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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Profile says looking for friendship. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and i live apart but been together nearly 3 yrs she is on facebook and has commented on her profile she is looking for friendship what does she mean...

It hurts that my boyfriend seems to be moving on so fast!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - My long-distance boyfriend and I broke up last friday, a week ago today. We both want to remain friends, but obviously it will take time. I decided what's best for me is no contact for awhile. At least until I'm a bit stronger, and can handle ...

Weird fantasy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit ...

Can I trust this man to take photos of my girlfriend and her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to ...

LDR advice, I love him so much but he makes me feel guilty just for asking him to talk to me. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Ok so I started dating my boyfriend 6 months ago and we fell MADLY in love, either of us had ever felt such intense feelings before and we were incredibly happy. Then a month and a half later I gave my virginity to him, then a week later he ...

Unrequited love.... I now realize she was my first love, should I write this letter to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - unrequited love My flat mate and me fell for each other at uni three years ago. We had lived together for two years and just got on fantastically well, however despite her being a reasonably attractive girl I must admit that I didn't find her sexu...

So if I love him, do I try and get him back? Or is this just a phase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So here's my story. I started dating this guy my senior year of high school. Then we went to two different colleges and continued a long distance relationship for another 2 1/2 years. The distance sucked, but we loved each other and wanted to make ...

I want to hook up with my long-distance friend, but we're both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - So i have a boyfriend... but i am in love with another guy who lives across the country from me who also has a girlfriend. Well i am heading to where he lives to see my family and him. He is one of my best friends in the whole world. And i was ...

Should I let him go that far before I go away, or wait until I return?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months plus but we are going to be separated for 3 months. Because I am going for a summer programme for 3 months in a few days time. And yesterday, I was in his room and we make out and things started t...

I want to move to a better life, but I don't want to lose everyone I know

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - **for the last several months my sister and i have been planning to move to north carolina, the plan was she was leaving in july with her husband and kids and i was going in december. i was very excited to leave and start a new life, away from all ...

I have a bad feeling about my boyfriend moving out on his own

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - alrighty , my boyfriend moved away for work about 2 months ago , we've had our rough spots but so far everythings going good , the problem is when he got there and till right now hes been living with his uncle but now hes talking about moveing out ...

Should I get out of this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Hi all. My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. In this time we loved each other -- I still do, and she does but there is problems, which I'll explain ahead -- and we even had a baby boy (4 months now). There is a lot going...

Did I take this the wrong way or was he really just tired?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I have a lover who lives in another town but works long hours, when we dont see each other we do email each other every night,and this can go on all evening.Anyway we were meant to meet up this friday but couldn't because he had to cover someone ...

Is there anyway I can help my on-line friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - Im having contact with this girl I met trough the internet for about 3 years or so now, first everything was ok and just for fun.. but I have fallen in love with her.. but that isnt the real problem, the thing is that she might have some mental ...

Does my old crush like me? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - When i was in primary school I used to have a crush on this guy since I was 6 till i was 15. He was such a nice guy my parents got on well with his and my sister used to be friends with his older brother.We were always quite friendly towards each ...

What should I do to keep myself occupied while he is away? I'm determined to make it work this time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Now, I won't lie to you, this is a very peculiar relationship predicament I find myself in. And it's as painful as it is unusual. I first saw this man several years ago, when I was very young indeed. And he was, well, not very young. I watched him ...

I've tried to forget for 3 years but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hey Im so confused about what to do I go to this place on holiday, and for three years i've fancied this lad that lives there like mad. Two years ago, i started talking to him and got his number. During that two years so much has happened, he tol...

I don’t want to get over her, I just want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - Right, OK. This is probably going to be very long so I apologise for that... I’ve recently split with my girlfriend. We were in a relationship for four years. I can’t stop loving her and thinking about her all the time and it’s got me really do...

In a twisted situation......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months 16 days and for a period of time,recently,i felt indifferent towards him and wasn't calling him like i did before. Before all this, i had developed a lot of affection and like for a guy who ...

Is there a chance we'll be okay again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I had to move away, a few months ago, and things were still okay between us, this time last year he had asked me to marry him, I'm 17, he's 20 I know it's young but anyway. We've been ver...

I don't know if he likes me anymore after my friends started texting him

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25 April 2010 (F) - I got asked out by my cousins friend and I said yes, but we live on opposite sides of the country so we decided not to date until I went back to where he lives in June since I'm going to stay with my grandparents for the summer in his town. When h...

Am I a bad person for cutting off contact with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - I\'m always making the effort ringing and chasing my long distance boyfriend who has been verbally abusive to me at times and doesn't make the effort anymore. I'm finding it difficult to let go as he sends texts and rings and I reply/go running to ...

I lost myself in the relationship at first, but am over that now. What can I do, or not do, to allow things to progress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - ok, here's the deal... We started dating 6 months ago (long distance)... Things were on fire , running at 100 mph, we had discussed him moving to my state, he has 2 kids in his state and my son is off to college this fall so we made plans...

Pregnant and hated, but my ex wants to take the baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - so me and my ex dated for 2 years... it wasnt the best relationship, i loved him but he wasnt too affectionate and we had fights because i was jelous of his ex who was always in the way. he recently moved to another country and after 2 weeks of ...

Miss my boyfriend but end up exhausted by trying to keep myself busy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Morning peeps. Just looking for some uplifting advice really. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past 4 years. We see eachother every few months which is better than it used to be as we used to see eachother twice a ye...

Is there anyway we can maintain a good and healthy long distance relationship while I'm on a summer exchange program?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are happily attached for about 2 months already. But now I am going for a summer exchange programme overseas for a period of 3 months. I really feel very insecure about long distance relationship and so does he. As he is not s...

2 guys and I"m unsure which to chose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - I have somehow managed to get involved with 2 guys at the same time and now I don't know what to do. The first guy I've been seeing for 18 months, with most of that as long distance (flying back and forth a lot). He helped me get out of an abusiv...

Letting go when I love him with all of my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a guy that I've been sleeping with off and on for 6 years. We've been friends for almost 9 years and I've always had really strong feelings for him, but not until recently did it get more serious for me. He is literally my best ...

My emotionally unstable ex-girlfriend wants to get back together, how do I say no without crushing her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 April 2010 (M) - Okay, so, I ended a long distance relationship that I had with a girl the next state over from me, we were together for 3-months, I ended it in February. I ended it for a number of reasons, the main one being that I couldn't cope with the distanc...

17 and wanting to move out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - hey there i have a problem and im only 17 so its hard to solve this one cuz i cant legally move out yet, but ok so ALL my friends and my boyfriend live in a town 20 min away and we all go to school together...and well i stay at my bfs house al...

Does my girlfriend want to take time out from me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

21 April 2010 (?) - Here's my situation: I am in a long distance relationship with a woman, and things are as good as they can be from a distance. We meet online every night, and talk on the phone every day, and we have visited each other several times, She's in The ...

Met a nice guy and we hit it off, but I have a few worries...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - I was out in town the other night and met this really nice guy in a club. We seemed to get on pretty well and exchanged numbers. Since that night we have been texting neach other everyday and he has asked me to meet up with him when I get back ...

"Nice to meet you" - long-distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - If two people meet (alright, juniors in college), but they live far away (we're talking around 5-6 hours), and they hang out, hook up, go back home, and start talking a lot, everyday, and it's already been over a month, and they're making multiple...

Which scholarship to take - be close to her now or very close to a year from now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

20 April 2010 (M) - Hi, i need advice. I'm a 19 year old from Ireland. It might sound crazy but I've fallen madly in love with a girl from America who I met online. She's 17. She's from Texas but lives elsewhere now, but is moving back to Texas this summer. I really l...

My boyfriend moved to another country and I have to initiate all the contact. Should I try to let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - Hello guys . I was in a relationship with a guy .i met him last year .but 4 months ago he left to usa with his family . when he left at first he was so kinder .and used to call me and he used to say that i wanna come back there and be with you . bu...

How do I get back my sexual desires for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 16 months now and going strong. We love each other to death, but there's a problem. out of the first year together we spent three quarters apart due to the fact that he's studying overseas. I have never done ...

Would this be classed as cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, with him living abroad for the last two and a half. It had been really tough him being away and we have been through some real up and downs but now he is coming back and we are closer than ever and ...

Am I a friend or someone more, to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I have a situation in which I can not understand where it will go. Recently an old ex from high school contacted me after 8 yrs of no word (Bad breakup). Since then we have hung out twice in the last month. I would love for it to be more but she is ...

Dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with my girl for over two months, how do we survive, what are the dos and don'ts,because i have heard that it rarely works. If u have been in one before,your help we be appreciated. ...

Why does he ignore me altogether?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - I was dating a guy for about 6 months. Recently, he broke up with me. I was pretty confused and hurt. We had a pretty healthy relationship, great sex, and a great connection. He broke up with me the day before he moved a couple of towns away to "The ...

I am having a very hard time maintaining interest in other men. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Late last year I was approached by a man in a pub and he offered to buy me a drink. I initially declined but my friends pushed me to accept so I did; at the end of the night we exchanged numbers (he asked, I gave). We began to text, then spend some ...

Should I stay with my bf or start searching for someone who treats me the way I treat my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - I've been having some doubt lately. My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years, in a long distance relationship. He's my first boyfriend, and I've never had much experience with guys... the truth is I feel like there's something missin...

I have a boyfriend, and I love another... just as equally, I assume?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been having an issue for about a month. I am in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) and I really only do believe in LDR's more than I do in real-life-all-the time-dating. The situation: I have a lovely boyfriend in Denmark and...

After all these months, should I continue to wait for him? He was my first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - i hav a bf we hav 6 years seeing each other he lives 80miles away frm me....11 months ago he said he had to leave to another state for 4 months for work 4 months went by then 5 months n finally i got just a letter...after 8 months he txt me that he ...

Should we get married when he gets out of bootcamp?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years, Im 18 and he is about to turn 20. He recently joined the army and this has brought up a lot of conversation about the future and that conversation always leads to the marriage discussion. We love ...

Is it right to fall in-love to a guy friend even if you're in a relationship right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I have this question that keeps bugging my mind..I am in a relationship right now but we're on a long distance relationship..It seems like our relationship right now is kinda shaky or I may not healthy anymore..We're almost 2 years and 10 months ...

He never has the time to talk to me anymore, should I just end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I am in a distance relationship for 3 months now i love my boyfriend so much and he say he loved me too but there is a big BUT it seems like he don't love me anymore because he doesn't have time for me. he say everytime that he is busy he don't want ...

LDR problems--boyfriend says he was happy until he met me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - Hi all, I need some serious advice on how to deal with my boyfriend. We have been in a long-distance relationship since last July. I love my boyfriend dearly and ended a 6-year relationship with someone who loved me very much and treated me like ...

He's moving to America on a scholarship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - I'm told so and I also believe that I'm very mature for my age and I have been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years now. We are deeply in love and we both can't stand being apart from one another. However this year, just before we ...

My boyfriend is a smoker, I'm an ex-smoker, and now I just can't stand it. Should I stop going over to his house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Well I am in a long distance relationship. we have been together for a year, and so far it's worked pretty well. My BF ussually comes to see mee, and after all this time i started going to his place more often, because I want to show him I want to ...