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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Did he want to break up with me? Why not just tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4924 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I was in a casual relationship during the last seven months. He was so happy with me and always caring. It was a long distance relationship and we knew from the beginning we cannot have something serious. I have feelings for me and i thought...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

My emotions are back and forth with my LDR!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4924 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 3 months now. We only see each once every two weeks as he lives 150 miles away from me. The problem is I seem to be torn between commitment phobia and separation anxiety, eg on our last date. At first I was totally happ...

Who is the bad guy now between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - I spent the night with my bf last night. We just see each other twice a month as it would be expensive if we see each other on a weekly basis but we chat, call and text everyday. He lives 2 hrs away. Here's the thing, when we met, he had just star...

Long distance, things to talk about

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30 October 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm 25 and during the summer I started dating an 18 year old girl. I know it sounds like a big difference but I felt that we really connected so we thought it was fine. The major problem is that she lives in LA and just started college,...

How do I get my girlfriend to realize this guy isn't backing off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend (18 y.o.) and I (19 y.o.) have been dating for 4 years. It is a long distance relationship (about 3.5 hours distance), but I drive down to see her every weekend. I grew up with her (I've known her for 7 years), so I sho...

Scared of sex because of his big penis!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - Hi, So i ended up dating my best friend of almost half my life. LDR so you know but we're really close, and we know EVERYTHING to the core...But when i knew how 'big' he was i got suddenly scared to have sex. I know im almost 16 and it wont happ...

I'm worried that he will go off with another girl for Halloween!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupids!!! Pls help me.. im getting afraid if my LDR bf will go for dating on holloween day. Hes in australia and im in singapore.. we love each other so much and he never cheat on me before through our relationship for a year.. he came to me in ...

What should I do about my Ex LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I think Im still in love with my Ex ldr. And she wrote me back on msn last night and saying that she was sry about some thing I wrote her on there. And she wrote me back on msn but she still wont call me still but she called me 3 weeks ago ...

I'm afraid I don't know him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Friends, My boyfriend is in the Marines. We've been dating for four months now but have been best friends for going on 6 years. I thought I had always been in love with him so you can imagine my extreme happiness when we finally started dating. ...

Stress taking its toll with LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - My boyfriend of two years and i have just become a long distance relationship due to college. We live 4 hours apart and the new surroundings and stress-ors have taken a tole on us. Neither of us are losing love for each other but because of the ...

Any ideas why he cut off communication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Earlier this year I met this guy and we became friends. There was nothing between us as we were more aquiantances than friends. We exchnaged the odd message now and then but thats pretty much it. Fast forward a few months and we found ourselves ...

Should I reach out to her, or should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I had a great long-distance friend, someone I always hoped I'd be more than friends with though that never worked out. We knew each other over 2 years. I've always been private but with her.....I just felt a comfort I've NEVER felt with anyone...

Torn between what is and what could be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - It’s long, but the depth is needed. First I would like to start with a back history.. My current boyfriend and I have dated once before about 3 years ago. We lived together for about a year and one night he kicked me out due to a phone call from ...

Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relatio...

I may not see my LDR guy for 2 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i'm in a long distance relationship with d man of my dreams.i might not be seeing him till about 2years from now.i don't want d way we feel for each other 2 change before then.how can I make this work?...

LDR g/f wants a break but says she still loves me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I met my girlfriend four months ago on a mission trip to Ukraine. It was a very emotional experience visiting orphanages with children with special needs. Apart from that experience I met her and we had a connection right away and built up our ...

I'm heartbroken at being dumped because we got uninvolved with each other's daily lives... I need to hear some different perspectives!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Ive had a relationship before, and ive been dumped before. This time its worse. Basically, ive been going out with him for a while now, and it might just be me but i get used to things, i get attatched and when they leave i cant cope myself...

Girlfriend moving to Brazil - She says she loves me but I need advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - I am 27 and have been in a relationship with a 24 year old woman for 3 months. We have done so much together and our relationship has been developing fast. We go on trips together, enjoy the outdoors, and just love being together. She says that she ...

Should I walk out of her life? She doesn't want an LDR and has a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (M) - So, i fell for this girl and it was the biggest mistake of my life because when she found it hard to have a long distance relationship she broke up with me. 3 days later she got a new boyfriend and it hurt me, really did kill me inside that i ...

What to do in this lose/lose situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - iam so worried and i really need help. me and my boy fiend are in a long distance relationship (we talk on phone every night since we have met and text each other all day). he loves me and i die on him. my mom and his whole family know about our ...

Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to ...

My LDR guy is coming to visit and he wants to have sex with me, but I have no idea how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - well im from NZ and im having a LDR with a guy from Australia. we've met once when i was in Australia, well he is comeing to visit me in 2 days and he'll be staying in a hotel and he wants to have sex with me. im ready to have sex with him but the ...

LDR boyfriend present ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - I'm in a LDR. It's great! I want to send him something for his birthday that's coming up soon. Does anyone have any ideas? i need as many ideas as i can get. Lots of ideas please! thank you!...

Should I go for the long distance guy or overlook my feelings for him and try harder on my relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

27 October 2010 (F) - Okay, so i have a boyfriend who i have been with for 2 weeks, but weve liked each other for a while. i really like him and want to be with him and all my friends and my family likes him. he helped me through my last relationship with my cheating ...

Should I be worried about guys who work on these cruises? Are they playing lots of girls all of the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to ...

Hopelessly single! Should I call my long distance interest instead of texting him as I'm in his town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I live in a small town where dating is a bit of a challenge. The population of decent single men is pretty limited. So I decided to take a risk and try a popular online dating website. I began emailing a guy who is pretty great. We then exchanged ...

LDR boyfriend coming to see me and wants me to sleep with him but I don't want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - I live in Australia and my boyfriend lives in India. Now he is coming to visit me in Australia and wants me to stay with him in a hotel. I don't want this coz i dn't want to hurt my parents since we are not married. How do i tell him this? I tried ...

I see no point in a LDR for 3 years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

26 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is going overseas for work for 3 years. Should I initiate a break up? I see no point in a 3 years long distance relationship...

I love my girlfriend, and want to propose to her, but now I'm having doubts

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

26 October 2010 (M) - Hi all, I am madly in love with my girlfriend, I'll call Tracy, of nearly two years. I've been wanting to propose to her (she knows this), but lately, her actions have been giving me doubts. In a nutshell, I think she's is obsessed with th...

Does she need all the cheating details?

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26 October 2010 (M) - so I am 18 and in college and my girlfriend who i care about very much is 17 and still in high school. about two months ago I made a horrible mistake and cheated on her with another girl. I kissed her and got a hand job and also fingered her for a ...

How do I keep myself from making bad decisions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I have problems. Problems that most teenage girls don't have. As weird as this is to tell people, I'm a frequent masturbater and I have been for years. While that might be sort of normal, I just started having sex a few weeks ago. I'm 19 and have an ...

LDR-I don't think he even enjoys talking to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - So I've written about my guy before. But pretty much we are in a long distance relationship, we began dating in college. I'm in grad school about to finish and he is working for a law firm 1000 miles away. First he was nervous about passing th...

Should I trust the guy I met on a cruise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

25 October 2010 (F) - I met a guy on cruise that I was on. He worked on the cruise itself. If anyone knew that he was even speaking to me that much he would get fired immediately. Every night we would meet in secret and just talk / hang out. He was never disrespectful to ...

What to do about the ex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Me and my ex had a long distance relationship, she didnt like it even though it was just an hour train trip, so she had doubts whenever i went home so she ended it next day after i seen her. she turned nasty 2 days later saying she didnt love m...

Losing the love of my life because of my stressful life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 5 years. I had to move out of our city to NYC for grad school. We've been apart for the last 2 but it seemed to be working out bc we would see each other about every 6 week. Recently I just started school and it's been ...

Our LDR seems to be self destructing!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I need some sound advice... I have been a relationship for almost 1.5 years now. My boyfriend loves me a lot;and i love him a LOT too. But our relationship seems to be self - destructive...its a long distance rel'ship for one. And two, we ke...

I Feel Like I'm Going To Lose The Love Of My Life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I'm in desperate need of help. i was in a long distance relationship with the love of my life. it was difficult and still would be if we were together. she living in canada and me living as an illigal here in the u.s. because of my parents bringing ...

Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - Is this considered cheating on my long distance boyfriend? We are in a LDR in different countries in Europe. We are both in university. I am supposed to go for a walk with a guy I've met recently in my uni. He's fun, I've had dinner with him and ...

How can I get him to see things from my side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

23 October 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy in another country. I am planning to go there to see him, because we want to spend time together. The thing is that its cheaper for me to just buy him a ticket to come to my country, but he says he doesn't want me ...

Has he really moved on? Do I still stand a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - I will try to keep this as short as I can. I would really appreciate any advice. My ex and I were together for about 5 years and we were engaged for about 2. He is in the military so for some time we were in a long distance relationship. About a ...

What should I expect from this visit? We are about to embark on a long-distance relationship, I hope!

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22 October 2010 (M) - Finally, I met a wonderful girl. We were both in the same place doing an internship this past summer. She quickly became one of the best friends I've ever had, and we did everything together over the summer. The problem was, she was in a ...

How can I forgive him for moving away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

22 October 2010 (F) - How do I move past the pain? My boyfriend was with me for a year and then left me to go to university 250 miles away. I'm at university but i stayed at home and i can only see him every three-six weeks. We used to spend every single day together...

Help, my girlfriend may not love me! Suspicious things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I think my gf does not like me..... To start the story off we met through friends. By giving us each others number. We then hit it off we txt all the time and every night chat on phone for average 2hours (once 7hours) via this voda sim. We live in ...

Having bad anxiety in this long distance relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years he is 24 and I am 21. I love him more than anything, and I know he is the one, and the same goes for him. However..he has been 11 hours away from me since I have ...

Will my calling her so often take anything out of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - i and my fiancée knew each other from 2 years... and last month we got engaged... it is an arrange relation since our both families were very good friends... now i have moved to london for my mba... we both were very depressed while departing... few ...

I'm confused by these latest texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I had a FWB for months, but it was certainly more than sex. He lives abroad so we do not see each other that often. He started to say that the sex bit confused him and he was not able to see things straight. But he also said he finally under...

My long distance relationship has problems.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 11/2 yrs. We were in a distant relationshp 2 hrs. He was trying hard and took turns traveling to see each other. I had been going through my own thing, graduated from college and could not find a job for 8 ...

He seems too good to be true and I'm very scared of losing him. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Wel i'm dating this charming and respctful guy and we ar in a long distance relationship we normaly see each after a period of time.. sometimes i usually have this feeling of doubting myself and this thing keep on coming, we even discussd it but ...

Loved him, got dumped, got over him, then he came back. But the distance and doubts make me wonder....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

20 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello again, I have written here a few times over the past year asking for advice about my ex and the depression I was going through. He had moved back to his hometown 4 hrs away and told me he did not want to have a long distance re...