked if i would help him fight...

I trusted him then but I don't now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I just got in a relationship in jan.. he went away to go to college in early feb so i was thinking to my self should i stay in this relationship.... i also asked him did he want to stay in this relationship and he kind of got mad saying his is on h...

Is there anything that can soothe me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i had a school friend. we joined college together and she introduced me to her new girl friend. i fell in love with tht ga l[say 'mir'] from the 1st sight. well its been almost two years and i still couldn't tell her that i love her. we dont mee...

Is it just about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've become quite friendly with over the past year. He lives quite far away, so I don't see him often. Whenever we're together we act like a couple, with him intiating most things (as I didn't want to seem to keen, as I like him loads) ...

Ultimatum: Answer tonight or done forever

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. For the past year it has all been long distance and it has definitely been trying. We have visited each other a few times during the past year, though. Anyway... We keep going through ...

LDR and I have so many doubts about his love for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I wish you could all give me a little advice, and tell me what you think. I am 30 years old and I've been in a LDR for about 4 years. My bf and I have been through some really ups and down. We have had fight about the distance, trust, dishonesty, ...

Have I gotten too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend that I've gotten VERY close with but we have not yet reached the point of being boyfriend-girlfriend. It's a long distance relationship (about 100 miles). We were supposed to meet over lunch recently when she left me a voice ...

I really think I might be bi but I'm scared to date a chick. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I really have 2 questions 1) I really like this girl and she live in MA and I live in PA. She has A boyfriend but she wants me And I want her. Is it possible to have a long distance relationship like that? Btw I'm 17 she's 21. 2) I've...

Am I being overly sensitive...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey All, SOME CONTEXT: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half now. We have been long distance almost all of that time, the worst was when we were both in different countries for five months and temporarily opened ...

Is it normal for long term long distance relationship to go through periods like this, or are we just not suited to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am hoping to get some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now. We have discussed marriage and the future a lot recently, which has got me thinking about whether this is really me for life. I moved cities 3 ...

We get along perfectly but I don't know if he's the one

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I don't know if my bf and I are working anymore. Our long-distance relationship has drug on for a year and a half now and we've broken up more times than I can count. He loves me so much and he treats me so well. He always says he doesn't think he ...

I like my long distance friend but I still have feelings for my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Ok my current boyfriend is my long distance relationship, and my ex lives right down the street. I like both of them a lot and my ex was my first love. We still have a lot of feelings for each other after so long and it's hard because I miss him a ...

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was ...

My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (?) - Hello Friends! I need some advice. My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other. We have decided to talk to eachother less. Instead of every night, we will talk every other night, but I was really suggesting a longer ...

He lives so far away and if I don't see him soon I'm gonna die!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm Nichole. I have this boyfriend and he lives in California... you see I don't live there, we always talk about what it's going to be like when we're older but I don't care about then, I want him now! I never see him and I love him more ...

I just want her to be direct. How can I get her to talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - I told her that since she lives a few states away from me, when I move, I'm not going to see her until I'm out of school and have a car. She took this as I'm breaking up with her. We've been talking still, but I can't get a word out of her. I can't ...

Do I accept the apology? Or is he just too mean to go back to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Do I forgive him and stay with him? Okay, so my boyfriend and I made an agreement yesterday that he would get a book on verbal abuse since he is verbally abusive to me (he's been telling me he would get it for 2 weeks now), if I would get a webcam ...

He loved me when we couldnt be together, but now that there is a chance for me to live near by he doesn't want me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - How do I know if he has real feelings for me? I met this guy on the internet about 9 months ago. We then started chatting online and webcamming for several months. i then took a chance and flew to Canada and spent a wonderful month with him. ...

I provide food for him when he is with me, but when I am with him he expects me to provide my own food!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I am really angry right now and about this situation, my boyfriend lives 13 mile away from me, so when he comes over to my house he lives there the whole weekend, so from friday night to monday morning my boyfriend will be in my house, he will have ...

Torn between my lover and the dream of traveling. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I need some help on this. i am 22years old and i live in ireland...ive always wanted to go and work abroad and lately ive been thinking alot about it. i have a girlfriend ive been with for 3years and i am completly torn between what to do...i d...

How do you start up a long distance relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I met this girl on a cruise just this spring break. We hit it off really well, I had asked her at dinner if they were going to the club and they said they were. Right before they had shown up I asked for some salsa music so I could dance with my ...

He gave me permission to have sex with other guys! Does he love me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a long disatnce relationship and my boyfriend gave me permission to have sex with other guys. Is this a bad thing or does he love me? I love him very much...

My gut instinct is that he is no longer interested in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my 35 yr old boyfriend in a LDR for just over 18 months. Things started off amazing. He was really into me, and proudly introduced me to all his family and after 6 months he started mentioning moving in together. I felt it was ...

How do I make our phone sex mind-blowing without disturbing everyone in my house

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Alright- so i am in a long distance relationship-- Well for the most part, we see eachother for about 2 weeks between every few months. We will be engaged next year (yay). So we have phone sex as our way of saying "F*ck me hard baby" It's fun but ...

LDR over, she cheated on me, now wants me back...I'm sonsure of this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Oh well, this is going to be a LONG question, so please bear with me and apologies for the length of this. Ok, just about 2 years ago (January 2007) I met this girl. I was a postgrad student at university and she was an exchange student who just...

We both want a baby..but we know we're young!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14, and My boyfriend(16) and I are sure that We want a future together....but the only thing is, We are in a long-distance Relationship. We talk about this all the time and I'm having such a hard time deciding what to do. My Boyfriend is most ...

He is being unreasonable and blames me for distracting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 247 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I would like your opinion on this one. I am in a LD relationship with my bf, but he is down here with me for a week. He told me that he needs to study and that he does not plan on partying which is fine with me; but my brother's wedding is this ...

He doesn't make any time for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I care a lot for my boyfriend, but he doesn't seem to really care about me. It's a long distance relationship so it's hard enough already, but he doesn't call me AT ALL. I recently told him I wanted to talk on the phone at least sometimes and since ...

Can this on/off LDR work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - Is this relationship going to work? My boyfriend and I have been on again/off again for like 3 years. Currently we are together (but not engaged like we used to be). He moved many states away to Florida so he could live in his RV for a lot cheaper ...

In love with soldier and a sailor..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in the worst situation I have ever been my whole entire life, so far. I cannot go by a day without thinking of this troubling situation. My story goes like this: When I was 13 I met a guy trough my brother( his friend)he w...

Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some ...

Why did she suddenly admit that she loves me after all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been friends with this girl since we were teenagers and I've been in love with her since we became friends. It must be thirteen years all in all. She's the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on, we share the same interests, she ...

I feel so down and sad and confused please help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm so confused and dont know what to do at the moment. I met a Swedish girl 4 months ago when I was visiting my parents in Malaysia, I'm based in the UK, now I'm still in Malaysia, on working holiday thing. I met J on the beach, she was supp...

Horny..don't want to cheat but phone sex/photos aren't working for me in this LDR

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I find that I have plenty of opportunities to cheat but I just can't get myself to do it. I moved to cali 3 months ago and well to put it nicely I LOVE sex...I have a boyfriend though and it makes it hard since he still lives in my old town. I have ...

My b/f & best friend have become increasingly close & its starting to unnerve me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - For the past couple of weeks my boyfriend and my best friend have been becoming increasingly friendly. At first I was really happy about it. I mean, my best friend and my bf were getting along but now they constantly text, email and talk to each ...

LDR--breakup..does a month no contact work? Is it natural to have waning feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Me and my long distance girlfriend of 5 years broke up last week and and while i miss her i'm suprisingly not overly torn up about it yet. For those who have been in a LDR you'll know that it has to be preety intense for it to work and this ontop of ...

He was just playing me and I took it serious...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I broke up with my long distance relationship boyfriend last night but the course was caused by me, I do not want him back but I feel guilty. What should I do to let him know I am really sorry for what happened? I mean... how should I approach him ...

What do I do to save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for almost 3 years ( since 17) and for the first almost 2 years it was a long distance relationship. We got engaged while still living in different states and planned on one of us moving. Due to some family problems i was ...

Does she just want to teach me a lesson? Help me out here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've got a long distance relationship with a girl. She has problems and is stressed so I asked if we could just be friends until I got stuff together to come down and be with her. But I made it clear that I wasn't going to cheat on her and she told ...

I'm finding the distance a struggle... any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. I love him dearly, but it seems like we have had nothing but struggles since we began dating. We have been in a long distance relationship from the very beginning. He lives about 3 hours ...

What do you think? Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I just broke up wit my boyfriend yesterday and needed to know if I did the right thing or if I just over reacted. Me and my ex dated for a year which in that year I cheated on him twice but later on told him bout it, and he forgave me. We ...

I seem to get bored with him, should I continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, Im glad i stumbled across this site. I really need some advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now.My BF is wonderful,he treats me like a princess and over the last 5 years his love has grown for me...My feeli...

Does anyone have any advice or even experience of having a baby while with someone in a long distance relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a distance relationship. I am 34 and she 32 years old. We see each other every weekend and are very close. We would both far prefer living together but despite hard efforts I am not doing well in getting a job ...

Will it last even though we will not meet for another year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) - I'm in love but she lives on the other side of the world. I met this girl a year ago, online... she is so gorgeous, genuine, natural, sexy, she makes me laugh and I want to spend all my time with her. The only problem is that she lives on the other ...